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Who do you relate to in this post?
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>>43988871
Trannies try to look like women (fat brown and fish lipped) than actually feminine
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if this is you just boymode?
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>>43988871
If you actually pass then being with visibly trans people doesn't get you clocked.
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>>43989088
Well, maybe, but I'd be suspicious of any alleged women hanging with an evident transwoman
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Literally how I imagine stealth passoids seeing me
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>>43988871
very fembrained of them
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>>43989088
Facts, a cis woman would defend her trans friend
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>>43988871
I relate to the actual people behind the post, not the version of them the hon probably imagines. Like >>43989088 said, I still pass and am comfortable being seen with clocky people. The problem is autists with absolutely zero self-awareness or tact who dress like shit and constantly monologue about trans shit in their untrained, autistically monotonous voices, broadcasting all of the private information that anyone's ever been naive enough to share with them to anybody within range of a few city blocks and attracting attention like circus clowns.
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>>43988871
i'm a manmoder and i don't want to be around trans people in public because i'm afraid of being seen as trans
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>>43991476
Also constantly whining and fishing for sympathy about how much "luckier" I am to pass, even though the only reason I pass better is because they were too retarded to figure it out earlier, so I've just had more time, but otherwise my starting point was worse than theirs in every other way.
Yes I'm thinking of a specific person, how could you tell.
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>>43991530
>>43991476
istg its like we all live the same life this is so uncannily relatable
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>>43988871
im a voicehon so i relate to the op. i do feel kinda like the passoids when i hang out with my gigahon friends tho
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>>43988871
I relate very closely to not wanting to hang out with troons
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>>43991501
same lmao
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I relate to both but I don't find it especially relatable. I like hanging out with trans women who mostly pass instead of sneedhons because a couple women who are a little bit clocky together pass well.
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>>43991530
you were lucky to realize early lol. pretending its effort based is very silly
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also i dont relate to anyone desu.

i dont get excluded by tw bc of clockiness, i pass well enough that even the more “catty” hussy type tw around like me.

but i would never ever exclude a tw on just those terms.

i do agree w people upthread tho: probably an unreliable narrator, and they actually just found OOP offputting and overly babytrans. then OOP did the classic “oh yoh just hate poor hons like me wah wah bit as cope”
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>>43988871
that's genuinely really sad. I understand the mean girls but it's still gotta be crushing for the other girl.
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>>43991914
Always that stupid reply...
We grew up in the same town, same internet access, and we both found out that trans people exist at around the same time. I worked on growing and maturing as a person, they didn't.
I'll admit I got "lucky" that I'm not as much of an autistic retard, I guess? But they don't understand that. I avoid them because they won't stop fishing for pity and lowkey gaslighting me like the difference between us is ultimately down to anything but their own personal failure to introspect. The consequences of their own behaviour are not a indication of my privilege.
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>>43992080
i think its completely fine for u to not want to spend time with them.

but the idea that she just “failed to introspect” is a straight up retarted way to conceptualize how repression works. some girls just dont have the dysphoria come clearly to the surface until later.

you didnt start earlier bc you “introsepcted better” is my only point. Like, come on. Thats just silly.
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>>43992132
If they didn't develop dysphoria as early as I did then that just further proves my point that they've had it easier. Can't have it both ways. Either they could've realized earlier if not for their lack of self-awareness, which is nobody's problem but theirs, or they were functionally cis all those years, which is its own advantage.
Just miss me with the lateshit excuses. There's no legitimate external circumstance in any first world country nowadays that could force someone to repress past the age of 25, it's actually just personal failure at that point. That's the reason lateshits are all hons/tunapoons, either they're barely even trans or they have severely stunted self-awareness, sometimes both.
Doesn't mean that just because you can't pass it must be your fault, but then other trans people will actually have sympathy for you instead of constantly getting sick of your entitled bullshit.
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>>43991476
yeah i dont mind hanging out with clocky people as long as theyre self aware and at least trying to pass. in fact i respect a hon putting in tons of effort a lot more than some bddemon boymoder who does nothing but hide and take e. but interacting with sneedhons who talk and behave like autistic nerdy straight dudes and refuse to voice train is so alienating and unfortunately thats most trannies ive met irl
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>>43992454
being in the closet is not being “functionally cis”

im not even a youngshit hater but you are pissing me the fuck off. This is why people hate yall. its fucking torture and we all would have loved to have fucking known earlier.

even conscious repping is so much more understandable than u make it out to be. u should meet some actual boomerhons, they are generally super nice ladies and you have developed a weird complex about them so you can blame their oppression on moral failings, and declare urself “pne of the good ones” who “actually tried”
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>>43992454
didn't read;i do identify as a failure
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>>43988871
how the fuck do you know 3 passoids?
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>>43992670
>u should meet some actual boomerhons, they are generally super nice ladies

Facts. They suffered a lot yet remain sweet
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>>43991501
Whats wrong with being trans?
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>>43993298
Every tranner born after 2005 is a passoid
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>>43994599
they literally invite me to their dinner parties and just compliment me and ask questions about my life and make me brag about successes. they are so fucking great. i love that my city has a scene where there is contact btw us
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>>43992670
>being in the closet is not being “functionally cis”
I reiterate
>Can't have it both ways.
If they remained closeted despite having the same or better opportunities to come out than I had, then the only remaining factor explaining why they didn't come out earlier is their unwillingness to deal with their own shit, and nobody is owed special sympathy for that.
>u should meet some actual boomerhons
There's another retarded trick you people try to pull, stolen valor. "Boomerhons" are in no way even remotely close a position to trans people who came out decades ago. Some John 50 having a mid-life crisis and trooning out on his wife and kids in the 2020s deserves exactly zero credit just for being in the same age bracket as the people who set up the community health centre's trans health clinic 20 years ago. I've met my local trans elders who've been fighting for our community since before I was born. If they managed to come out before the internet even existed, what excuse does some terminally-online zillenial have? Internalized transphobia? Tough, but that's a skill issue, not some divine burden that we all have to worship you as a martyr for enduring. Get over yourself.
>This is why people hate yall. its fucking torture and we all would have loved to have fucking known earlier.
The reason why the rest of the trans community want nothing to do with you is the kind of solipsism you have on display right here, moaning about your own feelings as if the rest of us wouldn't know what it's like. Like you actually have no theory of mind, you just think that if someone's successful now then they must have been born like that, and the possibility that they were in your position or worse before just doesn't occur to you. But at this point I'm repeating myself.
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>>43995518
A lot of words to say "i am a cruel person"



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