no I'm not a bottom or anything like that, me and my bf are planning on losing our virginity tomorrow when he comes over.it's exciting, but I'm starting to get anxious because I read somewhere that most bottoms don't actually get much pleasure from penetration alone and usually have to jerk off to finish.My dick is 5.51 inches and it's not that thick either so I'm also worried about that. I know I have to hit his prostate, and from images and videos I think I know where it is but what else should I know?I'd like if he came before me hands free... if that's possible.
Kisses, teases, dirty talks, and erogenous zones I imagine. I don't actually know anything thoigh since I'm a virgin.
>>43856338https://voca.ro/12tse23WrTOC
>>43856338It's tough for anyone to cum from penetrative sex alone and there are many other factors at play. It's really more of a perfect storm sort of situation where even a slightly wrong position can throw it off let alone mood and environment. If you want the best chances of your partner experiencing a hands free orgasm, stimulate other erogenous areas while stimulating their prostate. This can also include things like dirty talk and spanking but everyone is different and taking them out of the moment or distractions from focusing on the sensations can make it tougher. There is is also nothing wrong with stimulating their penis and stopping before they orgasm. It's still handsfree unless you're looking for a literal handsfree fantasy. Don't worry though since it feels just as amazing. Finding their prostate comes with experience and even large dicked guys often just blow right past it. Aim for roughly behind the pelvic bone and base of their penis while remembering the prostate on average is only 3 inches deep but can be easier or harder to simulate depending upon their position. Some positions during sex for this are also better than others since it's all about angling your thrusts.
>>43856338Bottoming is 80% mental and 20% physical. Assuming he's like most bottoms (just giving my perspective) you have to figure out what dynamics he likes relationship wise and apply that 10x in the bedroom, personally I like when my tops are quietly assertive but firm, and push my limits a little bit, but the most important part is you pay attention to him. What makes him clammer up or stammer? Don't just go straight for dick to butt, kiss him, make out, push his buttons a little, call him cute, give him some praise, if he asks for something else, adapt. It's kinda hard first time round as you don't know how a person likes to have sex, but you can still have fun if you're respectful and don't just focus on getting your own nut off.
>>43856575I mean I agree with most of that and there are still lots of people who have no clue what dynamics they really want in a relationship or that they change on a daily basis. Unless they're hyper focused on a specific dynamic or kink they can't get off without, many people are more than happy getting their brains blasted out from behind and riding that high for the rest of the day or next fuck.
>>43856338give him many kisses, call him a faggot, etc.
>>43856338aww how thoughtful of youhappy fucking!
>>43856338For me it feels good when I'm really into it and I feel like I'm being dominated and given affection. Neck kisses, whispering/breathing in my ears, gently rubbing nipples, hands around my body. It feels good when it rhythmically hits me prostate but I need the mental place to orgasm. Good luck
>>43856338badump for more advice
>>43856338>>43856575Sex in general is overwhelmingly mental.
>>43861348So you're saying since I've been unable to bring my BF to orgasm physically, I need to work in mental things like say stuff, treat him certain ways?
