Pictures are too easy to angle fraud and people hugbox too often. I wish there was a place in person I could go to get normies that don't hate tranners to tell me if I pass/what specifically is holding me back without hugboxing. If there's a god out there and they agree to let me get reincarnated as a cis woman, I promise I'd dedicate my life to helping trans women pass. I'd spend all my free time teaching tranners how to actually dress, how to do makeup, how to do their hair, etc. I'd do it without hate or malice or judgement. I'd be able to do it from an unbiased standpoint without hugboxing because I know that only hurts people. It sucks not having anyone that could help me with this stuff. It feels like anytime I try to make friends with trans women they're only interested in sleeping with me or don't know any of this stuff either. And it feels like cis women are only willing to treat me like their pet gay :(
>>43896530sometimes i think people have a better grasp on self perception wrt. passing than they thinkbut if you want other people's true opinions you should press them on it when they're drunk
>>43896530the kinda shit ive learned to do with angles is insane. irl i look like a fridge but i can crop a pic so it looks like i have a waist AND hips but just out of frame my hips end and even go IN lmao i can even make myself look short and stacked and thats absurd im a literal giant 2x4
