I think the mommy bit is no longer just a sexual thing, I genuinely want to unconditionally love, take care of, nurture and baby someone. I want to praise her for her achievements like she's never been, I want to rock her about and put her to sleep, I want to be her stone and support, cook for and feed her, sit down and engage with her interests and say "that's interesting sweetie", I even want to go as far as to finance her just so she can continue being cute and sweet (sadly I can't afford this)Meanwhile... I feel like actual children aren't for me because they're a 24/7 responsibility and too much stress while at least my gf can do things for herself if I'm not around and is pretty mature and intelligent so I won't have to be a teacher (I don't have much patience in explaining things)...Is this normal? Is it a subconscious cope because I can't have biological children?
>>43855209"raising" and "taking care" of someone, while overlapping in some ways, are different things and the average parent doesnt know the difference. you just want to perform the latter, nothing wrong with that nona
>>43855217Yeah that's what I meant with children not being for me, I don't want to raise someone but I want to care for them in a way only a mother would.
honestly thats so hot, imagine like babying your gf then fucking her raw. hot asf
>>43855217what's the difference? genuine question.
>>43855224dw ive got that urge but for the role of an older sibling lmao.shouldnt be too hard to form an arrangement youre both happy with. boundry setting, expectations and communication's the keys and where things could go wrong, good luck.
>>43855249"raising" (in the context of a child) requires an unlimited amount of patience and willingness to show and repeat things on account of they just got here and dont know anything, incredibely easy to just not do properly even on accident."taking care of" assumes a baseline understanding of how the world works, mostly focusing on fufiling physical and mental needs.
>>43855246Yes, I do exactly rhat, but I prefer the wholesome aspect, the rest is just a bonus>>43855251We already kind of do it as kind of a sexual pet name thing but we're naturally strolling towards it being an actual dynamic I feel like, she likes being my child too
i need you op
>>43855286Okay but... are you my gf?
>>43855209incredibly based i hope to have this kind of relationship with a cisf chaser one day
>>43855209My Mommy gf wants to do this stuff for me too
>>43855405If I did, you can too, don't worry... Stay hopefvl >>43855417Cuteee
>>43855209agp
>>43856553I'm so offended wow
>>43855209Very cute nona!
>>43856909ty ^-^
I kind of had this but I was too psycho and unstable to actually be supportive or take care of her and that kills me inside
>>43857044That's upsetting... Before I got better mentally I had this too until I managed to finally score someone and not hurt them :(
>>43855322no :(
>>43857316Exactly.
>>43857612why would you be so mean
>>43857644Sorry, I didn't mean to come off as mean, I am just loyal to my gf!
>>43855209This type of arrangement never lasts ver long before you get bored and tired of the codependency then dump this person leaving them worse then when they started.Meanwhile you're going to absolve yourself of any accountability saying that they got too needy, it's not your fault it ended.
>>43857893im gonna use my magic tranny psychic powers and say you feel that way because someone hurt you like that
>>43857893Nah, I genuinely love this dynamic and wouldn't have it any other way, I've been doing strictly this dynamic with anyone I date for the past 6 years and it's the shit.
>>43855209Are you cis or a tranny?
>>43855209This is such incredible hopefuel ty op
I always wanted a 2nd mother type personbut i chased the wrong mumnow im 31 and everyone ive been close to wants me to be theirs and i just dont know how my role model was a teacher type person not so much a mumive tried to grow up for them and not be so stunted ive failed my unconditional love wasnt worth enough to them
>>43857947Tranny. My gf is cis tho
>>43857937I don't like the idea of extreme codependency necessarily, partly because it would end up being exhausting for me probably and I know that I personally wouldn't want to be treated like I'm completely useless and have independence taken away from me. So I do want it to be more like an equal split. Still I do feel this deep need to take care of someone I love and be supportive, but I feel so guilty about it for a variety of reasons. Can I even be a femme person and be that?
>>43858113We have an equal split on most stuff, she does give me attention and care when I need it, but aside from those moments when I'm down I full-time take care of her. We do have boundaries over this yes.You can be femme and be like that, I know I am, relationship roles aren't dictated by who you are.
>>43858142>You can be femme and be like that, I know I am, relationship roles aren't dictated by who you are.It doesn't mean I'm real though. And even if I fall into that delusion I'm ultimately a bad person with a fucked up worldview.
>>43855251i always had the urge to be a younger sibling,, glad to see people like u exist,,
>>43858209If you say so..?
>>43857984motherly nurturing t4c, need more of that in my life
>>43858231-the sex stuff. im talking about the true "beating you up and being kind of a dickhead while also trying and failing to get you into the videogames(and pwning) i like so ive got someone to play with" sibling experience. gl on your quest.
>>43855209I think that all humans have a need to nurture.
