Im probably bisexual I guess, but I want to be in a relationship with a woman eventually. I don't want to be one of those guys that gets a divorce later just to have sex with men. Is this a bad idea
>>43870262>Is this a bad ideaalmost definitely, but you'll do what you'll do
>>43870262Sex with men is great, go for it!
>>43870271>almost definitely,Why though
>>43870262It's fine and you don't need to divorce lot's of bis cheat on their wives with men.
>>43870371The point is that I don't want to do that at all. I want a stable, dedicated relationship with 1 person. I just happen to be sexually attracted to men and romantically attracted to women.
>>43870313I don't know you OP I don't know how your brain works and what things affect you and how, I don't know your values and beliefs, no one here does and no one's going to give you a worthwhile answer, maybe you will be perfectly fine with the experience and it'll just be a thing you've done just a fact in your life with no significance maybe you're gay and you'll end up with a guy instead of a wife or maybe you'll have this pressure and guilt glooming over you for the rest of your life your self esteem in the gutter unable to be in a gay relationship and too ashamed to even approach women.OP makes it sound like you're just curious maybe you're lonely and you just find men easier to be around maybe it's lust maybe you consume too much porn and god knows what else but that doesn't mean you have to hook up with a guy if you like girls and you feel like you want to be with one then just go do that you don't have to cater to every whim that comes.
>>43870262I never have. The only time I've regretted a sexual encounter was with a crypto.
I thought about that but I wasn't brave enough to reply to anyone on Grindr even when I got kind of hard from pics they sent
>>43870447I'm more just asking about the social consequences, or if it will relieve the urge I have to have sex with men. Again, I didn't want to be the guy that ruins a healthy relationship just for sex with someone elseI hate that I'm "bisexual" and mostly security attracted to men because it makes me not even trust myself
>>43870262>Is this a bad ideano. life is for living and you will always wonder. I was a raging bisexual in my 20s/early 30s. Got married to a woman and have never looked back. im not gonna cheat on her with either sex...and im not gonna get divorced just to have sex.
>>43870513>I'm more just asking about the social consequencesDepends where you live, what the culture is like, what kind of people you are close to, what they're like and so on>or if it will relieve the urge I have to have sex with men.Depends on whether or not (you) like it and how well (you) control (you)r own lust>Again, I didn't want to be the guy that ruins a healthy relationship just for sex with someone elseThen don't. This is entirely up to you, no matter what the sex or gender of whoever you end up with is.>because it makes me not even trust myselfI feel a lot of young men feel this way it's just something you gotta work on and get over everything else is just escapism, no one and nothing will magically make it go away life's difficult sometimes for everyone out there it's going against the odds and coming out on top that makes things worthwhile and fun. Living without worry isn't fun working towards it is life would be so shallow amd boring without struggles
>>43870601Blehcajchhxhshvsba I get it. Sex is just degenerate and vain so I feel bad about wanting it
>>43870708That's not what I said lmao, sex is great. I'm just saying no one here knows you or your circumstances well enough to give you a good answer and it's just something you've gotta decide om your own and just beacuse you're tempted to do something doesn't mean you have to do it e.g. get a divorce 30 years from now to sleep with someone other than your significant other.
>>43870758Lol I get what ur saying even though you're typing like a crackhead. My point is that my insecurity with sex is what's making me hesitant and feel guilty. I have no intent of cheating on anyone, but it is an irrational fear I have because even I look down on bisexuality.
>>43871367Hate to admit it, but that would be the most ideal relationship for me. A fujo who enjoys feminizing me. But as hot as that sounds, I think opening up relationships is always doomed to fail
>>43870262No its not just find a guy youre compatible with. Maybe even go bi4bi. If you plan on doing a hook up be open about wanting to find a gentle guy to learn the ropes with and just communicate. Dont rush into sex with horny guys. It took me like 2 or 3 weeks talking to one guy off and on before I did it for the first time lolIf youre concerned about cheating on your girlfriend or wife, maybe do the David + Angela Bowie thing, go bi4bi and be open. She gets her girl flings you get your guy flings. Live your life, dont settle to early.>t. mtf with ftm, open
Marry a true non-op trans woman, they're literally the only people who can keep a bisexual bull loyal.
>>43872411And I don't mean "non op" as in can't afford or scared of surgery, I mean a BONA FIDE DICKGIRL.
Why can't you marry a man or a tranny?
>>43872362>If youre concerned about cheating on your girlfriend or wife, maybe do the David + Angela Bowie thing, go bi4bi and be open.Im not scared that Id cheat, I would never do that. Im scared that I would get committed to a relationship and then find out down the line that it's not what I want.>>43872411>>43873048Im not attracted to femininity >>43873067I don't feel romantic feelings for men, just sexual, which probably just comes from the meta attraction of feeling more feminine with men
>>43873288Then you are not bisexual and need to come to terms with homosexuality. You don't have to be romantic I'm sure there are gay men who want a platonic life partner they fuck.
>>43873637TMI but: I am fine with womens bodies and I find vaginas interesting/sexually appealing sometimes. I watch straight porn probably 25% of the time. I would attempt to have sex with a woman, but even the thought of it just irks me for some reason. The assumed responsibility of the male during sex frustrates me so much that it makes me not want to get involved with women. It sounds rude but I really don't want to be responsible for a woman's sexual enjoyment. That doesn't even make sense to me and I'm not sure how common that expectation is with women, but I find it so unnecessarily rude to put all the responsibility on someone else if you're having sex with them, and I don't want to be that person. I also feel a weird gross resentment when women enjoy sex too much (in porn, at least).Idk I'm having trouble learning to be okay with relationships and getting over past trauma but it's a big hurdle for me and I don't really know the best place to start. I figured I would just fuck a guy and see how I feel after
>>43873288If you want to fuck men you might as well love us. Women hate bi dudes. You will have more luck with men
>>43873791>I don't want to use everything at my disposal to tailor a mindblowing experience for my partnerWell dickgirl tops exist and will let you lay there and take it but they're so rare they're basically for 6'4" muscle-chad only so good luck with the competition.
>>43873871Ive tried to be romantic with men but I just don't feel it. I can't relax or feel secure enough to let myself be teased by a guy, I just get mad and start trying to act more manly >>43874182I don't understand what you're trying to say. I don't want to responsibility (and blame) that comes with being a male and having sex with a woman. And I'm not attracted to feminine people, I do not want to have sex with a tranny.
>>43870280I concur.
im gonna try to hook up with someone this weekend
>>43870262>I don't want to be one of those guys that gets a divorce later just to have sex with menthis is precisely why you should experiment with men now while you still can.
