Thread for oldfags to congregate away from from the newfags and children. Discuss life, complain about your situation, or humblebrag about how your life is put togetherQOTT: What's your housing situation like? Owning? Renting? Leeching off of your parents? Almost homeless?
>>43887920oh cool. ill start-...im uh...old
>>43887920>QOTT: What's your housing situation like?bought my home earlier this year and planning to live here until my 50s at least
>>43888048How old tho
>>4388812736you?
Hahahaha I will never own a home. My only hope now is to luck upon a rich chaser and live with him. Otherwise I will be a rentoid for life
>>43887920>QOTTPaying for public housing with neetbux. Things are going great! :(
>>43887920>QOTT:live with my family but not leeching anymore and not parents. they own, technically i rent but i dont think it counts since its basically nothing i just cover my part of utilities plus a bit. very comfy but i do need to move out it just sucks cause my expenses will instantly double
>>43888186>Free housingMust be nice
>>43887920So I didn’t think getting boobs and a BBL would make me feel so horny all the time but when my ass claps when I walk and my tits boing i feel like a bimbo and it makes me all horny and dumb. How can I behave like a lady and not a stupid slut?
>>43888154Double it and add a number
>>4388792034 and I finally admitted to myself this past Memorial Day that I'm MtF. I went out in a dress to a local trans film screening, and I'm gonna call some places Monday and an appointment set for an HRT consultation. >housingI'm stable in my career at the present and have an apartment I can comfortably afford. I live in a very conservative area, though, and I work eith the public. I'm worried how this'll may all disrupt this, but my resume's strong enough and I'm positive enough that my boss and supervisor would give me good references that finding a job elsewhere once I'm getting further along enough that man-moding's impracticality is looking won't be too hard. I can't keep living a lie, and if I have to move across to country at some point to live as myself, so be it.
>>43888222brootal
>>43888207pics or larp
>>43887920>away from from the childrentough luck op im 30+ literal childretard>housingshit>>43888207get the horny fucked out of you on the daily, possibly by me
>>4388826734? Sincerely what's even the point of transitioning at that point?
>>43888346Are you retarded?
>>43888358Maybe. What's the point?
>>43888532so 20 yo cis girls with daddy issues stop hitting on me and trying to trap me into marriage or pregnancy
>>43887920we are dinosaurs here. t. was browsing /b/ since 2008.
>35 years old>no bf (all relationships have ended in me being abused)>living at home but my parents are obviously tired of my tranny ass>bouncing from food services to food services jobsQuite honestly, it has never been so over. I don't think there's any recovery I can make
>>43888765t. 2006. feel newfag for not being in on the ground floor despite starting out a /b/tard
>>43887920>qottHad to move back in with my parents a few years ago. Been at my good job for a few years now and I should move out but it's comfy.>>43888207I got fake boobs and a bbl and it just makes me dysphoric about my wide upper body. Got lower ribs reshaped but hoping to get clavicles/upper ribcage this year. I should probably also get a second bbl since im still pretty dorito shaped.
>>43888851>I got fake boobs and a bblmay we see them
>>43888834once newfag forever newfag
Got my final grades for my college prep course thing, going to university at 36. Life is pretty cool
>>43888874nice, what are you studying?
41yo. I have one bf and 2 gfs and I like them more every day.
>>43888880A niche healthcare profession, operating theater stuff. It's gonna be three years of staring at guts
>>43888863artist depiction
>>43888931sounds like it's going to pay well, pretty cool
>>43888977Actually, no! Trash pay and high expectations but it's what I want to do
>>43887920if daddy no like the niggys then y he marry mommy huh she a niggy 2
>>43888826should have went to college
Am I allowed here if I'm 29
>>43889132Begone zoomer
>>43889156But I hate the younger zoomers too :( I don't user Twitter or anything like that I'm the good ones..
>>43887920>QOTTI was living in a van but for the last few years I've been living with my closeted bfI don't have my van anymore and if he leaves me I'll be fully homeless lolgrown-ass transwoman btw
>>43889193>29 yo boymoderoh, honey...
>>43889207whatever I'm 6+ yrs injections and there's no manmoder flag...
>>43888346Why not? Why not actually make myself more me?
>>43889199Damn your van looked pretty cool. How is van living?
>>43888826Wow you are literally me, expect I live with my grandparents and I work in a dead end hotel. Thankfully I’m starting college again in August so hopefully I can finish my degree this time around and not just pray for a rich boyfriend.
>>43889193>>43889229you're cool kid, stick around
>>43887920>newfag doesn't know what oldfag means
I'm 32 still live with my mother in an apartment I make 25 an hour which is barely enough to get by in Massachusetts my life is pretty shitty and I wish I went to college when both my parents were alive and I had a chance
>>43887920>QOTTI rent and live on my own, about average for my city than I want to payliving with my parents as a NEET or employed was hell because they were the kind of fake performative woke "supportive" people who actually made my life kind of hell for being a tranny faggot (and for other reasons beforehand anyway)
>>43890949>about average for my city than I want to payedit fail*but still more than I want to pay
>>43887920>QOTTI am a 41 year old nepo manchild and I live with my mom in a nice Bavarian village style apartment. My mom is a trust fund geriatric and the entire apartment is already paid off for a year. My humblebrag is that i give new meaning to the term luckshit and my complaint is that I am so spoiled nothing ever satisfies me for long and I will never learn how to be truly happy.
>>43887920QOTT:I am living with my parents while I pay off the 40+ thousand dolars of debt that divorce recently left me with. They hate that im a tranny. Hopefully in a year I will be living with my boyfriend in europe
>>43887920Partner and I been living in our own house since 2014. Watched the housing market close in around us and got in while we could afford it. I'm sad that none of our close friends could realistically buy one now, shits fucked
I live with my cousin, his wife, and her brother. I think I'm gonna move in eith my bf in aprilTransitioned at 15 and waited way too long for srs I'm getting it in a week!!!
>>43891084r u a tranny?
>>43891333jelly
i barely had breast growth the last 12 years on hrt but then i started 400mg prog a night/cycling every two weeks and ive grown 2 cup sizes in 2 months. why did i waste so much time as a boobcel OTLt. 31 mtf
what sites do people use to talk to AI bots to make friends with?
im 29
>>43887920On the oldest and yet the youngest and it comes to emotional maturity
>>43887920Almost 35 and not on hrt anymore because schizo and just haven't hung out with another person in years
>>43887920where the old chasers at yo i need a controversially older bf to call unc
Anyone else's goals in life just disappear around 32,32. My goal in life now is basically to be raped and murdered.
>>43892888I’m 38What’s up?
>>43892840Big OOF Congrats on the tits, at least they haven’t had time to sag, so they’re going to look great for another 15 years
>>43887920I’m living in a trailer, in a trailer park. I bought a trailer in 2018, despite making enough money to live in a nice house. I just found a retirement center that allowed me to move. 25k and $500 amonth, only needed to pay for internet, gas, and power? Sold! Now I can sell the trailer for double what I bought it for, and saved a fuck ton of money, but it doesn’t equate to how much housing has gone up.
>>43892945its fine since i looked young and short so guys liked that i kind of looked like an underage girly boy but now im an office lady id like to look a bit less like a faggy boy
>>43892967I always get scared of tornados in Mobile homes
I sacrificed and threw away everything to move to Mexico as a last effort to somehow improve my life, after restarting my life several previous times. I don't think I'm young enough to restart my life like this againt. 32 mtf
>>43892978They’re not an issue. Also i don’t live in Oklahoma.
I'm the oldest hon here
>>43892937hii im 21 where do u live..
>>43893017And how is mexico?
>>43893049how old?
>>43893651Honestly its a completely different world. People are a lot kinder to queer people here. I'm an ogre and people treat me closer to something like normal. In the US I had endless bad experiences and feared for my life.
>>43893017idk if youre the person i know who did this but whether you are or not i hope youre feeling settled and happier <3
32, mtf. Out of a 10 month st4t relationship. He was scared of next steps. Currently healing myself with friends, therapy, writing, baking, and movies. Start a new job on the 22nd after being unemployed for nearly 6 months. Already gotten over my bf desu though. He left me during a time where things were, well, not great for me. Which shows he never actually cared about me. So fuck it. I feel good. Reconnecting with friends has really helped me.
Am I allowed of I am 28 and 7 years on shots?Nevermind, it would spoil the meaning of being 30+ club then
>>43888222Based geezermoder
>>43894260Hey, a little respect ive lived female all my life
35, manmoder troon, living with my familyI will NEVER have the things my peers have and I want to die
>>43889989has its pros and conshardest part was having to move constantly + being harassed by the police, and not having my own shower
31m bishit here. gainfully employed and living the apartment lifeshame seeing so many boymoder and manmoders in here. i hope things get better for you…
>>43887920can we seriously start systematically killing oldfags? if youre above 30 you have no reason to be alive, you're just making things worse for everyone else
>>43895048NOT a trvkeif youre 30+ your purpose is to be my loving husband
>>4388792034 year old late transitioner here. Would have transed earlier but being in constant fight or flight mode due to childhood trauma didn't allow for earlier exploration. I don't think I'll ever pass but looking like a weird third gender thing is still better than looking like a man. At least my wife supports me (came out to her before we got married) and our first child is due soon. I did always want a family of my own, so it's not all doom and gloom. I'm going to get some sperm frozen in case we want another child, I'm leaning yes but want to see how we manage with one first. Once that's done I'm going on DIY because my ADHD + Anxiety ass sucks at making appointments and there's always a waiting period involved anyway. >QOTTI own a property that both my parents and my wife and I live on. I really lucked out in that regard, they gifted it to me with consent from my siblings because they didn't want to worry about us fighting over it once they've died.
Is transitioning basically a young people thing, then when they grow older, they detransition?I'm considering mtf hrt at 24 y/o, but I'm wondering, what will happen when I get older?What's the mtf endgame?I've almost never seen or heard of 40+ transwomenSo is mtf transitioning basically a meme / a phase for young people that doesn't stand the test of time so to speak?I imagine myself in my 30s, 40s - all my lgbt friends would have either detransed or roped at this point. The only peers I would ever interact with are married and have families and children. Is that how it's gonna turn out?It's all fun and games when we're young and cute, but it's gonna be brutal at a later age when everyone is a married normie and you're a troon freak.
qott:renting! trying to get my life a life more sorted before I renter the dating gametrying to find some mtf friends in sydney not having luck yet! but I will keep trying o7
gonna be 30 soon and ive never had a job or lived alone or owned a car!
>>43895345well for someone to be 40+ and a tranny they would have to have trooned before 2010 at least, there arent nearly as many.ppl will probably detroon but also lots wont, why do you think people would detroon? to go from a 40 year old woman to a 40 year old man after trying to be feminine for 15+ years? why.
>>43895378Are you a punkish top that doesn’t understand boundaries?
>>43895399no im a twinkhon with extra emphasis on the hon
>>43895345>I've almost never seen or heard of 40+ transwomenTransitioning has been a mostly modern phenomena due to internet and accessibility. Most people over 40 are Lilley just living as gay men or whatever. things were very different socially thirty years ago. things are way better for trans people now i think in general.
>>43895345>I've almost never seen or heard of 40+ transwomenWhere do you meet or interact with trans women? Is it entirely on social media?
>>43895403prove it to melet me decide if we are predestined to intertwine
>>4388792028 so not quite there yet. Why do so many "LGBT" whatever people seem so be such massive failures? I've worked since I was 18 and have an engineering degree, it feels like I'm in the minority when it comes to having life stability? You could say there's some self-selecting bias here (average 4chan user is a loser), but I see this everywhere in kweer spaces online. People who just are fundamentally incapable of holding down a job?
>>43895620Three reasons:1. Nobody's gonna post online about how their life is going comfortably as expected.2. People post online when they have something to talk about that they can't talk to their friends about in real life as easily. So weird sex things, health problems, conflicting political views, inability to work, etc.3. Visibly queer people obviously do struggle to function in certain situations.
>>43895626>Nobody's gonna post online about how their life is going comfortably as expectedIsn't this the entire point of social media?
>>43895345When I was a teen most of the trans women that were known were 40+.
>>43895689Sure normal social media I guess. But specific subcultures, not really. Why would I come to /lgbt/ to post about my high-paying but relatively easy office job? It's just kinda lame/irrelevant (except maybe in this 30+ thread) since my job isn't really /lgbt/-related and I'm assumed to be straight.
>>43895345>I've almost never seen or heard of 40+ transwomenOne of my best friends of all time was a trans lady in her late 40s. I miss her like you wouldn't believe.
>>4388792044, homeowner. Currently working two jobs to make ends meet. Ain't life grand...
>>43888765>QOTT: What's your housing situation like? Owning? Renting? Leeching off of your parents? Almost homeless?Living in a 2 bedroom with my kid. This is likely to be the best it's ever going to get. It's stable and in a great area and she'll have privacy at least.
>>43895620I can hold down a job just fine, but I've been in survival mode since my family threw me out as a teenager. Too busy keeping my head above water to be more than I am.I'd love to go back to school and finally get my degree, but I'm run ragged as it is, and I can recognize that nobody will hire me after anyway (old, no experience, and the economy in general...).Sucks that I'm not young anymore, either, so I can't even dream of marriage saving me.
>>43895689it was but not anymore, no
>>43894292based yiayiamoder
We're gonna need a 40+ for the millennials soon. I'm 34 but feel like I'm facing death's door and struggling with purposelessness since all I do is work and sleep.My living situation is fine. I'm happily married and since I can't reproduce I feel the right thing to do is devote the rest of my life to lgbt organizations or something.Anyone else dual income no kids trying to make a good difference in the world but dont know how?
>>43888826>all relationships have ended with me being abusedso relatable oomfie
how do you cope with the crippling loneliness of being an older tranner? ive been transitioned for over a decade (since 19) and its so fucking alienating everyone is either some youngshit who has been on E for 7 years but are only 19 or some gigahon who started at 32. it feels so impossible to meet anyone with similar life experience and maturity and im going insane.
i like ratst. 33yo aro troon
>>43897117cute
>>43896878Did you pass for a female
i have never had irls
>>43892888EU 37 with controversial age gap experience throwing my hat in the ring.
>>43893766based tortilla people being more human than the ameritards
>>43897117i wish to hold him (her?) and have them live in my sleeve
>>43897117ratmoder
>>43887920Own. I am filled with desires to blame children for all the ills of the earth
>>43900387don't own and stuck in a room, I blame the boomers for fucking up the house market (un rapporteur's 19 page report agrees)
>>43896540It's better considering how old I am
>>43900408is your age my post #?
>>43900406Well yeah lol which country though?
>>43900436NL. Report literally spelled out how the govt kicked the can down the road for 2+ decades to get us into this mess. Populists still say it's the immergrants ofc, while the corpo parasites push for more immigrants to suppress wages and extract more from the worker bees. The gastarbeiter "we'll just '''invite''' them to do our shit work for a few years and kick them out after, no need to integrate them" bullshit in the 70s didn't help either, naturally.We need a civil uprising that isn't rightoid populist 80iq bullshit, but targets the actual people that knowingly fucked shit up.In the meantime I'm growing to hate my housemates more by the day.
>>43900429Looks like an engine number
>>43900488That's a lot of words. Plus, uprisings only result in being cucked. You should read Burke, Reflections on the Revolution in France 1790. I don't agree with everything he says, but if you look at Acemoglu and Robinson's work in why nations fail and the narrow corridor, you will see that even 200 years later the idea of maintaining institutions is important to the stability of a society. This also includes owning homes.
>>43900784>That's a lot of wordsoh my badlol fags suck or whatever
In my 30s, homeowner, and can't find a fucking gf/bf/nbf to enjoy life with
>>43887920Here's something interesting. I transitioned long time ago and started living as a woman, in a small southern townNo one knew I was a tranny I thought,but people sometimes thought I look like a guy. It was really weird because I didn't know I was a hon!Now what I do? Will people start to speak up about it? Is it better to live in the South?
I'm 29 but I pretend to be in my 30s, is it okay if I post here? I found out about 4chan at otakon when I was 12>>43889132hiiii
45yr old mtf tranny, been transitioned for 7 years. denied transition when i was a teen for being too much of a moid, repressed for decades to avoid being a hon. people say i pass now but i dont agree and it gives me a lot of anxiety. i have a half ass relationship with a guy whos mostly my best friend, and i just paid off my house.
>>43888346nta but the average age of transition is still 30 even with the wave of youngshits.t. rooned at 29
>>43901023is being a troon better than repping? t 38yo repper
>>43887920>qottstill paying mortgage to it and we'll be owning it by 2032 at the latest. we (me and husband) are very strict about finances and not big fans of long term debt at all.
>>43901023>denied transition when i was a teen Okay, I wasn't denied transition when I was a teen, so what am I?I'm older than you
>>43901173No
>>43901173i didn't expect it to be better but its a lot better. granted transition went surprisingly well for how old i was. i was pretty small for a guy, no body hair and never had any male hairloss, could have gotten away without surgeries but got access to a bunch anyways. its not for everyone, it could be very difficult
>>43901452whatever you consider yourself. lucky? trutrans? i grew up away from any support for this. the clinic i went to said i was just a boy with a crossdressing problem and then add all the same brainworms you see on here 30yrs later, it wasnt great.
It is impossible to date in your 30s
>>4388792035 just moved in with my mom, got a job as a janitor, life has never looked worse but at least it's a job. was homeless for a while
>>43902117clean it up tranny janny
>>43902089I'd say it's quite easy if you are okay with dating trans women. Most single cis women in the 30-40 range have children which fucking sucks
33 and started trooning this year. hard to believe the average age of starting is ~30 since everyone i've met is either young or really old. i've been told i have potential and i think i look pretty good but like what's the point if i'm alone all the time? i wish i lived in a house in a city full of other troons and we'd go out and do stuff together. i invested too much into gold and silver which is doing badly, and now i can't stop buying retro games to fill the void and deal with trauma from missing the crypto boat multiple times. qott: i live at home, and i'm on disability so i can't go back to uni to get my postgrad without jeopardising that. am i sharing too much? thread is boring anyway. i also have a child that's a cat and i don't want to take him away from his wide open spaces and move into some tiny place in the city even though that's what i want. when he dies of old age i probably will too, he's my entire world, can anyone relate? i honestly feel like i won't be able to cope when he dies, and reducing his quality of life is selfish and i don't deserve anything good especially at the cost of his happiness.
>>43901496Truthfully, or emotionally and mentally ill. I was an incorrigible child running away from home
>>43903267>am i sharing too muchnah, easy to read in a minute and exactly the kind of opening up that threads like these should be used for. few other places that allow for itlil furball is important, but so is your life, and you don't want to have only one pillar supporting it. would it be possible to leave it here or with parents/friends to allow it to still live outside, but move to a place where you can live and make friends and find a life partner, while still visiting in the meantime?
finally figured out my gf's annual pay and its less than half of what i make and i feel like im barely above water
My friend wants to know if any transgirls could be happy dating a 35 year old straight chaser with an extremely low but not zero sex drive. Just romance and cuddling and maybe some handjobs every few days but nothing gross. Should I tell him to just kill himself?
>>43895345I'm a 41 y/o mtf, transitioned in 2007.>when they grow older, they detransition?No. Never even considered it.>What's the mtf endgame?Being alive? Doing stuff?>it's gonna be brutal at a later age when everyone is a married normie and you're a troon freak.Sure, if you look like a freak, and act like a freak. But if you don't, you don't.There's nothing special about getting old as a tranny. It's literally regular old people problems.
>>43903759congrats, you get to be the man of the relationship
>>43903772plenty of broken (ace) ones out there that are looking for some cuck to provide without even getting hole in return. but yeah tell "your friend" to fix his life so he's not a low-T chaser cuck
Started HRT at 35.
>>43903803There's nothing wrong with being a low T cis man
i hate being such a short fat fucking chud i wish i was loveable
>>43903830I love short, fat chuds. What's up?
>>43903811my condolences
>>43887920>Discuss lifeDoing core exercises before work rn>complain about your situationI lost my main job this week, on to only part time back at Ulta>humblebrag about how your life is put togetherlol, it’s not but I’m fixing my sleep schedule so that’s coolQOTT: What's your housing situation like? Renting, getting dicked down for a discount tho
>>43903839idk i just feel like a gross disgusting ogre sometimes man this shit sucks i’ve lost 40lbs and i’m still shaped like a bowling ball
>>43903810yeah same and well... that was an idea
>>43902117I was just looking at a janitor job too. Was homeless this winter and moved in with my family after the holidays. I kinda want to quit HRT before I invest too much time in it.
>>43903630hmm not really i'd barely ever get to see him, and the idea of leaving him behind is too much for me to cope with, so many nights he's the only thing keeping me going. and anyway i made a commitment and i have to see it through, even if i was young when i made it. i really hate how much i'm missing though being stuck here, i used to love living in the city and i can feasibly do it now but yeah, just isn't something i can let myself do sadly.
>>43887920> QOTT: Living with my dad, we were homeless together, so when I got my shit together obviously let him live with me.
>>43904039I've been working out on and off for years, but went back to it diligently everyday since December. I've also started doing a face routine approved by my esthetician twice a day around the same time. And I've also been on a strict diet...If anything, taking HRT is just part of the package of the routine I'm following to be at the peak of my potential. I sincerely feel better now than in decades.... well I'm still a fucked up BPD mess but at least I'm aging super hot.
>>43904399nona you're sacrificing your life for someone that didn't ask for it, and you might become resentful over it and use it as an excuse a few decades from now as to why you never liveddon't decide for the child substitute to be your excuse to ruin your life
>>43904594it's not that simple. i asked if people could relate, you obviously can't, so don't worry about commenting.
>>43904650>you obviously can'tI sacrificed 6 years of my life on someone, and would have sacrificed more. I can relate. Doesn't mean I'm going to encourage you to repeat my mistakes or the mistakes of other people that have been in similar situations. Nobody will be there in the end to reward you for your unsolicited sacrifices, and the little furball would want you to live if he could talk.
33 cis guy, I've accomplished all of my major life goals (get a degree, get a good job, buy a house)and the only thing I have left to do is get a romantic partner. I put this off for so long with the excuse of focusing on my life goals so I am now really afraid of actually trying to date people
>>43904697i appreciate what you're saying and that you're trying to help, i wasted a similar amount of time on someone too, and yeah i get angry and resentful wishing i had that time back. but there's no chance of betrayal here, my cat loves me and he shows it, and when i'm away for like a week he mopes around hiding from people just waiting for me to come back. i left a cat with my parents when i was a teenager and he was fine i guess but he was young and grew strong, my current cat is small and less likely to be able to fend for himself. i've given 10 years to this little guy from adopting him as a kitten, he needs me i can't leave him now. it hurts but i don't have a choice. it's not like he's a dog, he might just run away because of feeling like he has no territory, or try to find me. i'm stuck, i'm not able to sacrifice my feelings and what i care about for some greater selfish benefit like that scene in "inside llewyn davis", it's just how i am. it would be a complete betrayal of my values, i hate myself enough as it is.
>>43901468you should have prefaced your first post with you being a luckshit>>43901173yes actually, even if you are an actual hon like me
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>>43902117being a janitor looks comfy. i wanna be a night jannie at a school or something. big building just rolling around your mop and trashcan making things look nice while jamming to music. our janitors are contracted out and they have a system where they take pics of qr codes and piles of swept trash to prove they are doing stuff. seems kinda cool like they leave you alone and you can just go at your own pace. but a lot of them are esl and disappear even the cute old ladies. i wonder if their contracts are temp or whats up w that. places like school districts or the state are great too cause you can get tenure and raises for time employed and some even still have pensions it can actually be a pretty good deal
>>43906342Why?
>>43904480>I've been working out on and off for years, but went back to it diligently everyday since December.same and same actually. i was doing cardio/swimmer/femboy diet to stay lean and lanky but i started hrt in december and doubled down on anamaxxing to get abs. it worked by april but i gave myself and ed and now neurotically count calories and feel guilty even tho the composition of the food is way more important than the count>I sincerely feel better now than in decadesx10 it seriously fixed everything and its been going strong since i started. was waiting for the catch and the hammer to come down but it hasnt. very recently a minor bump but im pretty sure its just the mones finally hitting my emotions. i was planning to switch to clean bulk but kinda just keep switching between maintenance and binge mode but i think the weight distribution is actually working even though i really dont think it should given the data, but im pretty sure my hips never jiggled like this and my thighs were never ever this thick and i gained like 10 lbs despite my tummy still being flat. all that was the plan but i thought it was gonna take way way more discipline, not just fucking around with a 1k surplus and 20k steps a day. like i could get full abs back next week just from getting dehydrated without cutting again. >I've also started doing a face routine2% salycilic acid morning and night. exfoliating scrub pad. all day moisturizing 15 spf. sometimes cereve cream. cant tell what is hrt and what is product since the start times overlap. its so dry now tho and it used to be greasy af. but the bigger difference is cutting sugar and refined carbs. seriously just eating ~50g added sugar for a few days fucks up my face. i dont even have to change my pillow cases and can moisturize at night before bed if i just dont eat sugar. was joking w a friend about how retarded i am for not figuring this out before. like who tf has regular acne at 35?
>>43905246>i wastedik ur talk about a cat but i did this w a girl for 6 years and it was a "waste" and massively fucked me up but its also an integral part of my journey to becoming who i am now. idk if i ever would have trooned if i didnt date her and desu if it didnt fuck me up really bad i would have never figured my shit out
>>43887920Anyone else like 33 but thanks to HRT everyone assumes you're a zoomer? Not a bad thing or a humblebrag, it's just funny to me. Like I literally remember 9/11 and shit lolEven stranger when you tell them your age and they get weird about it, like oh sorry for being a crypto-unc i guess
>>43887920How do you find younger partners? Especially if you are an older straight cis man wanting to date a younger gay trans man.
>>43907304how tf do you remember 911 at 33 im 35 and i was too young
>>43907432oh well also i lived right outside dc so i guess it was different for us
>>43903783I wonder if it'll be the same 30 years from now?
>>43907127I'm never lived and I'm already past 30 and therefore dead.
>>43907337begone creepoid
>>43907573Why? I am 30+ and that was an LGBT question?
>>43907337>straight cis man >wants to date a trans mandoes the larp ever stop?
>>43907304i got not-carded at the store for buying epoxy. cashier said dont worry about it bro i got u. im tall af and didnt shave tho. i think some of the zoomers think im one of them, and i think they thought that before hrt even. also since im tall they cant see the top of my head so dont know im thinning and cant detect my combover they just think im alt and a bunch of my managers are obviously like a decade younger than me but sorta treat me like a kidi have zero confirmation of this and am probably just a delusional 37 yo model but will keep up this delusion until i get explicit confirmation one way or the other. if anyone ever asks my age i will make them guess and maybe even say "never ask a lady" while manmoding for the lulz
>>43887920>QOTTHave a condo with my wife, things are good>otherWife is down for MMF threesome, excited about that
I hate being old
Fuck my life
>>4388792040yo manmoder 6 years hrt, I own my apartment. Kinda lonely and got fat but lately ive been turning things around, very seriously locked in a career change into marketing design and copywriting. Got some new friends including an awesome friend from the US that I hope to visit in not too distant future.Trying to "fight" aging by healthmaxxing while kinda laughing at myself because you cant really go back, cant you? 40 is no joke honestly you look exactly like you deserve to look.Im veeery open about being trans and stopped binding last year. People are nice to me idk. I used to be a lot more neurotic about being trans but frankly no one cares. You can even be a hon and still be perfectly ok where I live.I hope I can find a new gf after I lose more weight. Ive been single for over 3 years now and my most recent ex lifemogs me hard. Im happy for her but damn it also stings haha.If anyone wants to chat add me on discord oldfags! tag: uncannydays
>>43910164I love being old!!!
>>43910838Also I'd say 30s and even 40s isnt even that old desu like compared to what? One day you will be 65 and look back on your 40s as basically youth. Sure we look worse now and need to take care of ourselves more but frankly I feel like I still have a lot of energy, I still have hopes and dreams, I dont consider myself "boomerized". I feel like if you stay curious and keep learning things, you can do pretty well in your middle age.
I'm over 30 and I've never touched bussy but I plan to fix that this year with someone from the board
