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I'm coming to terms with the fact I am a hon. I was already on the cis man on hrt cope so I don't care that I don't pass but my whole world is destroyed because being a hon means I'm not cute, even when manmoding. How do you even navigate life like that? Women who are gonna want me for being an okay looking guy will hate me once they realize I have gyno and ED.
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the thing that always sends me about this comic (the unedited one) is it’s clearly supposed to be supportive but the final panel she’s like 2 heads taller than her. makes it look like she’s either a gigaheighthon or she’s dating a child
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>>43963188
thats bc the life of a (particularly nonpassing) tranny is inherently depressing, and any comic that intends to accurately depict it will automatically have some of that included, even if subtextually
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>>43963160
me too. i keep calling myself a cis man on hrt but i genuinely don’t think i actually believe in it and am just a self-hating tranny coping because she can’t see herself as anything but a disgusting male
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>>43963160
plot twist! that's a trans man.
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>>43963160
I believe it is possible to be a cis man on hrt unironically but a real cis man on hrt wouldn't care about being cute. He would choose to look intimidating if anything.
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I like the way homunculus draws hands and feet
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>>43963188
her gf is just a womanlet jeez, you can't be too picky when you're tran
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>>43963188
I assumed it was the mother
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>>43963160
> Women who are gonna want me for being an okay looking guy will hate me once they realize I have gyno and ED.
> trying to date women under the false pretense of you being a man
well, there's your problem anon
you need to find someone who likes trans women
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>>43965025
Then I will be hated for being an ogreish hon
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>>43963160
Cope till you rope. Preferably mostly cope, in a healthy way if possible. That's how.
t. Hon
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>>43966231
What are some coping mechanisms you practice?
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bump because I need those coping mechanisms too lol
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>>43963188
if you look at her height relative to the door frame, it's clearly it's the former, a standard door frame is ~79"/200 cm in both the us and europe.
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>>43966266
Acceptance is a pretty good cope. I got fucked in this life, that's just a fact. But I also have a few positive things in my life. I got an apartment with a partner, my body feels better even if I don't pass, my trauma is a lot better these days. I try to focus on that.
I know it sounds stupid and hard and I want an easy way out too but we can't neglect the other things in life you know. Sounds stupid but ppl put up with a lot of weird things without issue if you take care of your appearance and have basic interpersonal skills, for example. So it's not 100% a death sentence to live like this. I can't tell you how to make things bearable but I can tell you it's possible. I used to be a weird friendless loser with so much social anxiety I'd break down if there was more than 1 person. But you can thug that shit out if you really want to and stay focused. If you're already a hon you got nothing to lose, you feel me?



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