How does one like.. ask another party if there's interest. There's been alot of interactions that make me think they are interested. The biggest one is we once stargazed laying down in a golf course we went to. We smoked a joint and I mentioned how freezing I was. They said they'd offer their hand but it was just as cold. But they grabbed my hand anyway and put it in their jacket pocket, rubbed at my hand hard and said FRICTION. I don't remember much but I think they said to touch their belly. Idk man. I chalk it up to the weed.But we've had other like. Questionable interactions. I think I may be retarded. Maybe they thought I WAS the one not interested because I couldn't pick up on their hints. I want to ask outright if there's anything. Is texting something like this too retarded. Should it be something I say in person? I'm lost... I haven't crushed like this in a while..
>>43836346Cute story, maybe you can ask or say it's cute or something next time something like that happens? I'm shy and terrible with social interactions too, so I guess I can't give good advice.
The more I think about it the more I feel stupid like, it's obvious they do? Then I think some more and un-convince myself? There was an interaction at work. I forget what I'd been saying to a coworker, but used a word that sounded similar to crush. So the guy goes "Oh crush?" And I was so taken back I stopped the convo w the other coworker and went something like "huh bro what?" To which he laughed. I doordash us drinks often. He once was something like "you don't gotta do all that" and my dumb ass said "I mean deserved".. like that's blatant right! I thought that'd go somewhere but it didn't. Another time we were on discord w friends and I'd joked something saying we hate him. He went like "I could show our dms right now man" (referencing when I said he deserved free treats!!)So it's like.. he's gotta know, right?! That there's something?!
I don't want to push anything.. i dread making him uncomfortable. I feel like I've been kinda clear I like him. I treat him alot (drinks food). We have weirdly similar interests. Like we play tomodachi and watch Jojo at work.. I always be laughing at him, we're always together at work.. but is this just friendship!??!?!!?He also makes like joking/passing/offhand comments about big asses. Which i have! (Im uncomfortable about that desu but doesnt it speak to if he does like me??) Agh! I'm so!
>>43836467Sorry this turned into fag posting. This is a good idea though I think. If I blatantly comment on something of him/his calling it cute or smth. I'm kinda waiting for him to make a move but I think he's waiting on me...
>>43836590>>43836705>work togetheri wonder if theres a lot of gossip about you two among other coworkers kek
>>43836715You're gonna need to kill yourself.
Here's the kicker..... he's a pre-t trans man and I'm a stealth fully passing trans man
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