im so feminine and i hate it, what do i do? im a ftm and every mannerism i have is so feminine, not to even mention my face i cant do this do i just accept my fate as a prettyboy or whatik all this will probably change with t but thats not in the cards for me rn
>>43841749pretend youre playing a acting part, make it a performance. even if over the top tropes
>>43841754ive had people complain abt the things i say when i do that bc im mega retarded and dont know where the line is drawn
bumping bc genuinely do i accept being a ftfemboy or do i keep going and trying to look more masculine
>>43841793there is no line, if you upset people double down, thats what being a man is about
>>43842118As you spend more time living as a man you'll start to naturally pick up more masculine social mannerisms, for now I'd say try to accept it but don't give up hope either
>>43842145ive been out socially and presenting as male for 5 years now but still cant seem to shake the majority of my feminine mannerisms like the ways i sit and walk
>>43841749>every mannerism i have is so feminineAnalyze how men behave in the street, between friends, in cafes etc, and try to take a leaf out of it maybe?
>>43842167thank you anon
>>43842157I guess I'd try being more conscious in watching and copying behavior from your male friends and shit, then, like, pick a specific guy you know and copy the way he sits and keep doing it
>>43842194thanks, yeah my male friends arent the most masculine, one of them is a repper lmao but ill just focus on the others
>>43842203That might be part of the problem desu if you can it would be good to make more normie hetmale friends
>>43842191You're welcome ! I hope you will eventually make it !
>>43841749get on T retard
>>43843135wish i could but can't afford itim not a theyfab or anything i want to get on t i just can't
>>43843143>but can't afford itMedicaid
>>43843165not american, also my country's version doesnt cover transition
>>43843187You can't actually be more masc without T unfortunately.nYou would just be read as a tomboy or strong independent woman...
>>43843206ig im cooked ill accept my fate
>>43843143this makes it sound like youre not serious about your transition. youre complaining about being too feminine but doing nothing to change it. surely you can put together a few hundred bucks for T. its easy to buy with crypto. being unemployed or working in childcare is fembrained and yngmi if thats the case>t. DIY mtf with an ftm boyfriend
>>43841749GET PLAPPEDGET MARRIEDGET PLAPPEDGET MARRIEDDO what transwomen cannotBE the women they cannot become
>>43843216Can you not make money?
>>43843143Be employed, or ask LGBT/trans organizations for help, it really sucks being out for 5 years and not being on HRT yet :c
>>43843216Get on DIY maybe? I'm not FtM and I probably don't live in the same area but for my part it's really cheap ($5~ a month)
If OP can't DIY they are likely a minor
>>43843652OP is an afab, they don't have any agency