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whats up with tha idea that trannies and pooners dont respect genital preference or whatevs
every tranner i've talked to expresses how OK they are with being rejected for their dick/pussy
and even if there are people who think a genital preference is transphobic, are we rlly letting rapebrained retards shape our world view?
what about the stereotypes many people on this board here are subject to? is tha double standard mindset really so common? feels like stones and glass houses
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>>43976509
In short, yes
the 'trans movement' is completely taken over and ran by 50yr old late shit hons, non transitioning enbies and drag obsessed fujo women
This board is harmed by stereotypes made by xitter and reddit trannies as well as terfs and chuds
/tttt/ simultaneously is the same as rapehons, but also a dark dangerous place that is scary and bad for trans people to use
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It's just trans derangement syndrome, I have not met a soul that hasn't disrespected genital preference. In fact, a lot of trans women I know have genital preferences too, I know a lot that strictly only want dick (le t4t transbians) and one or two that prefer pussy but don't mind dick (le c4t transbians).

When it comes to "chromosomes" and "socialization" and "bones" and stuff that's where it goes up for debate whether it's transphobic or not for most people... Which I think it's understandable because you can be the biggest SRS passoid on each end and someone will still reject you for those reasons, which is kind of weird desu.
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>>43976566
>hasn't disrespected
*has disrespected
brain fart sorry
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>>43976509
Our biology is literally wired to subconsciously seek out health signals, sexual dimorphism cues, etc., based on our attraction, which is primarily genetic, btw. It often isn't even just about genitalia, but because their body just can't be attracted to biological men (or women for those who are gay).

So it isn't a "preference," it is literal biological wiring.
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>>43976566
If they bring that up then maybe, but often it is subconscious for a lot of people, they can just tell that something is 'off' ykwim.

Also, this isn't to hate on transgender individuals, I am just trying to communicate that sexual attraction is hardwired and not usually fluid.
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>>43976626
>i prefer pussy
>i literally cant be attracted to biological men
Feels like the same difference imo, even tho i see what u mean based on dimorphic and social cues etc
That said, theres like a bunch of stories of stealth trans, men and women, finding themselves in situationships and even relationships with straight people, gay people and things fall apart when they're trans. The only reason I can think why is because of genitals
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>>43976639
Yeah I'm not disagreeing, I'm just stating that a decent chunk of people are still rejected over prejudice while behaving and looking exactly like the gender they transitioned to... It comes down to whether you politely turn someone down because "you don't fit what I look for in a partner" and not "I HATE TRANNIES" yk?

I see it mainly with men, I met a guy that said he'd kill a trans woman if he went on a date with one indistinguishable from a cis woman and found out she was trans.
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>>43976682
Lol, what they do on dating apps is they put faceapp to change their nose, thin the jaw, forehead, hairline, add more hair, and I'm just casually swiping and then I check the profile and I see the photo after when it isnt edited or months later on a dead profile (as in haven't spoken to them) and it is an entirely different person.

Literally insane. Can't stand catfishes, and you could immediately tell that they were men (sorry, I am 19, so obviously they won't look like women this early)

My first reaction is usually just "ew" like it is for majority of cis men apart from a few where I am just like "okay, you exist but I'm not attracted to you"

>>43976674
Which is totally valid. But men are pretty shit at telling if someone is trans

The reason I don't date transgenders is because I am just not drawn to or attracted to them. I hate to say it but I clock it quickly because I am not drawn to them like I am women and since the more I look the more I hate which is different to biological women where I can always find something beautiful about them
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>>43976682
Trans people themselves frequently report strong genital and body-type preferences (e.g., trans women preferring other trans women with penises, or avoiding certain configs; lesbians/gay men maintaining same-sex specificity). This symmetry undermines claims that only one side's boundaries are suspect.

Rejecting based on observable traits or hardwired orientation isn't equivalent to "I HATE TRANNIES." Dating is mutual desire + compatibility, not a validation exercise. The activist push that "genital preference" is inherently bigoted (or that post-op should override it) creates the double standard: trans people's boundaries = valid; everyone else's = problematic. This shows up in "cotton ceiling" rhetoric aimed at lesbians. Most everyday trans people seem to accept "no" gracefully, per the original OP. The worldview-shaping comes from the loud ideological layer.
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>>43976845
Catfishing is bad in every way in general.

>>43976931
>Rejecting based on observable traits or hardwired orientation isn't equivalent to "I HATE TRANNIES."
I didn't say it was equivalent to hate but some people are definitely in that boat so I'm always skeptical about the tone which people use... One or two anons here have depicted this topic in such tone to me before, but I guess that's to expect in this website.

>The activist push that "genital preference" is inherently bigoted
I see this with xitter users mainly desu.

In general everyone should just be entitled to expressing whether they are attracted or not to someone without being shitty about it, if you're a trans woman you shouldn't impose it on others, if you're a cis person you shouldn't be shitty to them for existing and generalize that all of them do that. More love less hate.

I might also add that I feel like there's a large portion of people too that don't date trans women because they're scared of judgement from transphobic peers, I see a few men posting about this on the board. Refusing to date someone you might even be into because you're scared of being judged is always heartbreaking for both parties, goes to show there are some genuine motives to turn down trans people but I sometimes it can be debatable whether it's charged by prejudice or not depending on the person's ultimate motive...

Though this nuance goes for all dating desu, including dating other races, other body types, unconventionally attractive people, gnc people, etc...
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>>43976509
its just ragebait that sounds plausible if you've never actually met a trans person in your life. "respect my GENITAL PREFERENCE actually if you dont let me have sex with your vagina its EVIL TRANSPHOBIA hahahaha im now legally allowed to rape women hahaha i figured it out!!!!!!!"
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>>43977195
they're scared of judgement from transphobic peers
Maybe cis men and bi women or it could be an excuse not to commit. From just being seen next to them the way people view you does deplete (sorry) I just think this is a tiny amount of cases and the majority are like I said that attraction is sex-based not "gender" based
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>>43977657
That's understandable, I personally hardly know anyone who rejects trans women or has genital preferences irl desu, so my sample size is based on one-off bad actors that genuinely hate trannies with all their guts.
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>>43976509
a few different things get conflated in these discussions, and it's usually done maliciously in order to rapejacket trans women
on the one hand, you can't argue someone into being attracted to you. someone rejecting you for bad reasons still does not entitle you to sex with them.
on the other hand, someone who is constantly unprompted bringing up how they would never date a trans person and you have to respect their genital preference is in fact transphobic. you can just not date trans people and nobody will give you shit for it. most cis people will never date a trans person and nobody ever gives them shit for it. the same is true for other, even less socially acceptable preferences. if you never want to date a black person, you can just not date black people and most people won't even notice that you're doing anything unusual. but if you go around loudly talking about how unattracted you are to black people, people are going to draw conclusions about your character from that. when trans people point this out, we get accused of not respecting consent, when that isn't actually what's happening at all.
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>>43976566
>I know a lot that strictly only want dick (le t4t transbians)
There is something so perverse and surreal about a man wanting strictly dick and calling himself a lesbian
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>>43977790
>you can just not date trans people and nobody will give you shit for it.
Not in lesbian spaces anymore
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>>43977790
So being not attracted to trans people is transphobic?
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>>43976509
it's a psyop, it's been a psyop from the start
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>>43976566
yeah as a post-op i see all these strange excuses which just don't match my actual experience having a vagina and then the objections are never evenly applied to cis people who are infertile, have had to have surgery there, etc. which leads me to reasonably call it transphobic
but i also prefer guys that have penises so i get that
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>>43976845
>My first reaction is usually just "ew" like it is for majority of cis men apart from a few where I am just like "okay, you exist but I'm not attracted to you"
You think men are gross then? I dont feel, any attraction to women at all but I still think theyre all beautiful.
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>>43976566
Maybe I'm too subhuman but what is this post stating, is it bad or not to have genital preference?
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>>43976509
careful anon you're breaking through the matrix
(stop asking questions)
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>>43979238
most cis lesbians have never dated a trans woman. in most of these cases, no one has even bothered to notice this fact about them individually. given base rates it's not an unusual outcome even if they were selecting partners at random.
where you start running into problems is when you start loudly talking about how unattracted you are to trans women. it is obvious why this is rude when you substitute literally any other characteristic in. if you never date a redhead, no one will notice, if you loudly talk about how you fucking hate redheads, people are going to think you're an asshole.
>>43979257
if you read my post again, you will notice that i did not say that.
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>>43979221
Yeah it's a bit odd to me how some transbians only like girl dick, you'd expect them to like pussy too but some are genuinely repulsed by it.



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