I was whining some time ago because I had a mild longing / wanting to become a woman again, which happens a few times every month or so, but it's rare and fleeting. I was wishing to be cute, vulnerable and feminine again.Then the day passed, today I got to work (am a pastry chef), worked my ass off at quite the physical job that it is under high heat, and suddenly felt again pride and happiness at being a man again.These feelings are fucking retarded, they come and go as they want, depending on mood, social isolation, and my otherwise content and happiness. I wonder if dysphoria is a form of coping with bad life for me ? Anybaldi else feels like that ?
Also inb4>Reddit spacingI try to write decently.
Also these feelings were a lot stronger as a teenager when I was younger, but they seem to mellow down as time goes on.
>>43989752Yeah I would say most "trans" (gender delusional) people initially get the urge to join the delusional community out of depression about their life, hoping their life will be better "on the other side" despite never actually having a possibility of changing gender.Yet, ironically, their initial problems would be solved if they just got a significant other.They're usually too cowardly to approach or date anyone out of fear or rejection or fear of commitment and what sacrifices that would entail them to make either financially or otherwise, so instead they feel like they'd rather be their own boyfriend or girlfriend respectively by attempting to live out a life they'd normally be looking for in the opposite gender.It's a literal mental illness, and we don't cure mental illnesses by affirming their delusion or with physical things like surgery or hormone replacement.We cure mental illness with mental help.We don't cure an anorexic person by affirming "yaaaaas you are too fat. Starve yourself more! SLAY QUEEEEN!"We don't cure suicidal people by affirming "yaaas queen you should kill yourself"Try to go slightly out of your comfort zone to actually improve your mental health or life.
>>43991112I agree with this, yeah.Tbh I'm just venting out my thoughts on the subject, even if I really wanted to transition, I doubt I'd be able to pay the price of it, you sacrifice so much for this it's not worth it imo.
>>43991215Truth my friend.Let me ask you what it is that occasionally makes you feel like your life is bad?Life is precious, but I understand if sometimes we wish we earned more money, or had more property, or had the right partner or something.You ever thought about just joining other social groups or even just going to church or something like that?
>>43991280Prolly just solitude, loneliness, boredom sometimes. I have a good life, but sometimes I'm in my room, I don't know what to do, and being alone in a place like this, you start to stare into the abyss of your life, no matter how good it is.It's just weird that this expresses itself in me in a longing for affection in a very feminine manner, a need to be vulnerable, the wishing that someone wants me, wants to possess me for my appearance and stuff.Prolly what defines an AGP too, or something. If being trans is an illness, well I'm definitely ill.
>>43991327Well I would argue that what you're feelings of wanting to be posessed by or belong to someone in a vulnerable manner are is not actually feminine in nature.That's a natural feeling for all men who want a life long partner and not just casual meet and sex.To be a long-term partner to someone is to open yourself up to vulnerabilities. Two people essentially need to become one, and that means divulging your inner most secrets to this person so that intimacy can flourish.So don't think of it as you wanting to be feminine. Think of it as you wanting a feminine presence in your life, such as your desires to be laying in a bed, having your hair stroked lovingly by your girlfriend or wife who is meant to be bringing you that feminine, nurturing peace as your own mother would have once.Yes being alone for hours is not good no matter what. I learned that after years of mistakenly doing the same. Isolating myself after work for hours.You need to interact with people.Doesn't matter if you're religious or not, but that old religious saying is true that "idle hands are the devil's workshop" meaning that human minds being idle with nothing to do for too long leads them into the worst of temptations, whether you believe in demons or just the science of the human psychology.Need to keep occupied with something productive or with interacting with a person, whether that's just a friend or a social group, or a life long partner.
>>43991327>>43991280Just transition you trannies. Feelings will not subside. John50 is real.
>>43991414Reppers coping reppersBe warned reppers, the succubus eating your soul will not be content till you are driven mad. The only cure is by way of transition.
Even if you are considered to be more on the "feminine" side of men like "beta" or whatever, maybe you didn't have as much testosterone as other men, you can still find a partner with enough time and work.There is always going to be a woman more feminine than you.You might believe that even the most short, feminine girls are still going to be taken by more masculine men, but there's been studies that show the taller a man is, the taller he wants his long term partner to be.You could even go for a cute midget woman if you're very short for a male and worried about that.
>>43991443>>43991458You wish lol.Your misery wants company and it's obvious.Go heal from your madness instead of pretending there's no cure or hope.Don't drag others down to your level.
>>43991414Aight thank you for your opinion.>>43991443>>43991458I don't think you've read my initial post, the OP. I'm gonna be real this is way too overdramatic for me. >The succubus eating your soul10/10 Kino but it really isn't like that for me. It's at worst, a mild inconvenience.
>>43991481I'm not that short, im 190cms tall, thats pretty big actually. Never ever had a partner though, so that goes to waste I guess. And the more time passes, the less I want to have sex, build a family or just have a relationship. I don't see that as a goal personally.The only goal I'm looking after is long time lasting peace.
>>43991640Well that's just beautiful, man.Plenty of men have relationships solely for the partnership and the long-lasting peace it brings to have a female who has a similar personality as them, without the need for sex what so ever.But if it's not the end of the world, it's not the end of the world, and you could go the rest of your life without it if you chose because you're strong to resist temptations.
>>43991492Why's an obviously religious person here ?Not to make you feel unwelcomed or anything, but you surely must feel some kind of queerness to post on here, no ?Why do you talk to the people on here ?
>>43991993Why does it matter that I'm religious and why does it bother you so much is the question you should be asking yourself, especially when I explained my position both religiously and non-religiously for more pragmatic people.Sounds like you have a huge issue with the truth being spoken like it threatens your very existence because you live in a false reality predicated on lies and manipulation.
>>43992035>you live in a false reality predicated on lies and manipulationWhy do you write like that ? Added dramatic effect ?I feel like guys like you lack empathy, I don't really know what you hope to achieve with conversation like these. Honestly.
>>43991993>>43992097Are you seriously trying to claim that "queerness" is contagious and that merely sending text messages on a message board, long distance, with messages from queer people is enough to cause this contagion?And you think people should take anything you say seriously?>I feel likeFacts don't care and neither do I. Sorry not sorry, but I have plenty of empathy and I've shown that to OP. You must have poor reading comprehension.
>>43992126I am OP, man. Who else do you think still uses this thread kek ?Mb for being curious, I didn't mean to come off as aggressive or anything.But aight.
