>be me, gay guy>go on dating app>meet pretty normal looking guy who has some stuff in common with me like autism hobbies>invite him to hang out, make it clear I don't want sex on the first date before I get to know him>he shows up and we watch some anime together>have a good time talking to him but he seems a bit off>like he's just kinda perpetually anxious>I know some people just have social anxiety and I like hanging out with him so I invite him to an outdoor cafe on 2nd date>he shows up wearing the same baggy sweatshirt he wore to the first date even though it's like 85 degrees outside>ask him why he doesn't take it off and he says he gets chilly easily>really awkward the whole rest of the date>invite him on a 3rd date anyways>we play some street fighter because we both like it>neither of us are very good at it but it's still a good time>after we finish a set I ask if I can kiss him>he says yes>pull him in close for a kiss>feel his chest>he has tits>suddenly it all clicks>ask him if he's trans>he starts freaking out>stays he's on estrogen to treat gender dysphoria but doesn't consider himself a woman or present as one>says he really likes me and asks if we can still be boyfriends>tell him I need some time to think about thingswhat do I do?
>>43809874>>stays he's on estrogen to treat gender dysphoria but doesn't consider himself a woman or present as onehes just like me frfr>what do I do?you say you're gay, i think at the very least you should make it clear that you are attracted to men. its likely that they don't want to be seen as a man, if they have gender dysphoria, so you kinda need to have some sort of conversation there.if you are bi, who cares? doesn't really matter either way imo
>>43809874Why are you posting about me on an anonymous imageboard?
>>43809901I am gay but if he looks like a man and is ok with me treating him as a man what's the problem?
>>43809874fuck the boy out of her or let me do it
>>43810242You can use your brain. Rub the cells together vigorously. The problem will appear
>>43809874>what do I do?Ghost her and put "no pooners" in your profile
>>438102661: I'm gay, I like men2: he's not a boy he's like 253: gay sex doesn't make you less of a man and implying it does is homophobic.>>43810304he's not a pooner he's a male on estrogen
>>43810361>he's not a pooner he's a male on estrogenGhost him and put "no retards" in your profile.
>>43810242saying you are okay with being treated as a man, and actually being okay with being treated as a man, these are two very distinctly different things. i am a firm advocate of two people loving each other if feelings are mutual between them. Yet, i also know how tranners be, and as one, i know that i'd be flustered if someone found me worthwhile romantically, even if they saw me as a man, despite my immense desire to never be seen as such.it may well be projection on my part, but if they are literally taking estrogen, and have gender dysphoria, i feel as though they don't want to be seen as a man.idk tho, i can only truly express things from my perspective.>>43810286it is very difficult for people outside of someone's experience to understand their mindset.this is the case for anyone, i don't even mean this in a pretentious and dismissive way like most do when saying this.
>>43810242The mind of a transphobic moid sure is something. Have you ever been in a relationship longer than 90 days before?
>>43810361No one's being homophobic here but if you want to get involved in trying to detransition this boymoder, go right ahead. See what kind or experience that is
