are you the same nona from the other day who got asked what context your chest is getting touched in and you answered "its complicated". at some point you gotta give the details because what possible circumstances have lead to you being here twice asking about this.

>>43922443
no but that sounds like something that would happen to me. I work at a woke-ish workplaces where everyone suspects things but these other two coworkers (pooner and enby) keep trying to get me to out myself and it makes me really uneasy.

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>>43922453
>these other two coworkers (pooner and enby) keep trying to get me to out myself
picrel
anyway if theyve clocked you just accept that and tell them youre stealthing and to please respect your boundaries regarding that. therapyspeak like that tends to appeal to theyfabs

>>43922494
idk if that will work with them because they keep trying to get me to go to this LGBT meetup where we work that's always full of theyfabs. Like last time they pressured me into it (mostly because pooner wanted me to keep someone away from his ex I later learned) and he was like "these snacks are if you're cis, these are if you're trans, what do you pick?"

I just expect them to double down here since ime afabs have no concept of boymoding for safety/comfort.

>>43922437
i wish that were me

>>43922564
for the record he keeps joking about putting estrogen in my water but nonetheless keeps touching my boobs. Today after we closed he was even chasing me around in the parking lot trying to grab them while everyone watched.

>>43922541
>these snacks are for if you're cis, these are if you're trans
Wtf is this supposed to be?? What is a trans snack? Unless he was just asking if you were trans in the weirdest way possible?

>>43922583
>Unless he was just asking if you were trans in the weirdest way possible?
That's exactly what he was doing. He was also putting me on spot in front of other people.

I think he wants gender to be a performance/event and expects it to be the same for me, like when he started T he had a whole party for it where he played NFL music and stuff and has talked about how much he'd love if his family threw a gender reveal party.

>>43922603
I get that he wants to be supportive, but you really need to sit him down and tell him to stop. Like, even if I'd pay money to see this >>43922579 it's kinda a bit much. If you haven't already, try talking to him and find out why he's even doing this. I hate to say, but I kinda assume you're an open secret where you work now, so there may not even be a point anymore

>>43922644
tbc the pooner and guy who keeps touching my boobs are two different people, the latter is a cis guy.

Just because cisoids are usually oblivious I suspect he thinks it's just a bit (theyfab even chewed him out for it once and I was cringing so hard) but pooner probably actually thinks it.

>>43922494
the poon in picrel is based desu.

>>43922667
Where do you live that you have what I'm now assuming is a chaser and multiple trannies in one workplace? I'd call you lucky if they weren't all insane, lmao

>>43922696
Chicago area. Place is probably >50% queer. One of the head managers is a bi cis guy, I can think of at least one gay guy, and this one cis tomboy who everyone suspects has some degree of repressed bisexuality. Like only really dates fem guys, dresses quite masc and swears a lot, I think she's lowk been trying to flirt with me but also pretty willingly takes part in egg accusations thrown my way.

It's genuinely a fun place to work, but everyone there is autistic or some kind of mentally ill (myself included)

>>43922717
I still feel for you, but I hate to say that I'm a bit jealous now. Have heard people openly talking about wanting to kill trans people and that's just like allowed. I assume all the nutcases you work with just want you to feel included, (was gonna say safe, but you're getting groped daily, lmao) but are going about it in probably not the best way. You need to set boundaries if it's making you uncomfortable. I hope you can work something out since it seems like you're happy there. Unrelated, but you're stronger than me, I'd fold for the tomboy immediately

>>43922786
In the big scheme of things I actually feel very lucky with it all, the only reason I'm not out to these people is because I'm not ready to socially transition and I'd rather not burden everyone with "so what should we call you?" I think the groper will understand once I explain things; he's a generally good guy even if his sense of humor is a little interesting

Funny you say that about the tomboy lol, she keeps bringing up how on a trip we were all on she accidentally bumped into me from behind and I fell onto a couch and she claims I bent over (I came back with "what are you doing step sis.") She also was like "you're such a girl bro" when I did a shot really slowly, and kept asking if I wanted to fight when we were all around the campfire (she's a black belt in krav and would kick my ass). Dunno if any of this is really flirting, but it's fun to lean into the bit even if it feels a little unethical given how I'm not fully representing myself

>>43922453
>>43922541
where the hell do all of you people work where there's like a billion trans people?

also, touching your coworker's chest isn't appropriate in any context other than if you're literally administering cpr.

>>43922437
suck his dick

>>43922437
no one should be touching you at work. you need to establish better boundaries. Step on their feet when they get too close to you

I hate weakness and you sound repulsive. If someone is touching you at work then they should be fired and the police should be called.

>>43922858
I wish I'd moved to Chicago when I had the chance, I just thought how people talked about it for trans people sounded too good to be true. I'm glad I wasn't too far off saying that and I wish you luck with him. I'm sure he'll understand. And yeah, that sounds pretty flirty to me. Unless she's really leaning into the step sis bit and now you're her little sister and she just wants to tease you, lmao. I'm sure you can make it work either way, though :p

>>43923329
yea honestly this
you need to tell your boss or some kind of authority that someone has been touching you, its not ok

>>43922579
whup his ass

>>43922579
bro where tf you live this is clear sexual harrassment and grounds for his dismissal

bump

>>43922437
ask him if he's gay

>>43923225
He's not me so dont do it

>>43922494
>finally found the poon man pls not now pic again
thanks nona, ive now saved it with a filename so i can find it in the future

>>43923702
he keeps grabbing the boss's chest too who thinks it's hilarious

The men in my work locker room keep cracking jokes about me not Changing in there

>>43926447
tell them to stop and if they don't then tell your manager or HR. complaining would not out you because this is behavior that would piss off the vast majority of people. repeated unwanted touching is something that any HR department would easily be able to deal with because it is a huge legal liability for the company.

you are an adult, you need to learn how to stand up for yourself.

>>43922437
firmly state that him touching your chest makes you uncomfortable and if he does it again you're going straight to HR
if he wants a reason either tell him you dont need one to be uncomfortable with it and/or tweak his nipple. Hard

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>>43922579
>AFABS can fondle AMABs at work with total impunity
>OP is too stupid to be acutely pissy over it