genuinely how do you fix a failed transition step by step or is it failed forever
>>43820735ExerciseEat wellLearn to take it a day at a timeFocus on what you can fix through effort and figure out how to do thatBook surgeries (ffs waitlists can be long)Anna if you put in the work you will make it but you need to do that and not be defeatistGet away from this place it rots your soul if you're not careful Please you can make it you will make it just get a Starbucks job and get on those FFS waitlists
Oooh my godYou go outside and be brave and get over your shit melody posterStep by step? Here you fucking go1. Get a femme haircut2. Trim your eyebrows if necessary3. Go to a wardrobe/thrift store and get clothes4. Go outside and she/her your lifeThats it thats all there is too it you might be clocky but you'll always be clocky. Thats part of the life baby.You only see yourself as a monster because the plebians call you a monster. Claim your monstrosity for yourself and may the world quake in your beauty
>>43820735realise thats it ok to be who you are even though you are flawed and imperfectall you have control over is what you think aboutjust try to be you, which isnt necessarily your ideal self or the way you want others to see you. its easier when you believe that other people want the best for you and dont see you as lesser for not being what you think you should be.
>>43820763>>43820778this is super vague :| i need specifics and i would rather get raped than work at starbucks and there isnt even one near me ANYWAY
>>43820735Looksmax but in a tranny way
>>43820810Well your post is super vague. What is it about your transition that hasn’t gone as you’d hoped? Be specific.
>>43820810Amazon then? What state are you in? You might be able to get on medicaid and surgemaxx that way. Seriously Anna all you need is FFS and you can start girlmoding. Hell you could girlmode without it if you do it right.
>>43820901by failure i mean i had 0 changes after 14months>>43820922im on a insurance already but my name is just there i dont own it and the first job i had i almost died so im not a working type of person anymore
>>43821121you need to work to live to be independent Anna Find a job you can work for now. What state, again? Or what's your insurance plan? I can see if yours covers FFS.
>>43821129i wont say my state and idk the exact plan but its called blue cross blue shield
>>43821200BCBS varies by state. BCBS of Washington covers everything while, say, Florida covers nothing (afaik).
>>43821412i live in a tranny friendly state but i dont have the courage or money to do anything bureaucratic like surgery
>>43821472jfc which statejust call a doctor and schedule it this requires the bare minimum of effort
>>43821494im not saying my state u creep and i dont have anything to travel or pay a surgeon
>>43821516omg the whole point of insurance is that it covers surgerythis is why "your transition failed" you have life handed to you on a platter and you pitch a fit and throw it awayyou might be able to go to the literal best surgeons in the world for pennies on the dollar but you won't even let anyone else help you, let alone try and help yourself
>>43821537What u don’t understand is that surgery wouldn’t be 0$ just cuz insurance and I don’t have money to travel like what u think is easy for you isn’t for me
>>43821665work a fucking job all you have to do is meet your deductible and you're goldenYou have to put in 10% of the effort of the average tranny so either do the work or stfu and go fuck yourself
>>43821537hey, dumbassthis same schizo keeps making the same thread over and over againhundreds of anons have given her a literal book's worth of adviceIT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU SAYthis retarded lazy bitch will just say "WELL I CAN'T" so stop wasting your fucking time
>>43821714sorry but I'm also retarded just of the kind that tries to help mentally ill dumb fucks like her
>>43821494Not her, but how in the world do you book a surgery? I talked to a dr who prescribed me medication about it and he was like uh IDK (very trans friendly dr too). Do you like have to research which surgeon you want on your own and call them? Do you call insurance like some people tell me you do? IDK what to do.
>>43821743basically find a surgeon that you like and search them up onlineMost have websites that you can either submit a form in or call to schedule. I can give you a short list of surgeons if you want based on quality and wait-list time.
>>43821756Please, very overwhelmed looking at it.Any far South East US surgeons that are good?
>>43821705kys>>43821714Saying get a job over n over like a bot isn’t serious advice
>>43821770>black>dumb>lazy>refuses to workyou ever wonder where those stereotypes come from?
>>43821782>not working to make rich people richer is dumb and lazy This is why jews replaced u
>>43821770>>43821822If you want to be even remotely happy in life, you need money. If you want money, you need a job. There is no way around this, there is no alternate route, there is no compromise, you need to get a job, you need to get a job, you need to get a job. If you do not get a job now, you will inevitably be forced to get a job later down the road when you need money for something.
>>43821766Elda Fisher in NC is good but obviously the best ones are in CA. What's your insurance plan? If you don't have insurance Starbucks, Amazon, and T-Mobile offer insurance that can let you go to basically anyone.
>>43821995It is doxy, do you have somewhere non public I can message you?
>>43822022discord good?
>>43822024Yes it is.
>>43821121>by failure i mean i had 0 changes after 14monthsImpossible, go look at a picture of you from before you started and compare to right now.
