what's my special snowflake gender if I'm male but it also feels kinda nice when people use neutral pronouns for me but I also don't really care enough to change how I express myself because I'm so used to being seen as a guy? my body is male and I'm okay with that but my mind doesn't really feel like anything, you know?thinking about just putting he/they on my bios to tell people "you can use they/them for me but it's fine if you don't" but I dunno what kind of assumptions people make about you when they see that kind of thing
sometimes it just feels nice to be a guy and have someone give half a shit about your gender identity/sexuality
>>43884450he/they is for AFABs, people will assume you're an AFAB if you use he/theyalso that's most people
as cis as possible, probably
>>43884458>>43884469I thought the normal experience was that AMABs felt 100% masculine all the time in their body and mind?
>>43884450You're a cis man
>>43884450girl you literally put the im probably nonbinary tweet for your picrel just say you nonbinary and get over it
>>43884520I dunno I feel like there should be a label for this feeling but maybe I'm just being autistic>>43884526I consider it sometimes but I'm also not sure. This happens every few months too
>>43884450you're just a cis moid who wants to feel special
>>43884450>>43885716Me until I randomly crashed out and evolved into a cis moid on hrt
>>43884577>This happens every few months tooThe label for this is genderfluid I guess but you could just label yourself NB. There's no one single way to be NB.
>>43884516>I thought the normal experience was that AMABs felt 100% masculine all the time in their body and mind?nobody actually feels this way unless you are poisoned by aap/agp
>>43884450>thinking about just putting he/they on my bios to tell people "you can use they/them for me but it's fine if you don't"I was told that trannies were the narcissistic ones...
>>43884450regular shmoe>>4388451612.5% of amabs got agp lolmao
>>43884450>but I dunno what kind of assumptions people make about you when they see that kind of thingOnce you get lumped in as a gender special it's over. I never tell people any pronouns. If they ask I say "any are fine". Insisting on certain pronouns will always have you be "fake trans" in the eyes of otheres
>>43884450you’re describing what I was 2 years ago. you just go based on venue vibes. my bf uses they/them for me exclusively, my family doesn’t know other than my sister who still uses he/him cuz it was weird hearing her not, and otherwise I just decide based on the people around if I say “he/him” or “either he/him or they/them, eithers fine”. its overall a pretty safe change, youll be fine
