Fuck this shit… I’m a femboy and I put so much fucking effort into my hair, makeup, my body, upkeeping my femininity so I can be perceived as cute and submissive, I was even born 5’4 for fucks sake I am the whole fantasy. So why… why in gods name are the only men who go after me only masculine submissive types??? I love all kinds of men and I don’t discriminate all that much and hell, I don’t mind topping but only in a submissive context don’t expect me to fuck you like a silverback gorilla. I don’t upkeep myself solely for a certain role I want cause it is who I am deep down. But I am playing the part so why do these men think they can just take that subby role when they don’t even wash their ass, spreading it open with bits of toilet paper inside and shit stains when I have to calculate when I eat and groom myself to tip top shape. Just big and greedy taking up someone like me who worked hard for that opportunity in a relationship but I never fucking get it. I’m cute as fuck but I’m hispanic, is that why? is it some racial bullshit because white and asians are seen as more soft and dainty? And am I too roughed up from my past to where I’ll never be seen as cute and soft but rather abrasive and aggressive and dominant just because I had to develop a gritty personality to protect myself at a young age since I was obviously a little faggy gay femboy in a black and brown environment? Should I just settle with one of these men and accept the fact that I’ll never have the dominant man of my dreams? He doesn’t even have to be good at it, just an attempt at it like damnit what the hell.
im sorry nonny..men really suck >_>i hope you can find a good guy eventually.. hes out there waiting for youthere are plenty of dominant guys out there
Would you take a switchy twink?
>>43863563thank you! I don’t have much hope left but I’m holding out. hope everything in life goes well for you too <3
>>43863564I sincerely laughed such a funny pickup line with such a perfect image
Sorry but I realized that trannies don't expire like femboys so I moved on
>>43863564I would, any kind of man can be handsome or beautiful to me. I just need to be secure in a safe submissive role and I’ll be happy and do my part :)
>>43863645don’t apologize, I don’t even know what you look like. but just so you know I am an HRT femboy who plans to upkeep myself so don’t judge me off of that
>>43863456post a pic, dominant guys like good boys who show themselves. I love femboys, although I`m violent as fuck, do you have any personal red flags for gym roided/agressive guys?
>>43863456I'm dominant but straight so I only like transgirls. I'll be honest with me I'm not wading into the trans arguments about femboys vs trannies or whatever but just saying I'm not fucking anyone who calls themself a boy but will fuck that same person all other things being equal if they're a girl.
>>43863849I have no problem showing myself, but only to one man and one man only so it would have to be through messages or something. I’d prefer my man to treat me nice you know… cuddling me, holding me tight, soft touches and kisses, and I’ll return the favor with however he wants to be loved and stay fiercely loyal and loving offering him a safe place to be himself without fear of judgement
>>43863929well that’s awesome for you, but I’m just a different thing I guess. I’m for the guys who want a small cute boy who basically looks, walks, and talks like a girl but is made hotter to them solely because I’m actually not. If that doesn’t appeal to you then I’m just not your type, but there’s no way that means that there’s no dom men who are into that and that’s what I’m struggling with, where the hell are they?
>>43863947would you accept a relationship where your man beats you up and then immediately comforts and hugs you tightly afterwards, triggering your protective instincts and making you emotionally dependent on him?
>>43863947I understand,I've only had casual stuff with femboys, but if you're looking for a man like that, I'd advise you to make a cute profile on X or discord. you don't need to show yourself at first and it'll still attract guys if it's cute enough.you need a sharp creep detector to filter out the weirdos, though. and try joining more masculine communities. If you want dominant men, look where they hang out, dummy..
>>43863456And where is your femboy pic with cute pose?
>>43863456If youre cute Id want to pin you down and fuck you.Didn't read the rest of your gay post.
>>43864012I used to be in this niche car community, I built up a small reputation for just being a chill femboy so they were cool with me and a few guys started opening up to me at different times and I was like holy shit this is it… it ended up with 2 of them wanting me to fuck their unwashed unkept ass and the other 2 led me on for a bit before leaving me for cis women. one of those guys even got married and had kids with the next chick he left me for. They like to use us to satisfy their curiosity but I’ve never been taken seriously by those kinds of men. They think I’m pretty and fuckable, but It still won’t turn me into a woman who they can introduce to their family as the one he’s going to marry.
>>43864023it’ll be sent through private messages, I don’t want random men on the internet having my photos and I don’t think my future man would appreciate that either
>>43863456I don’t have this problemYou can’t find tops? Are you trying gay bars and Grindr?
>>43863456> when they don’t even wash their ass, spreading it open with bits of toilet paper inside and shit stainsHowling irl
>>43864054send discord
>>43863456where are you from OP, that'd help a lot to know
>>43864090I’m not trying to find “tops” I want a serious loving relationship with a dominant man. Ofc I can easily find a man to fuck me but will he still be there in the morning?
>>43864139tempest.azure
>>43863456U must be think fag no force breed fag may go extinct
>>43863456You identify as a porn category, obviously you only attract porn sick menFemboys are a hard sell for long term dating because anyone who is exclusively into femininity realises that you're going to become an old man in your 30s and 40s. So these reddit bisexuals treat you as a way to temporarily live out their fetishistic desires. You're not to blame for this, for the record, it's just how things are.
>>43863456 post pics. What do you look like without clothes?
>>43863456This could just be rebranded as why don't masculine men commit in LGBT adjacent relationships, and the answer is that most of them do like you, they're just avoidant and have the emotional maturity of teenagers. I'd suggest keep searching, don't have sex with these guys early on if you're looking for something that'll last, it'll naturally filter out the guys just looking for a new hole to bust in.
I'm sorry anon, dating as a non-traditional gay guy is hell. You either have to make compromises you don't want to or wait for miracles to happen. The only advice that hasn't already been given here is to try out cons for interests you have. Assuming you like anime/gaming you could try cosplaying. It's a good way to meet new people because you share at least one common interest with them and they have a lot of gay/bi guys there that would enjoy dating a femboy.
>>43863456wow if you were 5'4 when u were born that mustve been a rough birth i feel bad for your mom
>>43863456I'm sorry but I'm not adding u without a pic, I just left a relationship so I don't want to waste my time with shady stuff
>>43863456
I invite any slutty femboy to add my disc @dumass999 I'm not nice and I will use you for my own pleasure and entertainment, prove your worth and you might keep you around.
>>43863456Most chasers are bottom
>>43864442I added you
