I'm worried that if and when I get a boyfriend I wont be able to pleasure him as much as I would like. Does anyone know how I can practice for said event without actually having sex.TLDR how to not be a newfag/noob at sex
>>43882086you stupid little retard, just tell your partner the truth and let them teach you. its literally what the sex is for.
>>43882086shut the fuck up you autistic faggot
>>43882092I guess>>43882138bully :(
>>43882086buy a medium dildo and put it in your ass and throat regularly
>>43882092Would a cis man dating a trans woman care if she's a virgin though? Like would he be negative, neutral, or positive about it
>>43882369Does this fix having a strong gag reflex?
>>43882369But wouldn't that just make me less tight? and therefore the sex would be worse?
>>43882408positive
>>43882414you can train that away yeah.>>43882491debatable. the kind of guy whos thrilled to be dating a virgin is a loser a lot of the time.
>>43882460not unless youre using xxl bad dragon horsecocks or something. shouldnt change anything and honestly wont prepare you for actual sex but will help you get accostumed to what insertion feels like and hopefully help you learn how to enjoy it because if youve legit never put anything up there itll feel uncomfortble and maybe painful at first.dildos can help train gag reflex but more importantly help you not give toothy head which is much worse than gagging.honestly though you should tell your partner youre a virgin, or at the very least say you dont have a lot of experience or that its been a while. if theyre normal they wont give a fuck and honestly like other anon said the types of dudes who are super into virgins are usually weirdos.
>>43882584Thank you anon! I guess its my job to buy a dildo now...
>>43882766sure i hope you like it or maybe youll find out you dont and thats cool tooi reccomend buying a enema bulb as well to clean yourself up beforehand. honestly if your just by yourself a soapy finger up your hole in the shower before is usually enough if you havent eaten but enema makes the chance of mess a lot lower. and always use lots of lube (make sure your lube is compatible with the toy), anal might be uncomfortable but it should NOT hurt ever and if it does youre being to rough or not using enough lube.dont splurge on some luxury 100 dollar fantasy wang if its your first toy, buy a smallish regular cock for like 20-30 bucks. if you find you really enjoy it then that is the time to consider more luxury options.
>>43882086It’s not up to the woman to be good. The man is responsible for his own pleasure.
This is how I feel about kissing. I get so nervous just thinking about it. I just know I'll fuck it up
>>43883110make sure to turn your head so your noses dont boop together too much (even if i find that extremely cute/hot its not exactly the most comfortable lol) and match their energy, kiss back but dont be super aggro and shove your tongue into their mouth.honestly its not easy to be a good kisser but as long as you do that its pretty easy to not be a bad one.
>>43882086are you saying that you arent sucking the cock of the guy that makes fun of you for being on estrogen?
