>Every online community, discord server, forum, etc I join I am heavily disliked, referred to as a retard, troll, etc, usually banned or exiled from most online communities, except one that generally prides themselves on free speech but I am heavily disliked there alsoWhat is the reason for this exactly? I dont even say anything bad, sometimes I sulk about sad things in my life but overall I am just talking what comes to my mind. Why are people so upset at me all the timeTrans people generally really dont like me also, which I find a little sad because Im not really transphobic at all
thats a you problem i think
>>43917002do you have autism?
Inclusivity isn't real
>>43917002>sometimes I sulk about sad thingssounds annoying>but overall I am just talking what comes to my mindbased on prior information the things that come to (you)r mind are also annoying>>43917009where
>>43917008I understand its a you problem but what can I do about it>>43917009I dont know, dont think so? I have never been diagnosed, but I really get called autistic a lot. Get called that all the time actually, my step mom even called me an autistic sperg when she was mad at me.But I dont think these people are using the medical definition? they are just trying to say im retarded, which I might be?
Is "cracked" the opposite of "chopped"? Please tell me, I'm almost thirty, I don't understand zoomerspeak and I've never had sex
>>43917037>zoomerspeakI think this one goes beyond us frankly, I have no idea what either of them mean. It's all just niggerspeak anyway, why would you want to understand niggers? There has never been a nigger with anything valuable to say
>>43917037Cracked is generally using in gaming settings iirc. It means you are really good, you’re so good its like you’re on crack, like goated
>>43917058Chopped is white lingo, raised in a black neighborhood and never heard it until I started living around white people
>>43917037Nah.Cracked is being really good at a videogame.Chopped means getting an awful haircut, but I think nowadays it just means being ugly.I think you are mixing up "chopped" with "washed", which is more related to "cracked" and your performance as a gamer.
>>43917058I think chopped means like rundown/unattractive/incompetent/etc and I think the opposite is cracked but I'm not sure and I don't care enough to look it up >There has never been a nigger with anything valuable to sayI disavow this sentiment. Niggers have plenty of worthwhile things to say, and they should be allowed to say these things in their own Black ethnostate
>>43917028But its only everywhere else speaking my mind is annoying? When I go to 4chan boards like r9k, people are much more understanding. The same on the incels.is website. People are really nice to me there
>>43917068>>43917086I see. Thank you for educating me on your culture
>>43917002You’re probably just really annoying. Just stop being annoying.>How?Whenever you’re about to send a message, think about it first.
>>43917094probably just normalfag communities then idk, xitter and discord retards are usually edgy and underaged with very bad social sense
>>43917029I don't say this to be mean, but a lot of neurotypical socialization is knowing when to signal that you're listening in good faith and subconsciously compromise especially if you're an outlier. "Knowing your place", "learning to shut the fuck up", if you hear stuff like that a lot and constantly get into arguments it sounds like you're snobby and unwilling to dialogue and compromise in good faith. Also, when you engage with people, changes are they also aren't as emotionally invested in certain topics so much as are irritated or revolted by your bad "social manners", aka they think you're weird or an asshole and need to be taught a lesson. It's just more obvious and eager to antagonize people back online than in real life, where people just stare at you, walk away, and ostracize you.
>>43917002>>43917094please anon dont do stuff like going on incel websites youre only making yourself worse, i also deal with many people hating me and just being unlikeable generally but youre only making it worse like that
>>43917094it could also just be that you’re unable to hide your powerlevel and constantly signal being a robot which, rightfully so, makes people not want to associate with you
>>43917002If you are looking for a therapist to complain to I can do 1 hour discord chats with you weekly or biweekly. We can discuss pricing. I will do the first 2 hours pro Bono if you are financially challenged.
>>43917077>Chopped is white lingoapparently it's from general NY NJ area, so guidos, that's not white
>>43917110I dont think Im being annoying. I think Im speaking my mind. If speaking my minds prompts you to want me to shut up how about you fucking kill yourself?Im not going to change myself for you.>>43917123I dont do twitter anymore, but on twitter I actually had more fun than being on discord. The thing is, I had more fun when I was actually being a troll. When Im myself I get flamed and harassed and bullied, But when I was trolling on X(I had an account called super incel mega grapist or something) I got some hate but I actually had a lot of people like my posts and follow me. I guess because those are my people, I feel more comfortable around incels and the such>>43917124Hm I see what you mean. Perhaps I do need to get off of these discord communities. Guess Im not a big fan if talking to faggots who seethe at everything I say.
>>43917002post screenshots of what you generally say>I sulk about sad things in my lifesounds moderately annoying
>>43917181It sounds like the proboem is that you were interacting in too many spaces moderated by reddit nihilists
>>43917029You likely lack social awareness and socialization skills, being called autistic all the time and "talking what comes to my mind" points to it more honestlyAutism doesn't mean retarded, it means socially retarded, you're probably missing cues and coming off as annoying to others
>>43917181>The thing is, I had more fun when I was actually being a troll.Well duh, whole point of trolling is to get that kind of reaction, obviously getting it when you're being sincere sucks cause it's real and you're being disregarded. I guess just hang around here then. There's fewer annoyances than on discord and if you really need someone to talk to more personally than try finding people in games not in discord servers. No matter what happens never send anyone a picture of your butthole though.>t. sent a picture of my butthole
>>43917181>tells someone to kill themself over nothing>wonders why they don't fit in and aren't liked
>>43917136Incels are so much more nicer to me than any other community though lmao, when I was younger I would get HUGELY flamed and banned in leftists spaces, still do in this left leaning discord server but not as much. But in incel circles im actually respected? Im actually getting along with people. People LIKE me there!>>43917137I guess I dont like lying about myself, if Im upset about being a loser, I should be able to say that you know? i feel like lying about myself is worse.>>43917138I appreciate the offer but honestly I cant help but think of therapy as being faggot shit. Like, Im a man, I should do man things like going to the gym. Therapy seems extremely feminine.
>>43917227incel "circles" dont respect you they are all the worst of the worst fueled with hate please anon get off that youre going down a terrible pathim a loser too and as much as im jealous of others and sometimes that causes me to be hateful you have to recognize its not anyones else fault and you should seek to improvebesides what are you even if youre a man this is the lgbtboard
>>43917181Yeah idk nigga, after one exchange, I would already have just never interacted with you again if this was on discord. Don’t change if you’re happy with how things are, but I thought the point of the thread was that you were sick of everyone thinking you’re an underaged faggot and treating you as such.
>>43917198>>43917200Yes, I do think it is both of these things.>>43917211Thanks for your response, Im definitely quitting discord then. I think I will just uninstall it today.>>43917242Thanks for your response. Im going to stop blaming other people and focus on myself. Also I guess I would be considered an ex-chaser, I identify as Ace now>>43917217>>43917243I realized im talking to people Im incompatible with, you are a retarded faggot and should consider suicide. Your opinion means nothing to me. I dont like you and I dont want you to like me.
>>43917261anon it can be better, pleasee im autistic too i know whats its like to be socially bad but hate is not the way
>>43917261Then why make this thread? You’re perfect the way you are. Most people will hate you for being insufferable, but that’s what you want.
>>43917285I understand but its just upsetting when people like>>43917317Come here to flame me and then pretend like they are trying to help me. These redditor esque faggots are so tiring. This is why I would rather spend my time in incel spaces where these people dont exist.
>>43917317I hate you for being insufferable. Find a knife and slit your fucking wrists loser. Im abandoning this thread now.For everyone else who has given advice thank you, this was very insightful, I hope everyone else has a good day, except tat faggot he needs to blow his head smooth off or get raped by a pack of niggers.
>>43917138>t.>>43917227Again, I don't say this to be mean, but this is my perspective. Incel circles are for men with socialization issues, which are functionally the same for sensitive/queer/"woke"/otherwise neurodivergent people in highly specialized online interest spaces. They moreso are formative social structure than an interest group, aka echo chambers or hugbox spaces. Some may actually advance your interests, but a lot tend to make you internalize and victimize the polarization between you and regular people in the process, and any outliers tend to come up as an attack on social group and reinforcing extreme beliefs on your personal identity if you aren't mindful. If your social group isn't being productive in their general manner of being or socializing and tend to be regarded as autists or extremists, then that's a sign you need to be careful about what info you're consuming.
>>43917342when people like what>>43917360anon honestly i can see why people dont like you...and im here ingood faith but like dont be racist dont say that dont tell people to kill themselves omg
>>43917002Join my server n we'll let you know how to improve :3>https://discord gg/5uTyB7Eab
>>43917009>>43917008>>43917002Same. Its because normoids can't fathom the idea of being criticized for their own actions. Bioholes have been taught they can do nothing wrong. It's why more and more men are admitting that trans women are genuinely better life partners and flocking to date us. A biohole when confronted with her mistakes will either deflect, deny, or break down and cry. They are incapable of saying>I was wrong in doing xyz, here is what I'll do to fix it or improve upon myself so that doesn't happen again The few cis women who do understand this are already marriedWhen we come in and break that false reality they've built upon themselves reinforced by other weak men, they freak out and we are ejected from communities.
>>43917342>>43917360You should leave and stay in your incel safe-spaces then. What was the point of this thread?
>>43917459This is the perspective I mean when I say people tend to internalize polarizing beliefs, OP. The real answer is, the average person does not primarily operate based on logical truth, they operate based on emotionial truth, satisfaction, and convenience. If you think you are solely logical, can you attest to your full uninhibited focus on being productive and optimal in everything you do, including jobs, diet, exercise, etc? Have you ever wondered why despite obvious logic, people can't seem to engage with what you think is your truth? Your truth isn't universal or even most common because again, their axioms revolve around rationalizing their emotions in their goal of life satisfaction. The fact that people struggle tend to self isolate and polarize, aka get sour grapes and mald at women and chads and minorities, that's a form of escapism that's maladaptive coping from being dealt a shitty hand. The stereotype of talk therapy where you vent isn't actually that productive, and that's not what therapy really is about. Therapy is about challenging your life assumptions and making improvements to your life that will make you happy, aka emotional satisfaction. Give it a chance especially if you have insurance, you might not even have to pay to have someone truly engage with you face to face for who you really are.
>>43917459>hsts flag saying bioholesthe larp is amazing
>>43917459
Me too lol. I think that's because I'm not an attention whore or want to worship people who operate these servers, so they naturally hate people who refuse to play their gay social games. That's why I stopped participating in these degenerate "communities". And yeah, the only good communities where I felt appreciated had like 4-5 people at most in them.
