>match with a trans girl on a dating app>chat with her for a few days, agree to meet for a date>meet her irl, make pretty decent small talk, no red flags>notice that her arms are COVERED in small scars, especially around the wrists>she explains that they are the result of years of self harm>finish the date, wish her good night, she asks me to text her tomorrow, etc.>block her on everything as soon as i get homedodged a fucking bullet, bros
I had this happen but we had sloppy makeouts but I didn't block her and she ditched me for someone else
Is there really anything that erupts in red flags more than a cluster B body plan incongruence homosexual male on estrogen... seems almost unbeatable.Good on you for preserving your mind and not falling prey to the siren's song of an insane faggot's brown hole
she dodged a bullet too not having to date a faggot who uses this board
>>43941010Insane faggots have the best holes.
should people who hate themselves just die instead of trying to get better? i'm wondering if there's any point when you're forever tainted by your self hatred
>>43940985you should kill yourself anon
>>43941029Sure, but assplay is temporary.Trauma from a terrible relationship can be eternal.
I hate you OP
>>43940985She's probably an srsoid as well
If you wanted to admit that you're an asshole then don't be so vague about it.
>>43941596Why does not wanting to date someone who is severely mentally ill make OP an asshole tho?
>>43940985SHE dodged a bullet you ghoster piece of shit
>>43941607WAS mentally ill
try to find less long-term outlets for the bad stuff, nonas
>>43940985this post makes me want to cry, good to knowill forever be unwanted for self harming like a retarded faggot
>>43943179never makes me sad. not everyone is like op and we're better off without people like him because he's only a shallow person. it's actually kind of nice because i get to have only genuine people in my life now. why would i want to be friends with a lil guy like op without the capacity for empathy or the ability to understand that people grow and change. living like that, now that's sad
>>43940985Tbh, as someone who used to SH, I don't get why people do it in obvious spots. I did it up to exactly where my school skirt covered with razors. The cuts healed since they were not too deep. I have friends who have major scarring on their arms, and it sometimes feels embarrassing to be seen with someone like that. I know that is really mean
>>43943290Soz, typo made it sound like I wanted it to be seen, ew no. I mean, I lowkey checked where the skirt would cover it perfectly
>>43943271i did to much and now im going to have sh scars forever.. im to scared for anyone to see them
>>43943290i didn't care because i didn't think i'd still be alive. also are they fresh or old. cuts and scars are different. if they're new then they have issues they need to sort out. i'd give someone like that space to figure things out because i'd rather not deal with drama. but if they're old scars and you're still thinking that then i'd say if i ever heard that someone was embarrassed by my scars i'd just instantly stop hanging with them because being their friend likely isn't a blessing. also if thats the case you should tell ur what you really think so they can find real friends. assuming.>>43943323i have them along half my body. i probably look wild but they're clearly faded af and i have zero issues talking with people because as long as you're normal it doesn't matter. for the small amount that apparently care, it filters them out and i never have to deal with them. non issue. like oh no i can only talk to real people now
>>43943503i only have some on my thighs but they are burns that will neverrr go away and i have red spots that even after a year dont seem to fade
>>43940985Good for you, anon. You have good survival instincts.
For all the insecure trannies itt, it's always dependentThere's people who will hate scars, people who don't mind, love you despite it, or even fetishize itDo try to stop cutting, as it can make things harder, even if you don't plan to live you cannot see the future where you might be alive with scars now>>43940985Rude to ghost and block, should've told her then blocked desu
>>43940985it would only be a matter of time before she attempts suicide over something you said or did anyway
I hate you so much, I wish I could date her
>>43943057>WAS mentally illha ha ha
>>43940985The worst decision I ever made was dating a scar-ridden girl for over 3 years. >near the tail-end of our relationship>she was arguing with me about how I was too simple and never wanted to accompany her to drug/alcohol-driven parties>always feel a little bad for not tagging along, but I have my principles>at least she's able to go with some of her coworkers>while she's at a party, she calls me insisting that we break up>a week later, she calls again in tears>says that she only broke up with me because she had been sexually assaulted at a party and felt too guilty to be in a relationship with me anymore>comfort her and say we should do something about the guy who assaulted her>she doesn't want to do anything, she'd rather let this guy off without a crime to his name>won't even tell me any details of what happened>says she wants to be my partner again>tell her I'd like some time to think about it>a month later, she starts dating her lesbian coworkerI've made my choice not to assume what happened, but I shouldn't've put up with her for so long to begin with. They say patience is a virtue but it can just as easily be a vice.
