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What is a meaningful, profound observation you have had about the LGBT community that you feel others don't want you to notice and would prefer you ignored and not bring up?
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>>43852820
nobody cares about unlearning their female/male socialization. you cant identify your way out of it, you have to make an effort to be honest with yourself and notice how youre acting. everyone loses their shit whenever their socialization gets called out yet the person calling them out is never wrong
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>>43852837
If you're going to troll at least put in the effort of wearing a flag or is your preferred one not available?
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>>43852878
point proven and also i only use flags whenever i DO troll! ;<
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>>43852837
tw and i kind of agree with this… but part of me also thinks that is just bc i spent so long in blanchard brainworms that i am very attached to the idea that im malebrained and evil.

Idk or i fell for a terf psyop.

But i def did “misogynistic boy” stuff b4 transition. Not near as bad as my oeers but… at least some…
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>>43852895
misogyny is a justified reaction to abusive, unchecked behavior by females, it doesn't just pop up out of nowhere, it's a reaction to systemtic suppression of ANY criticism of females
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We should kick the enbies out
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>>43852820
this community would rather gatekeep each other than actually make any meaningful change for our rights and safety
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>>43852820
The number of lgbt that became that way due to childhood sexual abuse.
I obv don't think it's all of them but it's a shockingly high number. But nobody is going to touch this issue other than far right chuds who nobody listens to anyway,
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>>43852895
Me too. I don’t even believe in all that malebrain shit, but there’s just some bad things that i know I did the way I did because of my socialization. I don’t think it’s a terf talking point until you start off saying the “all males are born evil” bs

>>43852908
Heal yourself
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>>43853131
t. marie tomeo, licensed therapist
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>>43853193
haha yeah…
its alienating bc other trans women react so explosively to socialization discussion…
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>>43852820
they want everyone to be queer and nonbinary and don’t like binary trannies and don’t like bisexuals who prefer het relationships
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>>43853131
you have the cause and effect backwards imo
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>>43853250
they??
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>>43852820
It doesn't really matter whether TWAW or not
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>>43853265
the woketards….
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>>43852837
One can learn beyond their previous socialization, but as you can't identify yourself out of your male or female socialization you also can't simply unlearn it through effort. It is happening right now and being reinforced all the time. You can be aware of your socialization, its implications and effects, and become a better person in this process of learning about it and challenge it. But you'll never be able to throw away all the parts of it that you consider to be bad. You can't even get rid of all the parts of your socialization that you can perceive that limit you or hurt yourself and others, no matter how much scrutiny and hard work you do in that regard. Because it's already a part of who you are and you never have full control over this.
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>>43853348
TRVKE
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coming to 4chan to act sanctimonious about how you supposedly act like a real woman but others have been too lazy to learn is something else

trannies think being a pick-me is controversial
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>>43853348
this. Iwnbaw because I like warhammer. even if I pretend I don't like it I do. I can pretend I don't like it but thats just hiding it and extend that to all my male socialized interests. I read a ton of sci fi and fantasy as a kid and it all had male protagonists and male world views, very little female perspectives (though my favorite author is ursula k leguin so...)
I can't get into shit like makeup or fashion because it just feels like a chore when my real interests are nerdy boy shit like video games
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>>43852949
there are no upvotes here so I clicked the secret 4chan-like button instead
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>>43852949
this is pedo
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>>43852820
Trannies not only have nothing in common with the LGB community, their goals are directly at odds with ours.
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>>43852820
The americans need to be put in the back of the bus, all they do is self sabotage
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>>43853259
How so
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>>43853484
BASED
giga-based
give this man an award
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>>43853484
False
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>>43853575
t. heteronormativity enforcer
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>>43853513
Shy effeminate young males are easy targets for predators, especially when they have shitty parents who they can't even trust enough to talk to honestly. People who are in denial about their kid not being a straight boy will also leave them alone with older males in situations they would never put a daughter in.
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>>43853387
the only solution is to kill yourself
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>>43853613
But this is also true for lesbians
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>>43853661
I would assume part of that is the same (they're still likely to be socially outcast on some level), but also I think a significant percentage of lesbians are actually just traumatized bisexuals
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>>43852820
sexual dimorphism is an actual curse and all of cis and trans kind are just coping with the fallout of that
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>>43853683
Perhaps. I have just heard a surprising number of accounts of people saying they liked the opposite sex until <insert molestation at a young age> and then found themselves liking the same sex as a result.
So while I don't deny your explanation could account for why some homosexuals were molested as children, I do think there is a possibilty the abuse itself can affect sexual orientation.
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>>43853712
sounds like people are making up shit to make you happy
you don't WANT Them saying they always knew they were gay, so they make up stories to comply with your belief that gayness is never inborn
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>>43853726
>sounds like people are making up shit to make you happy
Yeah because gay people are famously eager to erase themselves to please randos.
Retard.
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>>43852820
There are people in the community who create or embrace interesting alternative aesthetics, and then there are people who are just visually unappealing and lazy
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>>43854819
This + category #2 is much larger.
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>>43852820
trannies will stealthily try to sabotage each other the same way cis women do
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>>43852820
optics matter
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>>43853726
No, it's real and I wish it wasn't,
I know enough gays to know it isn't true for every gay of course, but it does seem like there are enough of the ones who fall into "my sexuality switched because of this thing that happened when I was young" to be more than a coincidence.
OP asked why about things others prefer to ignore about LGBT, and you're showing the phenomenon in action. I will say it's not a particularly profound observation though and a common one from chuds, but any investigation into it from a neutral's standpoint IS silenced.
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>>43853348
What does male socialization mean to you? A lot of people seem to have differing views on its interpretation.
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>>43855588
>I was gay but now I'm saved/cured.
>how dare you question me

>>43854455
well yeah most gays are closeted and marry the opposite sex, transition is an alternative to doing that or being celibate

my hot take: trannies don't believe in closeted gays
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>>43856750
>most gays are closeted
Okay transmission from 1963 lmao
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>>43853387
While socialization matters, the real trvke is that male and female brains are different, even in the womb. And they cannot be changed. You like warhammer because you're an autistic male nerd.
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>lgbt: liars, gays, boys treaks
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>>43852820
All humans are LGBT
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a significant portion of the manosphere would dissolve if men collectively agreed being a bit gay with their bros wasnt that big of a deal
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>>43856817
>I know all the gays and they are all out
lol
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>>43857230
the trvth tsar bomba that almost no one anywhere is willing to acknowledge is that autistic male nerds are fembrained
being a "nerd" is a plausibly deniable way of opting out of performing masculinity
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the only people capable of presenting as nonbinary are amabs

afabs are so unrestricted by their gender role in how they can present themselves that it's impossible for them to behave or dress in a way that marks them as nonbinary
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>>43852837
>nobody cares about unlearning their female/male socialization.
Sadly true, but that leads to another topic people here refuse to acknowledge. re-assigned sex socialization SHOULD BE the primary transition treatment early on for younger trans people rather than immediately jumping to hormones which are irreversible.
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>>43860431
wrong ive seen a couple of possible afabs who were genderfucky enough that I wasn't sure what they were, tho the whole point of non binary is to obscure if you are amab or afab
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>>43852820
ur mom

that is all
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>>43860783
>indoctrinate kids into my view of female socialization instead of allowing them to come into it naturally by giving them female puberty
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>>43861094
female hormones aren't going to induce female socialization you fucking retard, thats the point. it has to be learned from women.
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>>43861119
if they look like women from a young age they'll be able to find female friends and learn it that way
>deny hrt
this is the main issue
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>>43861165
that doesn't work when 99% of mtfs troon out from not having friends, the greater idea is to push them into a friend circle before transitioning so when they're older they can made a better informed decision. rather than
>I want to transition because alice told me the grass was greener and women live on easymode
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Gay men should fuck Fujo's/
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>>43861265
I'd rather be a weirdo loser than ugly and miserable myself and I think most would agree
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>>43861365
that's homophobic
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>>43852820
The white queers are still racist. It's been years, you would assume they would be over it...
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>>43852837
Fucking KO'd the whole thread
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>>43862523
racism is a logical response to undesirable behavior in lesser monkeys
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>>43852949
Example?
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>>43852908
>why do you make me hit you?
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>>43862544
Now why did you feel the need to say this
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>>43852837
this is mostly becuase at least 40% of mtf are autistic anyway and are incapable of normal male or female socialization.
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>>43862358
I am a gay man.
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>>43863093
most gay men suffer from internalized homophobia



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