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Anonymous Archived
 No.43937407
 No.43937407 Archived
how do i come to terms with my family deadnaming and misgendering me behind my back
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Anonymous
No.43938038
 No.43938038
>>43937407
thats so fucked nightmare scenario
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Anonymous
No.43938039
 No.43938039
>>43937407
depends, nona. sometimes having zero acceptance is better than strenuous half-ass acceptance. for me, i accepted a long time ago, before i came out as trans, that no matter what i would do, my family would never accept me. this was before i came out ofc.

for me its the same BPD reflex as my coworkers shit talking me. i want to run far far away, where no one can see me and I can finally carry out some sort of borderline suicidal behavior.

My best tips would be to acknowledge that you love these people. Then acknowledge you dislike them for what they say and how they hurt you. Take the high road, always, as a tranny living in this hell. Worry about you, not their neurotic competition in, "how much can we he/him nona in a conversation?" Take caution my friend.
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Anonymous
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 No.43939835
>>43938038
they're nice to my face but when i'm not there yeah
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Anonymous
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 No.43940656
>>43937407
go no contact if you can. if you cant, work towards the possibility and keep in mind that they do not have the best for you in mind or heart. you dont owe them shit, not even "love"
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Anonymous
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 No.43941536
>>43937407
Threaten to rape them thats what i would do
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Anonymous
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 No.43941541
>>43937407
detransition since they're probably right about you being a man
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Anonymous
No.43941570
 No.43941570
>>43937407
oh that's like everyone's experience
not that special.
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Anonymous
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>>43937407
You should’ve foreseen this.
Even the most supportive parents (not talking about transforcing parents) don’t want a tranny for a kid.
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Anonymous
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>>43938039
I figured my family would either completely disown me or completely accept me, I wasn't prepared at all for this kind of half-assed acceptance now that I'm actually out to them. It's weird because my mom is telling me to own myself and be me and took me out for my first mani-pedi yesterday and tells me I'm pretty but still seems to have this very bio-essentialist view that I'm just a "man who feels more comfortable as a woman" and refuses to gender me correctly. Maybe she's just too spineless to try to defend me against my chud 17-year-old brother.
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