How do I stop beating myself up over not transitioning sooner?
>>43954596Blame other people.
>>43954596Remind yourself of the chud world we live in and the chud parents you likely have and how chuddy doctors are and how autistic you likely are and generally how stacked the odds were against you
>>43954596if you would have transitioned sooner, you don't know how much worse things could have actually turned out for the rest of your life
>>43954685What do you mean? Just the whole butterfly effect thing?
>>43954694kinda. like you can idealize some hypothetical but when you do that, youre ignoring that life is never that great even when things work out the way we want. you don't know what new problems you would have had to deal with if things happened another way
>>43954685all trannies would have infinitely better lives as youngshits
>>43954775for sure, but it also wouldnt be without its own issues. plenty of youngshits get kicked out of their homes and end up getting victimized or stuck down a bad path, even if they got to avoid some of male puberty.im NOT saying it's better to be an oldshit. just saying it's not worth dwelling on the what if in this situation when it cant be changed and there are unknowable things
>>43954596my cope is one day I'll have a family and I'll be able to make sure my kids will be youngshits if they're trans. I think it's easier to bear a burden if it's for the sake of someone else.
>>43954596You don't
>>43954599fpbp
>>43954685>>43954694yeah. not even necessarily worse just so much different. you wouldnt be who you are if you didnt do what you did. kinda sucks a lot more if you dont like who you are. but for me i would prefer to know what i know now and could imagine living not knowing it. i could have stayed a naive retard but i really dont think ignorance is bliss and trooning is inherently tied to like a decade of like self-study and reading for me. my stance on ignorance is bliss is exactly the same as my stance on it being better to have loved and lost. its incredibly painful like the worst feeling ever but my past relationships are also inherently woven in to who i am now and i dont regret it at all even the absolutely horrible days are very important to who i am now, even the one relationship that basically ruined my life. i would have ruined it anyway, its like the whole reason i got into that situation was to teach myself empathy and not be a self centered jackass and it kinda was the catalyst that got me to stop repping. there was a day that i was flip flopping and decided to commit to her and give it a real try. if i could go back i would do it again.
>>43956227Seriously any tranny who was dysphoric early in life and didn't transition then was subjected to severe medical neglect, abuse, and a hostile environment and you cannot change my mind.
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>>43958330I'm not even talking about socialization I'm talking about testosterone poisoning
>>43957483i like you snoymoder every time i see your posts you're dropping trvkes.
