I don't have dysphoria or anything but I never enjoyed my life as a man, I would describe my existence similar to an abused dog.Would you say transitioning would help or won't to jack shit to my depressing life?Stats:>26>Euro>White>175cm (~5'9")>65 kg (~143 lb)
no but at least you’ll get nice skin
>>43904238Transitioning is primarily used for dysphoria and the depression caused by it. There can be other aspects of transitioning that helps unrelated symptoms of depression but it's not a cure all.
>>43904243Cool>>43904251I was talking more about general life not taking is a cure for depression
why do not enjoy your life as a man? why do you feel your depressing life is that way because you are a man?desu i think thst you should just take hrt if you want to regardless. if it feels nice it feels nice. just keep in mind the boobs are forever and think abt your fertility, if that's something that matters to you
>>43904238Do you have female-only sexual attraction?Do you NOT have sexual attraction to your own body, especially if imagined feminized?If you answer YES to these, you are heterosexual and would not benefit from HRT and pronoun swaps.
I have the same premise as OP, with slightly different stats (24 years old, 180 cm)>>43904327I was always too shy to talk to, and flirt with / hit on girls, so that left me in permanent inceldom. And after years like this, this sexual frustration traumatized me, leaving me basically asexual. I don't want women anymore, they annoy me, I hate them. I'm considering getting on hrt but with that other med that prevents boobs from growing. I don't see a way for me to become normal, I've tried but nothing works. And I don't see a way for the world to accept me as I am. I'm 24 now, at this point it's gotten obvious that nothing's gonna change.
>>43904362anon what
>>43904327Bullying, ostracization, isolation, never had friends, always lonely. Had a very bad social development growing up and now I can't really form connection or have some what conversation with people, scared to be wound people too. Obviously khhv and just that thought of what I would have to do to get and KEEP a partner is detrimental.Don't really know how different my life could have been if I had born the opposite sex but I guess it would have been toned down a bit at least.The picture I have in my mind is this will bring me part of a community, non-normalfag friends and maybe a partner, and not being to fit into a role and having to act like a man, but I'm probably just projecting >>43904362>Do you have female-only sexual attraction?Well I like women and trannies, but honestly can't really imagine myself dating a woman>Do you NOT have sexual attraction to your own body, especially if imagined feminizedDon't really know what that means I'm not attracted to myself
>>43904385DamnAnother transbianYou are a bisexual male
>>43904403>You are a bisexual maleI don't like men, I'm not attracted to men, I don't want to have men friends and I don't even want to stay around them
>>43904385Do you have disc
>>43904424Because you want tranniesYou want boobtwinksYou're even scared of men
>>43904377>that other med that prevents boobs from growingfyi this is not real insofar as it is a definite thing! there is no way to completely for-sure and definitely prevent breast development, but you can try.why do you think hrt is what will make you normal? desu i think that you probably just need to develop some confidence and self-love, which i understand as a fellow twenty-four-year-old is much more easily said than done. you totally could try hrt but i'm not sure why you think that this is the solution.>>43904385>The picture I have in my mind is this will bring me part of a communityhey nonny you can get that without hrt :(>not being to fit into a role and having to act like a manthis could be a valid reason to get on hrt (not that there is an invalid reason; hrt should be sold over the counter desu), but truly i think what you need is a community which treats you with kindness and respect. hrt is not what is going to give you this. once you get on hrt you still need to do all the work of finding that community and developing the person you wish to be...it's all the same. you'd just have, like, nicer skin and some female-typical fat placement, after a while. while i am not a khhv, i am a completely broken person with no idea how to function properly, and i've been not only on hrt but living as a woman for the last five years. unfortunately it will not help at all with that :(do you want to commune with legbutts? you can talk to us. you can be a part of the community without being transgender or on hrt. i think that you will find, especially irl, if queer spaces are accessible to you irl, that they will treat you the same as they treat each other.
>>43904430honeybee4mee>>43904434Men are scary.
>>43904451Thank you for your kindness and taking your time with me :)To be honest I feel like I'm just trying to escape, I've never felt comfortable with my life and every time I tried to change or self improve it didn't bring any result.When you don't like your life you try everything to change, I guess I'm just confused rn. I'm sure things will get better for you too!
>>43904495of course nonny :)this is very understandable...i am a little younger than you but i have felt confused for as long as i can remember. i have not figured it (or anything?) out myself, yet, but i think i'm getting there...i hope...you will, too, i'm sure :)it has been recommended that i seek events and groups/clubs etc, which i admittedly have not done yet, but does seem a good idea. have you tried this (can you try this? i live in the middle of nowhere lol...hopefully you do not)? you would theoretically find like-minded or even similarly stunted individuals, depending on what you try. i'm sorry that i do not have much in the way of real advice. maybe once i have put my own self together, lole. very best of luck to you :)
