>18>no source of income>too mentally ill and autistic to work a job>cant drive>already tried getting diy hrt once but dad found the package>seems to know whats up even though it was only bica>need finasteride so i dont hit twink death>Dad buys all my prescription meds so i cant ask a doctor for it, since my dad will probably double check what it is before buying itEveryday i fear my body is rotting more and becoming less desirable. Im just fucked atp, i want to cry.
Either accept your malefail and tell your dad you're not his son anymore, or lock in at McDonald's already so you can learn to be sociable and afford diy and pretty clothes. What the fuck else do you have to lose by stagnating in your farts in your dark ass room, talking to nobody? Whats even the point of wanting to transition if you're gonna be a nasty hermit sperghon
>>43913414as a millenial i've been noticing that rly young people these days like just turned 18, are all giga scared and rly below the level of independence that me and my friends had at that age... Like at 18 i had my own car, i had a shitty part-time job and we were not supervised at all growing up after school, parents were at work all day and came home late so we had to find food and make sure we didn't die and didn't fail in class by ourselvesIt has to be because of helicopter parents and y'all not getting to do anything by yourself as teens
>>43913522>tell your dad you're not his son anymoreIm not trans, i just want to avoid twink death. my dad probably thinks im trans though, since i have a trans older brother and when my dad found the pills he told me he didnt want me ruining my body like my brother did. Im not sure how i would explain that im a femboy to him, and i doubt it would make a difference either way as he will likely still be against it>>43913559Yeah, the fact im an adult genuinely causes me extreme dread, i dont feel mentally like one at all and like i still had years of developing to do that were suddenly just robbed from me. I never got to go to a party, i never experienced teen love, I never got to do any of those core life experiences everyone else had. My mom was overly protective of me to the point where i never even got to spend my own money until she died when i was 16.
>>43913671dont explain it then, just say youre scared of going bald and want medication for it, even if you have to lie to doctors and insurance for it. also, why the fuck do you think youre entitled to spend money as a kid? people make do happily with so much less, youre privileged enough to be comfortably unemployed, even if you didnt get to do shit socially. lock in, because like it or not its time to learn to survive. while you have all day to sit at the computer maybe get some online income streams like indian tier data labelling gigwork or stock trading, sign up for online courses, idk just do something in between job applications so they dont start thinking along the same lines as you about how useless you are.
>>43913850>just say youre scared of going bald and want medication for it,Unfortunately my family has no history of male pattern baldness so my dad would clock that instantly. idk what warranted the super hostile response in the rest of that post but sorry ig
>>43913850>also, why the fuck do you think youre entitled to spend money as a kid?Cause literallly everyone learns to use their own money and buy things by the time they're 18??I bought a pack of yugioh cards from collecting $1 bills when I was 9. TF you mean entitled? are you sure you weren't just so impoverished that it damaged your brain? https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.aee6213
OP don't listen to >>43913850>>43913850he is trying to demoralise you, don't trust anyone who looks down on you for not having a resource-poor upbringing.
>>43913671>Im not trans, i just want to avoid twink deathstopped reading
>>43913918its not hostility, its reality. im just trying to get you to understand, as someone who is actually unemployed for years even after going to school, only reason i can support myself and be comfortable is through money i earned while working, helping my family who support me with housing tuition etc. and guess what, they stil nag at me despite it genuinely not being my fault in this job market. if youre just looking like a lazy bum, chances are your parents patience will run as thin as their wallet.>>43913932yeah not me, nor my parents which is why they raised me that way. i got unlucky even as middle class kid having spending restricted like you, but i sucked it tf up and still manage to be frugal and cost efficient especially compared to some my poor ass classmates who doordashed and ate out all the time, spending the on weed and booze. genuinely, if you think im out to discourage him from something, what is it? going out and being productive? getting on diy and being happier? idk what else you want to do with your life op, but figure it out sooner rather than later
>>43913671>Yeah, the fact im an adult genuinely causes me extreme dread, i dont feel mentally like one at all and like i still had years of developing to do that were suddenly just robbed from me. I never got to go to a party, i never experienced teen love, I never got to do any of those core life experiences everyone else had.me fr except im 20 now kill me. still neeting and cant drive. it gets worse
>>43914167>it gets worsedamn, i knew it.>>43913955i see, sorry for misinterpreting it for the worst
Are you American? Once you have a little money you can get a UPS mailbox (accepts any mail) or PO box (accepts only USPS). I was in a similar situation and that's what I did.
>>43913671Your dad must be so mad he has tranny genetics in his ballsack lol
>>43916548Id need two forms of id for that and i only have one, so im screwed.
