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the reason why i’ll never transition is because i don’t want to be ftm, i want to be amab and that’s unattainable so there’s no fucking point. whether i transition or not i’ll still want to die, might as well keep living my relatively normal life as a female instead of making my family and everyone else around me hate me by trooning out and becoming an ugly little dickless manlet.
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>>43870273
Alright, its your life bro, see you in 15 years time
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>>43870273
Do whatever you want forever anon
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>>43870273
good job OP you're more inteligent than 90% of the board
>>43870275
>tranny
>living another 15 years
kek
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>>43870273
just hrt rep and uglywomanmode that's what i'm doing
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>>43870296
you can’t hrtrep on t bro the changes are too quick and drastic, you can only hide it for like 3 months tops
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>>43870307
i've been diying 120mg/week for like a year and i'm fine you sound like a hefab on tiktok who thinks t will instantly turn her into an orc
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>>43870326
dunno man, every “this is my voice x months on t” video i’ve seen changes their voice drastically within the first few months. maybe it’s different for you but again, the cons outweigh the pros for me and i would still wanna rope. what’s even the point of repping if you’re on t anyways? oh boy can’t wait to get fucking hairy and fat while everyone still sees me as a girl durrr
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>>43870273
cis moid here
being a man has nothing with being amab. uniquely, men have an extremely broad range of gender expression, precisely because they are not defined by reduction. The concept of feminity is strongly bonded to the afab body because it is a reductive one : a woman is *not a man*. A man, in the other hand, is free to be anything he wants, and *then* a man.
the only thing you have to be is being certain that you are one. then, you can be anything, even a feminine man like a no theater actor or a crossdresser.
in other words; stop whining about your bussy and start blasting test and your androgen inflated ego will transition you by itself
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>>43870357
>dunno man, every “this is my voice x months on t” video i’ve seen changes their voice drastically within the first few months
i voicetrain retard
>can’t wait to get fucking hairy
correct, it's great for helping dysphoria
>and fat
i'm not fat because i don't engorge myself, you should try it
>everyone still sees me as a girl
they already do
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>>43870358
this guy gets it.
>>43870273
nobody "wants" to be an ftm op. but this is the compromise we have to make. this is internalised transphobia talk.
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>>43870398
my dysphoria would barely lessen at all if i didn’t at least pass as male. happy that you’re feeling better but i just don’t think it’d work for me personally.
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>>43870562
it’s not even internalized i was a terf for like 4 years lmao. i just think in my case the cons outweigh the pros. maybe if i had luckshit genetics and a loving, supportive family i would transition, but i don’t, so i won’t. i’ll just cope and butchmode my way through life.
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>>43870358
>start blasting test and your androgen inflated ego will transition you by itself
Do pooners really believe this?
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>>43870723
aap tunapooner or straight guy trying to make tomboys for his broken bird fetish, call it
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>>43870723
nah, not really. seems like cismoids do tho
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>>43870649
>i was a terf for 4 years
okay so it's deeply internalised. got it.
obviously, i don't know your life. but i wouldn't consider myself the winner of the gene pool, and i def wouldn't consider my family loving. but the pains transition brought pale in comparison to the pains repping would have caused. people don't transition knowing from the outset that it will work for them, i didn't. but i am much happier now that i did. don't give up so easy.
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>>43870802
damn you’re making me feel things.

i’ll think about it more for you anon.
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are you so braindead you think trans men want to be trans and not amab? Yeah no shit nobody wants to be a sad ettempt at a man but if you're gonna be miserable either way at least be true to yourself. Also If you want to kys hrt isn't gonna fix that not for you not for anybody
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>>43870880
i'm glad. hoping for nothing but the best for you.
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>>43870888
i think that most trans men are pretty okay with what they look like when fully transitioned, not totally but mostly.

i just don’t think i would be happy with myself even then. my genital dysphoria is probably the worst i have and every pic i’ve seen of ftm bottom surgery just makes me shiver. it almost never looks even close to a penis and it sure as hell doesn’t work like one. if that’s what i’m left with why even bother?
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>>43870936
two things worth considering

1. a lot of pictures of surgeries online are for other surgeons/from medical work, usually not fully healed so, yeah, they're going to look *rough*.

2. are you just looking at phallo? meta is just as good of an option, and lets your penis actually work like a penis (you can get hard on your own/pee standing up). there's great prosthetics on the market you can use w meta to have penetrative sex as well.

there's not a lot of great info for trans men wanting bottom surgery since such a small % of them ever end up getting it, but don't get it twisted we have the technology.
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>>43871053
oh trust me dude i’ve looked at a LOT of photos.

i’ve seen maybe 2 that genuinely look great to me, both phallo. meta is good for those reasons yeah but also it’s a glorified micro penis, which is a very big downside.

i’m sure that with some amazing surgeon and months (maybe even years) of healing and medical tattooing and all that shit it could possibly look okay, but still i’d have to be so unbelievably lucky to get something that even resembles a dick, let alone actually has full sensation and everything. i know i’m kinda shooting down everyones ideas and i don’t mean to, but it just seems kinda hopeless, i might even feel worse if i ever decided to get it.
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>>43871131
it's okay, i understand the hopelessness.
the hopelessness turned me off from it for a long time. no other trans people i knew wanted it since nobody was as dysphoric as me. most were actively appalled by it which did not help haha. it took me a number of years to finally fully come around and accept the idea.

>i might even feel worse if i ever decided to get it.
i guess something to ask yourself, if you really thought about it. would you rather live your life with a penis that isn't perfect? or no penis at all?
when i thought about it like that, my answer became obvious.
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It's so funny that you people call males amabile (friendly, kind, gentle, sweet) and females afabile (soft, gracious, benign, debonair)
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>>43870358
>being a man has nothing with being male blabla
lol you trooners say the most ludicrous things kek
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>>43871350
you’re on the lgbt board bro. go back to pol
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>>43871233
i’ll think on it some more, as long as it doesn’t look like a limp piece of flesh like most i’ve seen i suppose it’d be better
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>>43870936
>every pic i’ve seen of ftm bottom surgery just makes me shiver. it almost never looks even close to a penis and it sure as hell doesn’t work like one.
NGL this is extremely real, every time someone tries toconvince ppl it's not it's just some massive cope, like "noooo there's a vast array of fully passing phallo dicks out there, there just somehow isn't one (1) photo of one of them anywhere because somehow it turns into this massive issue of privacy as soon as it doesn't look like a tube of arm skin somebody doodled on"
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>>43870273
most people don’t hate trans people nona, just a highly vocal minority on the internet. I’m sure your family would be awkward about it, but ultimately love and support you
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>>43871591
oh no my family are all huge maga fucktards. love them, but realistically they would never support it and every time i saw them for the rest of my life they would say something along the lines of “you were such a beautiful girl… why did you mutilate yourself like this? i can’t even look at you”

they already really really hate the fact that i’m only into girls, and i didn’t even tell them that, they just found out somehow. this would be that 100x
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>>43871584
that’s what i’m saying. i’ve probably seen a good 100 photos of different phallodicks and maybe like 6 of them looked okay and only 1 that i can remember looked genuinely passing. it’s so bleak.
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>>43870273
Realistically ftm > cis m for 100 reasons. Transition while you can enjoy it.
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>>43871796
i’d really love to hear those reasons. if one of them is anything along the lines of “boypussy” i’m gonna rope
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>>43871832
We look better on average, have more common sense, and tend to be more versatile. We also tend to be less insufferable in the long term, but that's just my experience dating both.
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>>43870273
>I can't have the best option, so I'm not going to bother with the second best one, and just stick with the worst, because I lack the drive to do anything to better my situation
ftfy
I thought this for a bit when I was a kid and I'm glad I grew out of it fast.

>>43870936
>my genital dysphoria is probably the worst i have and every pic i’ve seen of ftm bottom surgery just makes me shiver.
If it gives you any hope I've found that my genital dysphoria is a lot easier to deal with everything else taken care of -- I was planning for phallo at one point, but I can #cope well enough without it five years later.
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>>43870888
>are you so braindead you think trans men want to be trans and not amab?
lol, lmao even
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>>43870273
there is only pain brother. only pain
deal with it in the best way you can
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>>43870273
yeah i ftm repressed so hard that i'm a cis girl again so it works
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Encouraging pooner transitioning is just vile
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>>43870649
this made me think.
if only we had a robust support system for trans ppl to medically transition a lot of repressing tman would transition better and wouldn't fall for queer/theyfab/non-transition mentality...
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>>43870273
it's okay. I am the same way just opposite. It's a valid way to live life. Lucky for me ssris just made me better and I can cope pretty well
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>>43870273
>the reason why i’ll never transition is because i don’t want to be ftm, i want to be amab and that’s unattainable so there’s no fucking point
Same here. It's literally just so fucking retarded. I want to be a MAN not a woman with frog voice and tit chop.
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>>43870273
lets swap bodies
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>>43870358
shut the fuck up retard.
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theyfabs be like how can i broadcast my own retarded listlessness so people feel bad about me when truthfully i only have myself to blame.
i assume it's the same like retarded 18yo theyfab who is making all these threads the past week, one suggestion: rope and just from somewhere really high so you have a long time to think about what a failure you are
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>>43873349
how is op a theyfab? retard
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>>43874230
were they actually talking about me? lol

that reply was so bizarre that i didn’t even realize. i’m just talking about repping, why are people so mad?
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>>43870289
have you ever had someone look into your eyes and meaningfully tell you that they love you anon
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>>43870357
>muscle
>skin texture changes
>mental benefits
>redistro
Just say you're a pussy
>t. 1 year hrtrepper
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>>43874738
i would like all those, trust me. but you really can’t hrtrep for long as an ftm, people will notice.
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>>43870273
that used to be my repper cope (other way around but yk) but rather diy than let my body develop in a direction i dont want even further.
might as well take your T dog
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>>43874230
>how is op a theyfab
op is a theyfab bc they're a femrepper and all femreppers deep down are theyfabs who smart enough to realize how ridiculous they are but not smart enough to transition and be successful
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>>43870273
i know a cis girl who wants a dick. what she does is take topical DHT cream directly on her clitoris to get bottom growth and no other effects. it's not a bad result desu. she has a 2 inch microphalus now it's pretty nice
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>>43874946
Even if they notice, there's a shit ton of plausible deniability cissies can give as long as they know you >1-2 years. Haven't "socially transitioned", don't need to and probably won't unless I move to a different country and change my all documents
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>>43875249
socially transitioning aint so hard dog as long as u pass people start treating u as a man, i still use my deadname for some stuff n ive nvr been questioned abt it, i sometimes say i have 3 names so people get used to preferred name and deadname
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>>43870273
Most people are all pretty young on this board, I’m holding out hope that when I’m in middle age there’ll be extremely realistic FTM SRS
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>>43873270
nigga with all due respect I was born with balls I know what I'm talking about better than you
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>>43875274
I largely mean the name thing. I am in a conservative country so people are not friendly towards the concept, I usually don't correct people adressing me male though
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This has to be some kind of a psyop, you can easily hide "effects" of hrt and I don't understand why are you pretending otherwise. Laziness or fear of going against against your parents (and broad society) wishes? Either way you have a weak mind. It's probably better if you don't transition, you can't get rid of this much fembrained complacency.
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>>43874418
yeah your mother
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>>43870744
What is the point of being ftm unless you're into girls?
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>>43873257
real
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>>43870398
The men that look like a yeti are a minority.
I for only have chest-hair + happy trail and if your body hair is light it wont be visible.



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