so you want to scissor your masc clits together? grind extremely manly vaginas?

>>43820740
doesnt no one ever irl actually scissor, thought it was all pornbrained shit

I don't actually know or care

>>43820772
aight bro, just tryna get some actual help but honestly shouldnt expect it on here

bumping because im genuinely desperate for help on this

how the hell do you not know how to fuck

>>43820999
we're both dickless and im a virgin and dont look at lesbian shit

>>43820721
I'll give you some actual advice because nobody else is going to lol

This is going to sound unsexy, but you're going to want to have conversations beforehand about what you both are comfortable with, what you're interested in doing, what you're interested in being done to you. If you haven't talked about having sex before, you can always float it as a hypothetical and then "slip" that it's something you really want.

It's ok to use porn as a reference, within reason. You'll figure out what works as you go along, but starting off with a basic foundation for how you both think about sex and what kinds you want and don't want, especially as trans people. We have less of a "template" to work off during first sexual encounters, so laying a template down manually with each other first can help it run smoother and help you both feel more confident.

Lastly, your first time having sex is probably not going to be super great and thats fine. It'll (hopefully) be fun and you'll get more experienced with time. Every awkward moment now is an opportunity to get it just right the next time.

If you're looking for suggestions on how to even have sex as two trans men at all, it's hard to give advice without knowing what kinda shit you guys are into. But mutual masturbation is an easy way to start. Jerking each other off is great too. You can try scissoring and call it frotting so it feels less lesbian and weird. Strap-ons are great too, don't worry about getting an expensive prosthetic or anything for now, just go to the nearest sex shop and buy the cheapest, smallest on there. Oh yeah - going to a sex shop together is actually a great way to facilitate conversations about what you're both interested in trying. And its just a fun date as well.

Anyway, watching porn together is another idea. This is pretty common for couples and it's fun. You can get handsy during it and shit if you want to, too.

I'm high as fuck after work so I hope this made sense. Good luck anon

Just jerk and suck each other's clits off, it's not complicated lmao. Tbh better look elsewhere to get more detailed descriptions of how to do those specific actions. You can also do make-believe and talk as tho you have penises when you do those things. Anyways ngl be lighthearted/playful if it's your first time, it will be less stressful

>>43821810
thank you a lot anon for helping me

>>43820721
If you need to be told how to have sex you shouldn't be having it

>>43822356
im just extremely scared of coming off as too pornbrained