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Are cis women allowed to date trans women who are early on in their transition? Asking for a friend. If so, what is the best way said cis woman could show support?
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you can have your safe man OP, that’s fine
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>allowed
??? I've dated girls early in their transition I sure hope I was within my rights to do so lmfao
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allowed? yeah go for it. would i recommend it? no sounds awful unless you wanna play mom/big sis to a twenty something autist. what would be good? idk be nice, try and keep her from dooming too much, try and get her to make cis f friends, don't force her to top, don't expect her to top, be patient.
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>>43945204
you're allowed sis, but babysitting a babytrans can be challenging and oftentimes exhausting. she needs to heal a lot of her traumas to be able to bloom into a beautiful woman.
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>>43945773
>bloom into a beautiful woman
two lies in one sentence damn
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>>43945204
they should date girls who are done with transitioning, early access is for suckers
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>>43945204
I'd even encourage it, assuming you're not going to get the ick and leave her
t. chaser
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>>43945204
Do whatever you want but being early transition is so awkward and messy and cringe. You're dating an autistic loser who's going through puberty as an adult, its so fucking horrible both to go through and to be around. 2-3yrs HRT is the better time to start dating.
My cis wife starting dating me when I was early transition tho and its been 10 years now so sometimes it works out. She stuck with me through a lot of terrible awkward phases first.
>>43945773
Halimede ass post
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>>43945204
the best way a cis woman can approach a non-passing trans woman is to make it clear that she's not attracted to the masculine features
it's likely that the trans woman would feel like you're interested in vulnerable dick but you have to make it clear that you're into women when talking to her
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>>43945787
I'm being serious, it will happen. she will bloom. trust.
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Yes., my gf started dating me a few months after I started HRT.

Basic respect and treating them as any other woman is the best way for a cisf to date an early-transition trans woman-
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>>43945204
Yeah. find some agp 'bian, you can treat her like a man-lite and she'll be too autistic to notice. You can get all the sweaty hairy gock you need and she can piv your soft plump hole all she wants, win win
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>>43945204
it's probably doable, but tough.

youre going to have trouble, especially as time goes on, convincing her that you see her as the woman she is (or, is trying to be). the past will become a dead weight on your relationship that shell want to escape from. she will be goaded on by people (like the anons ITT) to leave you for someone who's never seen her with a five o clock shadow.
>>43945773
this is also true.

overall if you already have a relationship with this person thats one thing, and could work. if youre seeking out babytrannies for the hell of it thats sus to me, i generally trust cisfems more who go for already established t girls
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>>43945242
Hey thank you, that's helpful advice! She's very capable in pretty much all avenues of her life, so I hope we avoid the sis/mom trap. She's a bit younger than me (by 4 years) though, so that's good to be aware of.
>>43945981
Glad to hear you had a positive experience with the situation! This girl is definitely worth going through an awkward/cringe stage for. Fingers crossed we have the same outcome as you and your wife.
>>43946540
We don't have an established relationship, but she did pursue me first. I definitely do just see her like any other woman, but I just want to be aware of what this sort of dynamic entails. I have trans people already in my life that are very important to be, but I've never dated of them, so I've not been in a position where I'm emotionally supporting them in such a way. Thank you for your input.
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>>43945204
Have you asked your daddy little girl?
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>>43945204
You don't need anyone's consent except the person who you wanna date!
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>>43945204
Cradlesnatcher
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Just be aware this is someone who's radically re-assessing every value and interest, there will be periods where impressionable trans will just randomly adopt some weird shit like diapers or ddlg dynamics instead of just looking for their own sincere interests



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