Are bottoms born naturally or raised to be one?
even b4 i realized i was gay i had bottom tendencies & always wanted to be treated like a prized possession. so yeah maybe
when i was younger i used to like roleplaying and i would never roleplay as some main charachter, just as a sidekick that would obey. that may have been a sigh though i dont know
>>43916043I wish I was a bottom instead of just a submissive top
>>43916166>Would roleplay as an obedient side characterHoly...Even I'd just be a submissive mc or smth, damn, almost impressive in a way
>>43916043As a child even when I liked girls I never had the desire to top. It never crossed my mind. I would look at an ass and think "yep, that is pretty", and that's it. I think of it as a lack of "male" instincts. Most trans women and many gay men lake those male instincts that produce a masculine sexuality.I was not raised to be masculine nor feminine. There were very few moments where gender roles were imposed to me, only by peers, never by my parents.
I was bullied, and I used to imagine my biggest bully fucking me. You tell me
>>43916518People like you are fucking disgusting. I would never bottom for my bullies, bullies ruined my fucking life. Bullies are abusers. saying you would bottom for them is like saying you would bottom for a wife beater or a rapist.
>>43916549I cant help my feelings
>>43916557Thats the same thing pedos say, doesnt excuse it. Keep your sick thoughts to yourself and stay out of society
>>43916043send the link to picrel
>>43916588Retard
in elementary school was always very feminine and was friends with mostly girls even before i was violently molested, but honestly i think that’s what made me into a faggot bottom, if that hadn’t happened i’d probably just grown up to be like a normal guy who respected women or somethingI was also bullied frequently for being a faggot and i used to have intrusive thoughts about my bullies raping me which devolved into degenerate homosexual fantasies >>43916518what were you bullied for?
>>43916612Being weaker, having weird interests, and being emotional
>>43916549yeah true, i used to feel sick whenever id have a nightmare about my bullies raping me, but i started coping by imagining they were all secretly also gay and in love with me like the plot of a bl but that wasn’t the case and they just hated me
i wanted to suck my 7th grade teacher’s cock and was very close to asking him if he wanted a blowjob all throughout the semester does that count
>>43916593https://www.quotev.com/quiz/15192538/Accurate-Omegaverse-Quiz-100-Guaranteeit's a longer one, 45 questions>>43916588Comparing traumatic internal coping mechanism related to abuse to pedophilia is insane, even considering if both are trauma relatedPedophilia creates victims while bullying only hurts the original victim more
>>43916629at first before they found out i was gay they would just tease me and make me do “gay things” like making me sit on their lap or letting them grope me but after they found out they would just make fun of me and threw shit at me but they wouldn’t be physical
>>43916646Thank you for backing me, but they are clearly retarded. You cannot help that
>>43916043It's mental illness, so it's a mix of nature and nurture.
>>43916624were you gay before
>>43916673I started having these feelings around 12 so no
>>43916601You literally praise and get off to your own abusers, you are the only retard here.>>43916646Its not a coping mechanism, they are just disgusting perverts who further paint abusers in a positive light. Also almost all pedos were victims of pedophilia themselves so that entire first point you made is moot.
>>43916729i think you have a lot to learn about how women think, anon
>>43916756Thank you for making me lose all faith in humanity anon
>>43916729I addressed that in the second pointgo ask ur therapist or smth I'm not arguing with someone on a Mongolian basket weaving forum>>43916668sometimes sometimes not
>>43916803>Pedophilia creates victims while bullying only hurts the original victim moreThis didnt address anything, this is just an utterly incomprehensible sentence. Bullying creates new victims all the fucking time.>>43916668You deserve all the trauma you ever experienced
dammit…
>>43916043I don't understand the bottom / top obsession
>>43916847best result tbdesu>>43916856Human tendency to enjoy categorization and dichotomies Even if actual sexuality is less rigid and defined, the submissive and dominant roles are easier to understand rather than saying "I bottom like 20% of the time when I let my gf peg me, but I usually do missionary 80% of the time" or something like that
>>43916885being a bottom doesnt inherently mean being submissive
>>43916916it doesn'tbut that's why i said it's simpler to understand submissive vs dominant; top vs bottom; than to fully explain sexuality
>>43916043Dunno, for me i never wanted to top, not into men ass
>>43916043noyt going to stay, but as a chaser saying femboys/tranners are omega's is flat out wrong. they are some of the most predatory, manipulative people you will ever meet. They are anything but omega.
