>>43810412
why do you cheat? i also cheated once and would never do it again, it was just for that relationship specifically

>>43810412
It’s okay, I’m a virgin. At least you had sex before.

>>43810412
give a description of the person you cheated with and one of your current partner
>t curious

>>43810416
Because there were guys who had crushes on me for years and years before I got a bf and who continued to pursue me and I felt too guilty not to give into them when they got upset about it.
All of the cheating happened online.

>>43810444
>I felt too guilty not to give into them when they got upset about it
im also like this and wouldve probably cheated in your position as well. dont feel too bad about it, you didnt cheat out of malice you cheated because you wanted to appease people. its okay

>>43810479
thanks but I'm not sure if I can absolve myself like that.

>>43810490
why not?

>>43810507
Well, I haven't told the guy I'm with anything about it. I know I should but I don't want to imagine even how that'd hurt him to find out.

>>43810528
just get it over with, lying will weigh you down even more. you did a bad thing and there are consequences but dont be so hard on yourself

>>43810540
You're probably right but I don't know if this is something I'll be able to do for a while.

>>43810553
how come?

>>43810563
because I'm a weak person who had avoidance as a coping mechanism for problems

>>43810572
hmm im the same way so its hard for me to give a good input. im very apathetic now so i can just easily confront things when ive done something bad. i hope you find it in you to admit what you did nona

>>43810581
thanks...

>>43810412
I have cheated in every relationship I have been in but I am trying to change.

>>43810540
No lying is not a big deal what someone doesn’t find out can’t hurt them. The morally correct thing to do is to keep lying doing what you want and then there is no weight to carry