I've been boymoding for so long as a passoid that I'm not sure if I'm even boymoding anymore. I haven't changed name or legal documentation at all, I don't wear particularly feminine clothes, but everyone who comes into my workplace just naturally defaults to female when I interact with them, so it's not really something I worry about. At this point I just feel like a woman with "an odd name for a woman." Am I stealing valor by calling myself a boymoder