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/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all homosexual cis women AND trans women to discuss lesbian relationships and topics TOGETHER as a community.

Report and ignore bigotry, drama, and trolling.

QOTT
>what is your type or ideal partner? Describe
>what does your ideal relationship look like?

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harglub owes me sex
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Can y’all be normal for once? jfc
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Ideal partner has pretty lips and smile, is soft and cuddly. Sweet eyes. Funny. Tomboyish. Passionate.

Ideal relationship is full of a perfect balance of relaxation at home and exploring both nature and other cultures together. No matter where, her arms feel like returning home.
>>43841103
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I don't know how to describe my ideal partner without being a pig. Anyways I hope she makes me laugh a lot and is intelligent and has a gentle personality. I need gentle because I'm a big pushover.

For relationship I just wanna have lots of barbeques and we live in a comfy home. During christmas we wear matching sweaters.
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how do i break up with my gf so i can date someone else
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>>43841169
For starters, don’t tell her the reason why. Also, do it asap.
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>>43841193
yeah but how
do i just block her on everything?
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>>43841201
Go "I need to talk to you" and then have the conversation with her. Blocking and all that nobody can tell you what to do, it's your call
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>>43841201
what the fuck no
explain to her that you fell out of love with her and it's better to end things, it's not fair for either of you to be in a relationship where one of you doesn't love the other
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>>43841201
Ghosting is evil, just talk to her. Once you’ve broken up, you can block her.
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6'1 BWC tigress transbian x 4'9 asian cisbian who thinks she's low libido
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>>43841260
what does tigress mean in this context
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>>43841260
swap who's cis and trans and now we're talking
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>>43840761
My ideal partner would be empathetic while also being grounded. She would be able to understand the world and how we fit in it, as well as how to properly treat others. I love expressive eyes. I fall especially hard for women with black hair and big asses.

My ideal relationship would be two professionally minded people who also know how to separate work from home. I think I would go insane having to pretend to be working 24/7.
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>>43841201
You shouldnt tell her anything until youve secured a new gf/bf and have a good exit strategy.. act completely normal, tell her you love her and then spring it on her one day that you need space, but dont let her know what youre actually doing. Then if things dont work out with the new person you can maybe go back to the old one and pretend you were just on sabbatical or whatever.
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>>43841321
This is ironic right this is the worst advice I've ever read
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>>43841339
No I think she might be onto something here…
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>>43841339
Its the logical thing to do
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it is really selfish that harlot had people watch a movie with her then fell asleep during it what kind of self centered insane piece of trash would do that
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>>43841402
Nah one of my friends invited two of us to watch lord of the rings and she fell asleep before they even got to the mines of moria. I gave her shit for it but it wasn't a big deal
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>>43841402
you didn't even watch the movie so why are you in the server
(rhetorical question, i already know the answer is just to start shit because you're bored)
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POST SOME ASS CHEEKS YOU CHUDS
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>>43841498
Go masturbate to pornhub coomer
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>>43841515
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>>43841473
think ur better than me because you have an extra hole nigger
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>>43841498
why has no one posted lago vs harlot ass
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>>43841402
i jus gave sleepy curse.. i have list of movies ive slept during kinda getting long… i do sleep a lot watching movies with ppl… i feel really bad about it… ive been working a lot… some of my favorite movies were once in sleepy curse list most cursed movie is yojimbo.. ive slept 6 times trying to watch yojimbo… also is berry sad there is a mole in server or is frieren bc she is the only one i told after that i fell asleep… sigh… sorry everyone for sleeping… gn<3
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>>43841270
Tigress means ferocious in bed. Constantly in the hunt for some action and insatiable once she gets it.
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>>43841594
have**
>>43841559
hate u
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they r so toxic
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I like saying thoughever
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$20,000 spread on my bed tonight

Might be spreading ur gfs pussies on my bed next ;)
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unbelievable
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It's so thick
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>>43841699
Control your bnuy
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>jew loving cuck flexing a hood rich stack of a few thousand poonadian dollars
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>>43841728
She can’t be tamed…
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>>43841730
I drive a hellcat and wear an iced out rolex btw
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>>43841742
>im in debt and i enjoy negro jewelry that isnt even worth much on the used market
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>>43841742
you should dress like a bling rapper from the early 2000s would be very cool tbhon
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>>43841690
I never insulted you please do not fuck my hypothetical gf
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>>43841757
Cool it with the racism...
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bnuy can you fund my assisted sui in canada since its already in canadian bills… would be like buying yr gf a present.. sort of a win win really and also thread quality will improve too
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>>43841779
Girl go to bed
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>>43841321
might try this
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>>43841784
:3 gn
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>>43841779
Whatever you do don't commit suicide, everything finna c alright
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>>43841742
golden bidet
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I think of crip mac saying that whenever I'm feeling down btw
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>>43841818
>>43841804
it is kino tbhon him just handing out pieces of pizza to ppl telling them to never commit suicide
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>>43841593
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>14k usd
i have more than that as emergency mattress cash and spent a quarter of that on guns in one week lmao
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Should I post 25k tomorrow
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>>43842052
Do it for the lulz.
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>>43842066
Bet
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>>43840761
These two questions are always really hard for me ~.~
>Ideal partner
I think what matters most in a partner for me, is their level of understanding in how I function.
I’m a really high maintenance person to deal with, so it feels really really nice for me when someone knows how to handle that.
Next to that is artistic understanding. Art is really important to me, so the ability to bond over poetry or other forms of art is also very important.
I want them to know what they’re talking about, I want them to care.
Lastly on your personality block, they have to be a top ~.~
The stuff we’d do in bed isn’t a dealbreaker, but it’s still important to me lol
I’m a bottom, and I really enjoy when someone has control over me.
Their body isn’t really important.
I’m usually most attracted to femininity, regardless of sex. And, as long as they take care is their body, hygiene and such, I’ll like their body <3

>Ideal relationship
A big safe space basically.
I want to be sure that I won’t be judged for the things I do and the opinions I hold.
That being open and vulnerable won’t stab me in my back.
And I want honesty to be a really core value to both of us.
Lastly, I want a lot of attention ~.~
Like a lot… I want to feel loved, I want to feel cared for and about.
I want to feel like I’m their girlfriend. Like I’m the most important person in their life.
Call that greedy or selfish I don’t care >.>

Okay yap session over >,<
Enjoy the yuri
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>>43841635
need
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>>43842102
I enjoyed reading your write up. I know what you mean by being vulnerable and it stabbing you in the back
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Who posted this!! >>43842070
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>>43842299
Me with a time machine
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Anyone here play dwarf fortress?
I was playing and it was going okay and then suddenly a group of new immigrant dwarves arrived and I didn't even noticed and suddenly I'm supposed to build 7 more bedrooms. I got so overwhelmed managing 14 dudes that I saved and quit
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>>43842552
I used to play dwarf fortress a lot. I recommend you get dwarf therapist, it makes managing lots of dwarfs a lot easier. Bedrooms don't need to be huge, even just 1x3 room is plenty for a normal dwarf. Make sure you have a manager and use the work orders to queue up beds and doors so you don't have to do it manually.
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TFW no blazer-wearing ginger pixie cut district attorney gf
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>>43842641
Thank you kagome
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>>43842641
I think we might have been friends on discord briefly and you showed me some screenshots of a dwarf fortress playthrough.
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>>43840761
Being idealistic and boiling down a relationship to certain characteristics is stupid to me. I would take anyone if we meshed well together and had similar wants out of life.
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>>43841730
Didn't you hear? It's Olive's turn in the cuck chair >>43839888
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Happy Monday, /lesgen/!
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>>43843374
I hate Mondays
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>qott
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>>43843374
Happy Monday Noona <3
>>43843389
You hate everything
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Lasagna sounds lovely right now (I can't sleep)
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>>43843442
I'd kill for this so fast your head would spin
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Bitch real Gs move in silence like lasagna
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>>43843462
>>43843516
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=s__Xe1tnOSQ
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>>43843513
Hoe I had that and fumbled it.
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>>43843522
That reduced my desire for lasagna
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>>43843544
I had it then fumbled it and then got it back then fumbled it again then got it back again (repeat several times). God bless my long suffering better half for her divine patience
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My cat sits at my feet and meows incessantly until I pick him up and cradle him like a baby. He's a grown ass man.
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>>43843442
>>43843513
what about cooties
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>>43843702
CUTE <3
I love kitties >~>
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>>43843712
Inject the cooties straight into my veins.
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>>43843718
Me too, I've lived in a house with cats my whole life and I will continue to do so forever :)
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>>43843719
Ethical heroine
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>>43843739
Cooties hit better than fentanyl. Been saying it for years
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>>43843730
Hell yeah <3
I'm getting a cat after moving out as soon as I can >.>
>>43843745
Wiser words never said
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>>43843452
How’d you know that?
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>>43843787
Cause you've said it word for word before schizo
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>>43843800
I think you’re lying, and I’m not fucking schizophrenic I’m BPD!
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Gm lesgen, I have my last preparation meeting today before doing a workshop for a company on Wednesday

>what is your type or ideal partner? Describe
Theyfabanon
>what does your ideal relationship look like?
Theyfabanon

I can't stress how I struck gold here, being treated like nobility, having constant reassurance, being on the same page about almost everything, spending great time together despite having completely different interests and ways of having fun, the way we care about each other and help if the other is tired, the way we do traditional chivalry type romance, the way we can just go and have a dumb corny date and it always feels like the honeymoon period even after 3 years of knowing each other...

Ig I also have a huge soft spot for green eyes and alt girls... She's also the finest piece of ass ever with that Venus statue build... :>

I have a lot of experience with dating since I'm really social and go out a lot irl and my relationship with her really swept me off my feet with how great it's going. Everyone is just so fake and performative, they always hold grudges and things fall apart, there are always arguments, always hiccups. I mean I have had an argument or two with her but it's usually sorted in "I feel this way can you not do that" - "ok", so it's really awesome...

This whole thing left me wondering if my bar has been raised solely by her because I genuinely don't want to have anything that's remotely worse than this... which has been every other relationship... Hell I was in and I've literally dated a rich mf who spoiled me like a child, got me valuable therapy through their connections in private healthcare and was the only person so far to meet my parents, that person is worth nothing comparatively and I've completely forgotten they exist.

Gf glazing session over, hope I wasn't too annoying, I just love to glaze her at any chance
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>>43842299
ess
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>>43844051
It wasn't me... Me and theyfab aren't together atm, we'll be together after summer, then you can accuse me of such things
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>>43844018
Have you guys been together long enough to get out of the honeymoon phase (3+ years)
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>>43844159
What kinda honeymoon phases are you experiencing omg
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>>43844159
Three years is not enough your first three lifetimes together are still the honeymoon phase
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Guys if you haven't been together for 3 years you're still in the honeymoon phase, I promise you, real life isn't high school relationships
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I’ve literally never been in a relationship so I wouldn’t know
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>>43844418
nerd
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>>43844424
Yeah :(
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I think the whole labelling relationship periods is kinda dumb bcs it's different for everyone, I was just exemplifying how we can make it feel fresh even if we've been together for longer than the usual 3 months people label as the honeymoon period
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>>43844517
>we can make it feel fresh
People neglect this a lot. They don’t get that you have to put in effort and not just resign yourself to mourning the end of the honeymoon phase.
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just get a new gf to make it fresh
there is 4 billion women
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>>43844702
Put effort into a relationship?
Inconceivable!
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>>43844702
Lago! Feed yo hoe: >>43843513
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>>43844702
To me it comes naturally, I can't imagine how people can't put effort in like that, ig I just happened to find someone who has the same capability

>>43844711
When I date someone I intend to make it a lifelong thing, if it doesn't work then we break up, if it does, we don't ever
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>>43842685
>ginger
bnou...
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>>43844783
i'm not here for a long time i'm here for a good time
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>>43844018
You're so sweet and wonderful my beautiful lady... I love you so much...

Also you're the finest piece of ass ever, not me >:(
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>>43844883
Says you... With the Venus build...
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Both of you should kill yourselves, quit being happy in my soapbox.
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>>43844915
I'm happy you are here buggy
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>>43844915
so tsundere
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>>43844920
Said nobody ever
>>43844944
I am not!
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>>43840761
>what is your type or ideal partner?
Small and spicy. I like to bully flirt so having someone who has button I can playfully press is a great.
>what does your ideal relationship look like?
Being completely ourselves without fear of judgement. Laughing at inside jokes without words. Being completely valuable to her and knowing she will love you the same, if not more.
Sprinkle in some pets, a 4x4 and some land and Im living the dream.
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>>43845069
Vulnerable*
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>>43844992
you are so right queen
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>>43844756
Nooo because one time I said that here and some schizo started saying that if you have to do that, you don’t truly love your partner. I guess your gf should magically know you love her because you yearn endlessly on 4chan??? Idk wtf else she meant. All I’m saying is you should learn about each other constantly and set up dates, adventures, whatever together and continually learn about each other.

But yea, teenagers with zero dating experience think real life is like their anime.
>>43844780
The video won’t load on my shitty iPhone so idk what it is. :C
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>>43844992
I like seeing you post because I call my dog buggy. Similar personalities too.
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>>43845096
Hehehe yeah that’s right! I’m the Queen!
>>43845105
Maybe
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Can anyone tell me if they can relate to this at all >>43845119

Even though it might be a dumb question, I'm asking because I have seen lesbians online have crushes on like Astarion or their favorite male, fictional character but still identify as lesbian and only date women. Is this a thing or not?
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>>43845129
reddit lesbianism
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>>43845129
I’d definitely say this is a thing.
Personally I’m very attracted to femininity.
Not to the point of eliminating 99.9% of me, more so like 99-95%
I’ve been in relationships with men, and I’ve been attracted to men, so I wouldn’t exactly call myself a lesbian per se
That’s why I think the sapphic label really fits me :з
In conclusion, yeah obviously it’s a thing >.>
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>>43845129
Not a lesbian if you’re attracted to men at all, and bi women claim the lesbian label all the time online for attention. Not much else to it. Crushing on cartoon men is sus as fuck because they look like… men. Literally male features.
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That’s like twitter/4chan retard shit, it’s not worth paying attention to
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>>43840761
I have recently went back to dating apps and I forgot how many gross men list themselves as women for seemingly no good reason ;-;
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>>43845202
>Literally male features.

Well, there are women in this thread who identify as lesbians while sucking male dick and getting fucked by male dick (transwomen) so do you object that too? Genuinely curious, where is the line?

A lot of cartoon men have borderline female faces. Is that more heterosexual than a literal dick in your mouth?
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>>43845166
Nah, it’s more of a TikTok high schooler thing. Even lesbians on reddit call this bullshit out.
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>>43845227
>>43845220
Are you guys high? I could totally understand your position if you were cis for cis only (or post OP only) but if you are open to fucking transwomen and literally interacting with COCK, how are you in a position to call anyone a retard for asking questions about men?
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>>43845100
>The video won’t load on my shitty iPhone so idk what it is. :C
It's a bird feeding nutrient-packed spit to her newborn chick! I love wildlife documentaries <3
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>>43845225
You’re being so laughably disingenuous. Astarion doesn’t even look remotely feminine. Are you being purposefully obtuse? Why do you obsess over cock in mouths to the point you bitch at a random lesbian that doesn’t like cock?
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>>43845240
Men IRL don't look like Astarion. There's no cosplayer who looks like him without photoshop, it's not a look or beauty humans achieve. And a lot of the best cosplayers of male fictional characters are female, because their faces fit them better ultimately.

So can you tell me why sucking cock and getting fucked by cock is lesbian, but being attracted to some fictional male characters isn't?
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>>43845232
You came to the lesbian thread for both cis and trans lesbians to bitch about cis and trans lesbians. Girl, bye. Get your insecure bisexual ass out of here and talk about your love of moids elsewhere.
>>43845238
LMAOOOOO I CAN SEE THE THUMBNAIL
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>>43845261
I didn't bitch about anyone at first. I was just confused that my question was brushed of was "retard shit" or bait, but you are literally having a thread where you identify as lesbians even if you suck dick or spread your pussy/ass to get pounded by dick and balls.
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>>43845202
>Crushing on cartoon men is sus as fuck
I'VE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR SO LONG BUT NO ONE WAS IN THIS WITH ME I FELT LIKE I WAS GOING CRAZYYY
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Could definitely be a trans woman or a butch dyke
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>>43845238
Also, can you send me the places you mentioned last night that you wanna visit im Tokyo so I can fit them into the itinerary. I’m currently working on the Ueno/Yanaka neighborhood, but we can travel around the city easily by train.
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>>43845280
You're so gross lmfao
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>>43845281
It’s terminally online retards and troll moids saying that shit. Not even Reddit lesbians believe this bullshit!!! Anon needs to go back to shittok. Being a lesbian is not about liking femininity or vibes. It’s a troll anyway. Sounds like they just wanted to call trans women basically men. So boringgg.
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>>43845314
Why is sexuality gross?
I am just genuinely confused how a thread "woke" enough to consider sex with pre-OP transwomen to be completely lesbian, but having a crush on fictional cartoon men isn't.

Where is the line?
Is it lesbian if your gf is a boymoder? Is it lesbian if your transwomen gf still jerks off and gets hard? Is it lesbian if your trans girlfriend is still pre-hormones?
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>>43845320
>sex with someone who is physically male and interacting with their erect penis: 100% lesbian
>asking if lesbians can have crushes on fictional men who don't look or behave like real men at all: troll bait shit
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>>43845347
trans women are women! and fictional men are still men, it doesn't matter if its fictional you're still attracted to him, just like if youre attracted to a fictional child you're still a weirdo cause that's a kid
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good bnuy <333
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Are we not assuming 50% of lesbians are fake here?
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>>43845332
Your sexuality intricacies ultimately come down to what your ideal partners identify as. Whether you're comfortable with their physical attributes or not it's up to you, I don't like blue eyes that much for example (wouldn't reject someone over it though ofc).
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>>43845368
So basically if in this world a pre-OP, pre-hormones male identifies as a transwoman and has sex with a woman it's 100% lesbian. But a fictional man character who literally has a face as beautiful as a woman and long hair, no beard, it's 100% non-lesbian?

Fascinating.
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>>43845391
yes, one is a woman and the other is a man that is how that works yes.
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I got in bed for 10 minutes and now I’m too tired to get up again
Kill me aaaaaaaaggggggghhhhh
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I got scolded and in trouble
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I had this exact argument with my friend who claimed to be lesbian but wanted to have sex with femboys now that I think of it, her argument was "they're girl enough"

Like... No... you're invalidating their gender identity
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>>43845419
RemiDeluxe are you by any chance into arknights too? or were you just simply larping in the previous thread when you've mentioned texlapp
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>>43845406
>having PIV sex with the left (fresh transwoman) would be 100% lesbian and sapphic
>but being attracted to right (male fictional character) is 100% not lesbian

LMFAOOOOOO
You guys are funny I'll give you that
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>>43845232
That persons post just looked like bait my bad, I’m not calling you a retard for asking that question or anything.
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Cognitive dissonance
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>>43845332
It's okay for lesbians to be attracted to men and even act upon those urges while still being predominantly lesbians. Anyone who says different is so deep in their closet of homophobia and preformative grandstanding they busted through into another dimension where they think they have the right to decide what sexuality others are. My ex identified as gay when he was really straight/bi leaning but I would never try to dictate that for him. It made our relationship suck since he was essentially prison gay and couldn't feel actual love or attraction toward me but that was still his right to identify as gay.
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Idk I don’t have a dog in this race I have standard tranny sexuality
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>>43845492
This makes lowkey more sense.
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I think it’s normal for some lesbians to be attracted to mega feminine men, could never be me but I digress. I can’t wrap my head around the dyke hype for Astarion. I never played the game but I watched my brother play for an hour or two and he just read as a gay man, both visually and personality wise.
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>>43845426
Some people are genuinely into that like trans women who like to be called faggot in the bedroom
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>>43845456
I don’t play the game myself, so I wouldn’t say I’m a fan by any means.
I do like the lore though, plus I watched an ex of mine play it like all the way through >.>
I’m into arknights but I don’t play games basically :3
You could probably call that larping idk >~>
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The what is a lesbian discussion is really and truly just a derivative of the what is a woman question, you might as well just fight over that instead
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>>43845461
It's a bit more complicated

First off, how people end up having sex is the 2 people's business and the trans woman might not have access to medical transitioning yet, those shouldn't be invalidating factors. Having sex with them as a lesbian is valid if you're comfortable with their physical attributes (a lot of trans women are already somewhat feminine without hormones). If you're not comfortable with their appearance for being too masculine it's also perfectly fine and doesn't make you an asshole.

On the other side, being attracted to a hyper feminine man could be a lesbian thing yes, as long as you're unaware of their gender, which would probably not 100% turn you off but would definitely make you not imagine anything with them. It'll be an aesthetic attraction but not a sexual/romantic attraction for the lack of a better term, you're not more or less of anything for finding an individual of either gender aesthetically pleasing.

Take it from me, I once tried doing stuff with a guy to "just be sure" and he wasn't even unattractive, he had long hair and was very soft and feminine, but when I got to it I got this feeling of disgust thinking "wow I have to call this guy HIM and not HER, this feels wrong" and it completely killed my libido for it instantly. I can't speak for everyone but this is genuinely how it works from my experience, its when you ask yourself two questions:

>Is this person attractive?
If yes, you like their appearance, if not, no
>Do I feel comfortable knowing I have to treat them as HIM/HER?
If yes, you're attracted to them sexually, if not, no
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>>43845524
Now imagine if the mega feminine man grew a bit of gyno..
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>>43845559
lesgen is not ready for that question
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>>43845567
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>>43845426
Not to mention, femboys literally look like men.
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>>43845598
Majority of them are just trans men, but you don’t want to get me started on that shit
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>>43845563
There are many reasons for someone's personal repulsion. My ex for example liked me as his stand in girlfriend because I'm naturally feminine and motherly but was also transphobic so tried to push me into a more masculine role he wasn't actually attracted to. That constant limbo was so frustrating to deal with and kept me repping for years because I loved him. For a vast majority of the gay/lesbian community sexuality is treated like a punch card. There is a lot of peer pressure and posturing to where those who have bisexual urges are essentially shoved back into the closet to avoid prejudice. Hey you heard Stacy likes dick on the dl or certain comforts a man can offer that reminds her of her loving grandma. That means she isn't a true lesbian. It's heteronormative behaviors reversed as a means to cope with the same discrimination we faced. This is also why those sorts of communities are dwindling and queer/bi is being more embraced. But nooo. It's all the trannies fault.
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>>43845598
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>>43845675
I feel a great sadness wash over me when I see this .jpg
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>>43845675
everytime i see this image i laugh so hard
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>>43845675
Giving me Vietnam flashbacks to chasergen
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>>43845673
Ive been saying people should just accept being weird bi already for like a decade lol
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>>43845675
not the good boy pornhub shirt
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>>43845673
I agree 100%

What I meant with my post is mostly that you can identify as a lesbian and enjoy dating people who aren't traditionally fem/have a penis and have sex in non-lesbian manners traditionally.

I feel like I draw the line at when you imagine a relationship/sexual relations with a man that starts to lead into bisexuality, but that definition can be relative for everyone I suppose.

I tried to fit in with the strict labels and identified as bi not just because I thought feminine men were aesthetically pleasing, but also because I'm a dom top who likes PIV and that's "not a lesbian thing" (one of my lesbian exes shamed me for this). Eventually I stopped caring and realized I'm 100% not attracted to men at all so I'm very confident in my sexuality atm.

Same with my gender but that's another story, I haven't had an ounce of brainworms as much as people ynbaw'ed me, I'm just that girlboss.
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>>43845754
>dom top who likes PIV
so that's why youre with theyfabanon huh
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>>43845675
lmfao gooners are so gross
their entire identity is based upon a porn term and it shows
insulting to equate them with trans women
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>>43845754
And that's what it's really about. Walk with your chin held high because everyone has their own huge bag of shit they're ready to dump on you to make it seem less full to others
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These nasty pussy hounds are fucking like crazy in here
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>>43845812
I'm with theyfab because we love each other to begin with, the fact we're very sexually compatible and super attracted to each other is the added bonus. Sex and attraction are always a factor in a relationship whether you like it or not.
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>>43845851
how do you even find out that your partner likes piv did you just walk up to her and asked if she like her pussy pounded kek
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>>43845754
this is why i just dont care what outsiders have 2 say about my sexuality people like to overcomplicate shit to hell and if you don't fit pitch perfectly within their standards theyll try to ostracize you
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>>43845850
I identify as a pussy and trust when I say it's the most finest pussies with the most feminine of smells
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>>43845543
How much do you know about the lore? If it's a decent/good chunk then I wouldn't consider you as a larper, especially since a majority of the fans usually just read the story through a website anyways.

Besides that, what's your favorite arknights ship? mine's wamiya and mayb also texlapp
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>>43845819
Wasn’t a porn term to begin with, it used to be something transphobic people used to call trans women until it got co-opted and taken by straggots to goon about le feminine men.
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>>43845873
When we initially met and we were getting to know each other we eventually got a bit flirty and it turned sexual and then she just turns and goes "hey, do you like to do it this way? because I do, it's okay if you don't since many trans women don't." or something along those lines.
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>>43845899
Please wait another few years before you start trying to give history lessons on the culture
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a goon is a type of forum poster
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>>43845928
Why?
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>>43845928
I low-key miss my abuse goon. Yeah they treated me like trash and did everything to trigger me but damn could they typefuck me better than most and were generally chill and kind once their bdp was sated.
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>>43845951
Idk lol
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>>43845945
something awful poster. I could never afford the memebership fees
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>>43846003
You’re weird
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>>43845892
Texas x Lappland ~.~
It’s what got me into it lol
I guess I know a decent chunk of the lore
It’s cloudy now since it’s been a while
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>>43845559
A woman is anything that looks like a woman
that is the definition that everyone uses hundreds if not thousands of times a day. it is therefore the only one that matters
>b-but muh chromosomes
nobody asks about chromosomes to determine if someone is a man or a woman. ever. most people never even get tested
>b-but muh gametes
nobody ever asks about gametes either
>b-but muh identity
people will ask SOME people SOMEtimes but it has nothing to do with the decision and generally you only get asked if their mind is already made up

>is this fair?
no. It essentially places the determination of what a woman is in the hands of the straight white men who decide it based on fuckability.
>is this a circular definition?
yes. And yet it's the one that all of society runs with. We must deal with things as they are and not as we wish them to be.
>is it accurate
yes. When someone sees you in the bathroom they will either decide you do belong or that you may not. And they will do this without knowing anything about your internal sense of gender, your chromosomes, your genitalia, or your gametes. A masculine enough cis woman is equally male to the world at large as an unpassable tranny, or a bearded bear.

A woman is someone who looks like a woman. I don't like it and neither would Matt Walsh but that doesn't change that it's the truth.
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>>43846052
Y?
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>>43846273
It's easy to say a woman is anything that looks like one when you have obviously dimorphic types in mind. It's the edge cases where some people claim it looks like a woman and others say its a man that break the system
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>>43846407
Idk I can never grasp if you like or not, you’re weird
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>>43846414
it works fine as long as you don't demand that the set of all women according to person A equal the set of all women according to person B. This is trivially shown to be untrue in general and i dare assert is also untrue for any specific A and B.
i can also extremely easily give you a definition of "woman" that is not circular and could be imposed such that the opinions of others don't matter. But what's important in the definition is that we accurately model reality. anything else might be more rigorous and satisfying, but is ultimately not useful to developing an understanding of our world.
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>>43846502
>it works fine as long as you don't demand that the set of all women according to person A equal the set of all women according to person B
I don't demand it but people keep disagreeing about it so it's unrealistic to expect that this solution will work
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>>43846529
it not only works it's fully in use across the world and all of human history through time and cultures
is it perfect? is it how things ought to be? no. But that is how the world operates, despite any protestations to the contrary
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>>43846551
okay I guess there is no point in arguing since the entire world agrees with you
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You all are so boring, never want to talk about fun stuff.
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>>43846640
What would you like to talk about then buggy?
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>>43846561
they do but they'll pretend not to
>"erm women's bathrooms are for wombyn with xx chromosomes ONLY, troons"
>t. has never been karyotyped and never asked anyone what their chromosomes are unless they're "obviously" xy
and it's also not worth arguing because i dont disagree with you
that definition sucks. it shouldn't be used
but what you need to do, then, is stop everyone from using it everywhere all of the time. Because all im saying is that they do.
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>>43846647
What do you know about wattpad?
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>>43846658
I mean I don't need to get everybody else to agree with me I just need to find the people I see as women while recognizing that most people in the world have different sets of all women from me. Which is basically what you are saying so there is no point arguing
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>>43846659
I used to hang around that place when I was really young and a little cringe tumblr fandom girl, I used to read a lot of MLP and Undertale ship fics.

Idk what happened to it, my irl friends told me about AO3 and whatnot and I'm a bit confused about the timeline there, since I haven't been in the loop for a while.
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>>43846690
yeah basically
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>>43846694
Do you know about the lemons and limes scale? Or the Brendon Urie milk-fic?
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>>43846755
>lemons and limes scale
Oh yeah I know about this, the nsfw scale right? I don't remember the milk-fic tho
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How do yall convince your gf life is worth living when she wants to burn it all down?
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>>43846815
Good head
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>>43846815
Make her fluffy pancakes then take her to the knitting store then get her sour candy then bring her home for cuddles/nap
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>>43846815
trust her judgement and get the gasoline
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How would you convince me not to snitch on you if we were in prison together?
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>>43846851
Sex?
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>>43846863
Yawn… I’d snitch on you.
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>>43846851
I can make a good pizza
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>>43846851
You can have one of the cigarettes I keep in my ass. Not any of the cigars though… Those are for a special occasion.
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>>43846836
This is my usual routine, subbing in the knitting store for a bike ride or something.. but I dont know if it will cut it today ._.
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holy cringe
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>>43846954
racism is wrong
ironic racism isn't funny
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>>43847054
that's obvious to anyone with half a brain but we're on 4chan there's no point arguing with them just report and ignore
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>>43847054
Used to date a girl that kept trying to get me to say the n word, she was black so it was less bad but I still never said it lmfao white people who say the n word are gross as fuckk
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Trip on diaper kirk. Everyone can see your typing style
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>>43846915
Hmmm, so you’re saying you’d give me commissary for me not snitching on you? That’ll do.
>>43846918
Depends on what they are, if they’re my brand I won’t snitch.
>>43846954
I’d set you up to get your ass beat by someone.
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>>43847054
Racism is wrong. Ironic racism for shock humor is wrong. Finding humor within ironic racism to make fun of how stupid racism is, isn't wrong. At that point you're making fun of the absurdity of it and legit racists often as a coping mechanism of the horrible reality of systemic racism.
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>>43847137
Yuppie!!!! I win!!!
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Pretending racism isnt funny doesnt do anyone any favors
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What about mexicans and dominicans that say nigga or even nigger? It seems like most black people actually hate this but its more and more common place.. what is the white woman consensus on this? Are they gross af? And black people are they allowed to say cracker and mayo monkey? Please tell us what is good white female..
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Racism isn't funny in normal conversation and when the person is obviously trying to be edgy, but it can get a shocked chuckle out of someone if it's completely unexpected at the right moment. This is why dark humor works even if the content is extremely disturbing and not a laughing matter.
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Lucy is italian passing.. should they be locked up inside because they have a nigger tick and that is gross af?
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>>43846942
Good luck...
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>>43847266
stop mentioning me
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I'm white but my latina girlfriend secretly says 'noooooticing' and 'we was kangz' -__- she's not racist (or anti-Semitic) just a cute little troublemaker...
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>>43847287
Then in the middle of little italy little did they know we were riddled to middle men who didnt do diddely
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>>43847323
trip on bun bun
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I have real racist thoughts that I try not to verbalize. This is not a joke
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i saw kero kero bonito live in 2018 and played the time n place cassette over and over in my car… judge me…
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>>43847354
Everyone does it is in our dna
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>>43847372
No I mean I have extra racist thoughts that weren't encoded into my dna
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>>43847341
it's dead in the middle of little italy little did we know that we riddled some middlemen who didn't do diddly
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>We wuz bunnies n sheit
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>>43847391
Carti
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>>43847391
who is this guy and why u always post him luz?
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>>43847399
You shut your mouth that is the illustrious Space Ghost Purrp.
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>>43847382
Oh.. say 3 hail marys and donate some money to the naacp. Namaste.
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>>43847391
I dont give a damn you black
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that’s weird my question got answered.. does space ghost purp still make music?
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what is going on in thread? why is jordan being racist?
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>>43847412
I won't
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>>43847405
that's spaceghostpurrp, founder of raider klan, directly responsible for the resurgence of the memphis horrorcore sound in the early 2010s, an influence on many, directly responsible for denzel curry's career, influenced a$ap mob's sound, influenced $uicideboy$ sound, also a crazy bipolar schizophrenic habitual bridge burner that's in and out of jail, i feel like he's a lot like me in terms of mental illness.
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Kissin ass as I blast on feet
And
Youll never see me eat tapas with beef
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is jordan black too? i don’t remember… my take on race words and stuff as cringe white woman is i dont say any of them but i don’t really police what non white ppl say bc im whitey but also encourage ppl to not be hateful.. sooo jordan pls be nice and read your swamp thing..
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Yo! You should no that I really dont care
Tie a pretty ribbon in your hair and Ill leave you right there
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>>43847445
til luz has cool knowledge.. i remember hearing about drama surrounding him and stuff im not really familiar with his music other than seeing it some on /mu/ back in the day.. its cool you know all this should give me spaceghostpurp pull sometime
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>>43847494
pill***
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>>43847445
You typing the $ into all those names is really funny
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>>43847502
she cares about her knowledge and stuff it’s cool jordan… say it’s cool now and be nice pls pls pls
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>>43847472
Go on.. say it just one time.. itll feel really good
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>>43847518
say what?
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You’re such a nerd about music Luzzite
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>>43847511
I was really into raider klan and yun lean etc. as soon as they came out too
https://youtu.be/vwnVI_x5g0I?si=6V8rG7Gk27a8rmFk
This song and ginseng strip were huge for me when i was like 17
You know what I mean harpy, i remember seeing you on dat piff in the monthly freestyle competitions etc. Always qued up for the new soulja and gucci drops..
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We wuz Italians
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>>43847525
The big N
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>>43847525
Can we get you to do a vocaroo rendition of threatz? Would make my week to hear you say "nigga klan be the set"
I would read all of alan moores swamp thing in one or two nights. Fair trade?
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Good morning
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We wuz wise guys n sheit!
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>>43847554
oh yeah lol i remember when yung lean was like the biggest thing on /mu/ when it was coming out ahhhhh nostalgia it’s still weird to me bladee is like more popular overall maybe? i remember thinking he was like a coattail rider in 2013 or something back then. was sooo goofy… louie duffel bag filled with heroin indeed indeed
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Was a different time yall..
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>>43847584
nop still read swamp thing… did you like the jonatan leandoer stuff too even tho was later?
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broken collar bone you make my bones twirl.. mlems
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idk how to help yr gf bc im busted tooooo but she her this idk jordan jrodan jordan jordan jordan jordn jordan jordna
https://youtu.be/vw1Sv04YQS4?si=v0irDQmrz5dtNzN7
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Does anyone remember around 2018/2019 when /r9k/ did a voice over of the entire batman dark knight movie? It was before the joker as an incel meme got ran into the ground
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Anyways this conversation reminds me of it because of the scene where the joker places the bombs on the barges and says they will explode unless someone says the n word. Thankfully they are diffused in time before anyone says it
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>>43847654
Well then as youve rejected my offer.. we are enemies now
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>>43847721
i always read r9k as ragnarock in my head but nuh idr was it funny?
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>>43847736
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>>43847736
post bebos
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>>43847889
Bebo is her cat
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$20,000 and yet I still feel empty inside
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>>43847945
1 mugger and there go your savings
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>>43848024
it would take at least 5 armed muggers to bring down the big bnuy
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>>43847945
i could have told u that one but always remember munny is funny or something and rich ppl are tasty?so poors(me)wanna eat them or something
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>>43847901
okay
someone else post bebos then
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>>43848039
Entire swat team
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>>43848044
pls don’t downvote this one i need the karma pls pls pls
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>>43847889
I hope youre happy. The auto flash woke her up from her nap in the towel closet.
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>>43848024
If the mugger will give me a hug and tell me everything will be okay they can have it
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>>43848117
wake up bebo nona wants to see you
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>>43848123
My gf says you gotta be insider trading to have these many canoodlebux, how do you plea
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>>43848117
it's not what i meant but i actually am happy, yes
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>>43848117
Bebo...
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>>43846836
Omg,,, knitting store and cuddles while I knit… That’s the life right there, folks.
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You guys are so lame, come on come on come on say something interesting or something I’m falling asleep over here!
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Politics.. politics never changes
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>>43848379
hey if you are going to do that ab her too at least tell her to read swanp thing
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>>43847323
She should say “we wuz Vikings n shiet” instead.
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>>43848429
based on this you’d really like swamptjjng based on facts look at this orange thing i found one time hm yes based on facts jtodan jordan jordan
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Harglub...
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if that orange thing was on my skin i’d hate hate hate it and think about it makes me itchy itchy itchy… pls don’t let it grow on me ever… okay time to get ready for work since everyone in thread is making me go to it :(((
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>>43847945
That’s our budget for Japan. hehehe Lots of treats and craftsware and ceramics and silly trinkets.
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>>43848470
saw this too ig
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And then ww2 happened and we all came together and never let politicians and race come between us ever again..
*kisses your forehead* gn lesgen
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Forgot pic uwu

>>43848455
Is it edible? I really love the squishy black fungus that looks like that they put in chinese food
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>>43848413
I miss you a lot
>>43848480
I'm so excited
>>43848158
That's bananas I woke up this morning in a free country unless I checked I'm still in one so I can trade however I want
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>>43848525
and last* I checked
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>>43848510
Good taste Jordan. I love chinese food. I hope they invade the west and take over soon...
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>>43848452
We wuz VIKING N SHEIT
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>>43848510
idrk im a little creep out by fungi tbhon but am also fascinated but also have schizo thought about them growing on me and get freaked out desu sooo i keep my distance.. respect them… and take pics.. goooo night
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I’m not a bad person, I’m actually more than empathetic than most.
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I had transbian sex last night and now I’m sad :( She was somewhat soulless and it didn’t feel like a very intimate experience.
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>>43848605
L M A O
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>>43848605
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>>43848621
;(
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>>43848473
>okay time to get ready for work since everyone in thread is making me go to it :(((
Harglub... noooooo......
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>>43848642
I’m not lying, why are you being mean to me?
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>bnuy is buying Lago $20k in trinkets in Japan
the secret of how to get a cis gf revealed
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new

>>43848684
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>>43848547
Same, I think it would be hilarious to see them instantly crumble like their dry wall concrete and give us a common enemy

>>43848680
Wasnt ever really a secret, thats rudimentary incel theory
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>>43848680
wasnt olive a construction foreMAN? lago must be getting spoiled every time she visits her pet trannies



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