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>guy says i sound cute online
>knows im trans too
>show him a face pic
>he stops responding

damn, ok. also i cant get advice here or on reddit about passing because people hate me.
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>>44014267
Why can't you get advice here?
Also reddit will say u pass and call u beautiful even if both are false
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I stg I think I’m an ugly hon but retards on the Internet are going to make me go insane. Some dude who doesn’t like trannies licky face emoji reacted to my pic then tried to get me to date him. Another dude who doesn’t like trannies was like you’re cute o algo. And another who does like trannies just stopped talking to me a week after I posted a face pic and said I look too trans.
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>>44014290
because people sneed about this or that or some other drama and theyre biased over it all.
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>>44014267
I kinda stopped flirting with trannies because every time we exchange pics and they don't really pass I can't bring myself to say what I think imagining how hurt they'd get, so I lie and say they are cute and make it 100x harder for myself to gradually drop them
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>>44014870
nigga stop it. why the fuck are you flirting with them if you cant get over the fact half of them look like girly boys at best
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>>44014870
When i was early transition i met up with a guy and he just went “oh i thought you passed better” and kicked me out of his car. I actually do pass better now but it still fucks w my self esteem but I think as long as u find a gentler way around it than that u dont have to drag things out.
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>>44014267
Why are you killing baby kitty,? stop it stop it, don't kill her!
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>>44014267
I would NEVER say something like that. Why don't trans women find me?
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>>44015696
I said I'm dimming it down.
I just click very easily with trannies, probably because they tend to be neurodivergent and are interesting to me personality-wise, so for me it was easy to include them in my dating pool with cis girls
but yeah, masculinity is a big no for me, so not passing is a deal breaker. I recognize this might just be shallowness on my part.

>>44015760
yeah I'd never act like that guy, just dont have it in me to be an asshole if the other person is cool
>as long as u find a gentler way around it
any advice
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>>44015800
Post face/physique, general location, and a way to contact you
It's not that hard bro
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>>44016697
>masculinity is a big no for me, so not passing is a deal breaker
a perfectly valid reason. don't feel bad
There's no easy way to let em down. No one likes getting rejected. Rip it off like a bandaid with, I'm sorry but I don't find you attractive



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