>>44019133
travelers abs edition

Hi!!! Wow, cool, I was just thinking about if there's a bi thread.

Hello bi people!

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Cool we're back

>>44019133
>QotT
Nah. I mean I play games that are on mobile but I play them on PC.
I did play umamusume on mobile for a bit (an ex introduced me) but lost interest after we broke up

>>44019547
Sup

Can anyone please give me advice?

I (23, man) have known I'm bi for like 6 years. I've tried to come off as straight all my life and I thought I did a good job until someone recently told me I come off as gay and now, rethinking past events, I realize I've always come off as queer to people. I know I've always seemed a bit effeminate, but I didn't think it was that obvious (I also act kind of autistic).
Now I have a strange urge that I want to come out to people, to act more feminine, and date men, but this causes me a lot of stress because I'm very uncomfortable with being openly queer. But if people can already tell, why not?

But then again, if I'm bi, why can't I just marry a woman and act straight? I know I'm not gay and that I like women. As much as I dream about being openly queer & having boyfriend, I also dream about becoming a Christian and being a normal straight guy. I don't what to choose and I'm torn.

Do you folks relate? I wish that I was straight and not effeminate. I think that maybe I'm just having a manic episode. Is this normal for bi men or bis in general?

>>44019133
omg so i was in the men stage of the bi cycle for the longest time, and now that i like women again, my dick doesnt work. i literally cant have sex with women T,T(how the hell do you do the crying emoticon? i was born in 2004 and grew up with emojis) like sometimes i would try to make it stop working and i wouldnt be able to, and then this time it was accidental, i think its even worse cuz it still works, but its tiny, and now that ive bottomed a lot i know that size matters. bleh, its really cute but i cant top and im in a topping mood, fmstlllll

>>44019242
>Sad Faco
>Indobomtchio
>Croeidresse
This is why inflation is happening.

>>44019829
Ehh kinda
I go through phases of feeling more straight and being tired of fag shit
I definitely don't feel like I identify with fags
On the other hand I like being feminine and im openly bi and happy to tell people when they ask

>>44019838
I'm sorry anon.

I think it's more like T^T or ;^; or ;_; or QwQ

>>44019920
Oh okay, thank you for your response. You don't consider being feminine being fag shit?

Were you ever really afraid of admitting it and acting feminine? If so, how'd you overcome it?

>>44019747
What kind of games do you play on PC, anon?

>>44020013
>You don't consider being feminine being fag shit
Well by feminine I actually just mean shaved face+legs and long hair
I don't dress or really act feminine. I'm usually quiet, which isn't really masc or fem per se
When I'm drunk or excited I do act a bit fem I guess. I just get playful/whimsy

>>44020075
I main MTGA (digital client for the MtG card game) and I pick up another game or two from time to time
Recently it's been:
>minecraft
>yume nikki

>>44020185
That's neat. : ) I've thought about playing Yummi Niki, maybe tonight I'll finally download it and play it.

>>44020245
It was great, you should

>>44020272
Why do I want to fuck big fit gym guys in the ass then?

>>44019838
>i know that size matters
Please say sike I might be fucking a man for the first time in my life soon and I'm only six inches.

>>44020301
6in is fine
When they're below 5 it starts to be yikes

im in a long term healthy relationship with a lesbian but I fantasize a lot about men. I think it makes it harder because we both want to be more submissive in bed and just sorta take turns for each other. She’s really gorgeous and we’re so good for each other but I can’t help missing men sometimes. Wtf do I do?

t.ranny getting the snip soon

>>44020350
dl grindr and get a guy over

>>44020370
no I love her too much I don’t think I could cheat

>>44020407
Agree first ofc

>>44019133
>>QotT: Do you play mobile games?
Pokemon go from time to time but that's it

>>44020084
Okay so then what's fag shit?

>>44020517
Gay culture and hookups

>>44020350
Either make peace with your sexual incompatibility or breakup

>>44020526
Hmm.

>>44020549
ok but what if I get with a man but then miss women later or being more dominant

>>44020570
Then you've ruined a good relationship by thinking with your dick.

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Hiii I'm bi

Yesterday I asked my friend of hed care if I was gay and he said he didn't, which i expected. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it and I wanted to try and open up a conversation.
I don't want to call myself bi until I have sex with a man. I'm thinking about downloading an app to hookup with someone. At first the idea was very arousing but now it's kind of scary. What If I don't actually like it and I look like a dickhead? What if I get raped or it's one of those accounts used to lure and kill people?

>>44021051
the kind of men who are on those apps are not the ones worth hooking up with imo

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>>44019133
Its so embarrasing being a bi virgin. I have double the options but still cant find anybody to love me.
Even when i see other bi people complain about struggling to get a relationship, the majority response is always to meme on them and make the same obvious jokes mocking them. Just makes me feel even more ashamed

>>44021272
sex really isn't all it's cracked up to be. can't speak for relationships though, never been in one.

>>44021051
>I don't want to call myself bi until I have sex with a man
????
Are you just into men for the sex? Why not try going on a date with a guy first instead. You won't look like a dickhead if you don't want a second date.

>>44021337
Still, i dont want to be that one loser who hasnt experienced sex while everyone else has. Plus most of what people talk about in gay and bi spaces tends to be almost exclusively about sex and/or relationships, and it makes it feel very isolating for me since i cant relate.

>>44021387
well they are biSEXual spaces for a reason. most lgbt "spaces" suck for anybody who doesn't fit one very specific niche.

>>44019829
I can't really relate, I've never thought about myself in terms of straightness/gayness. I'm just me, even if I'm effeminate or masc. I'm open to people that I date a guy, to me it's like how I would've talked about it if I dated a girl as well. I feel like some people either make a big thing out of it or try to "give a heads up" that they are gay when talking to someone new. I'll just drop the word boyfriend like normal.

Why can't you just try dating whoever you fancy and if it happens to be a girl or a guy that makes you the happiest the person in the world, so be it?

>>44021387
I feel the same way. But honestly, it probably doesn't say virgin on your forehead and people prolly don't care anyway

>>44019838
>>44019991
I like T_T personally

>>44021418
>>44021387
Once you start having sex you'll realise that yeah, most of it is in your head. It doesn't really change you as a person. Most of the time being a virgin just means that the first few times you have sex might be a bit awkward because you don't know what works well and what doesn't.
One benefit tho is that some doujins are hotter because you can relate or imagine more realistically what it would feel like lol

>>44021433
>Once you start having sex
I wish It was a guaranteed eventuality that ill start having sex, but im doubtful i ever will. Even basic social interactions are extremely awkward and anxiety-inducing for me, so something as intimate as sex i would likely never be able to bring myself to do. Plus no guy would ever want to have sex with me to begin with.
>One benefit tho is that some doujins are hotter
Even sex-havers get to enjoy doujins better than i do, so unfair..

>>44021472
>Even basic social interactions are extremely awkward and anxiety-inducing for me, so something as intimate as sex i would likely never be able to bring myself to do
most of my sex experiences have been while drunk and or high. maybe not the best coping mechanism but it works for me.

>>44021472
What if you go on a date to a bar? Alcohol usually make people open up and stop being super awkward

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hello my fellow bi-hards, how are we

>>44021487
soft.

>>44020272
my bf is 1.5 years old than me, so what now

>>44021433
IDK someone would have to really push me to have sex at this point anyway. I'm a grown adult and I don't really feel like that's missing from my life anyway. And I kinda feel like I've avoided a lot of trouble by not being horny too

>>44021485
>>44021480
I abstain from alcohol since my family has a history of addiction. I wouldnt be against trying weed though if i was able too.
Bar environments are just so repulsive to me. The aesthetics just give off the vibes of filth and trashiness. I have no clue why anyone would ever want to go there, especially for a date.

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>>44021488
story of my life!

>>44021500
yeah actually managing to get weed is difficult when you have anxiety. as for bars maybe you've only ever seen dive bars before, there are some very nice ones out there.

>>44021500
Not all bars are rundown sleezy ones. The nicer bars are great for dates since the atmosphere goes well with just talking and getting to know eachother

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>>44021500
Weed is good for me with my anxiety. Can't work high but it feels great to come home and get stoned after a long night at work. Booze is for the birds that want to die a painful death at 50

>>44021515
>>44021527
Just looked up what the bars near me are and yall were right. I guess movies and TV lied to me by showing every bar in the same sleezy aesthetic. Still, i imagine it would be very awkward for me to be the one person in the bar whos not drinking, especially when on a date.
>>44021528
Im genuinely so jealous of you

>>44021573
sometimes i go to bars just to eat a burger or something. if you need an excuse to not drink just say you're on some medication or you need to drive or some other gay shit.

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>>44021500
>Bar environments are just so repulsive to me. The aesthetics just give off the vibes of filth and trashiness
Huh? Bars are nice n comfy tho? Maybe you've only ever been to shit bars nonny

>>44019133
so is it worth it to go for a relationship with a guy, or are they only good for sex?
if I want to be loved, my only option are women right?

>>44021605
The image looks like a place i would be deeply uncomfortable in. Whole place just gives off uncanny vibes, like its a cheap sleezy shithole thats trying to look fancier than it really is.

>>44021573
Don't be!! I wish I could drink, but alcoholism runs in my family and I had a pretty bad bout of it in my early 20s. I can have a drink every now and then at 31, but that's usually just for outings and other special occasions/celebrations. I wish I could just drink and not feel like I'm creeping back into the alcoholism spiral :')

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>>44021728
>>44021605
Paddy's Pub vibes lol

>>44019829
Honestly I had the opposite experience in my life. I've always personally been cool with being bi but struggled to express it til I was older. I remember mentioning being bi to some girl in college when we were talking about LGBT things and she said "Wow you don't come off like that at all" or something like that, and I got embarrassed and said "Just kidding." My ultimate goal has always been to marry a woman who's down for threesomes lol

>>44021608
I've gone guy -> girl -> guy in my relationships and I'm definitely staying with my current bf. I don't think you reduce either gender to what you say but anecdotally, relationships with guys are much better.

>>44021272
>>44021472
>>44021500
>>44021573
More than anything, you gotta work on your self-esteem and fear of trying new things/failing at them. You don't have to go to sleazy bars (I'm not a fan of those either), but your replies here seem to indicate that you easily fall into the "I could do this to improve my situation, but I am not comfortable doing it because XYZ". It takes time to get better of course, but I promise that your life improves tremendously when you work on stepping out of your comfort zone.

>>44023908
Yeah listen to this anon.
There's very few people that have a "don't care" attitude in life. Almost everyone that have achieved something have done things that are outside their comfort zone and stresses them out. The only reason it doesn't seem like it is that you rarely see the "firsts" in most people's lives.

>>44019133
Fellow bi people, what is your opinion on piercings? I currently have my ears pierced and one of my nipples. Not sure if I should get more. I'm a guy if that makes a difference

>>44022242
I find it hard to believe a guy can make you feel more loved than a girl can

>>44024969
Why?

>>44024009
They're hit or miss
Certain ones can be good on certain people. Earrings look good imo, nipples not so much

I LOVE MY BI BOYFRIEEEEEEEND

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>scammed into a fake hookup
>chick asks me to buy a $25 gift card when im getting condoms
>gives me a random fucking addy
>sit on the porch for 10 mins waiting to be let in
>hs age girl walks up to the porch
>oh fuck.jpeg
>get up
>"oh?"
>don't make eye contact
>"sorry"
>fuck off

>>44026716
You sound like a fucking loser anon

When do I break up with my gf anons?
She's going to Japan for a year at the start of august, but her big birthday is coming up in mid july and I did have something planned for that already and I feel bad not letting her have a good birthday at least, but should I actually cut it off before her birthday or after it? if after then how long after should I wait??
We've been going out two years

>>44024009
>Fellow bi people, what is your opinion on piercings?
I don't have any myself, but ones on the ears almost always look good to me. I assume people with nipple piercings are complete sluts.
I really despite nose/septum piercings for some reason - they always look awful to me, no matter who wears them.

>>44026807
I'd move apartments without telling her and change my number in her phone to that one Kebab shop she likes. That always worked out okay for me

>>44021487
Got passed over for a raise at work. Gonna get high and cry about it.

>>44027122
Time to look for a new job

>>44027150
I'm trying but the market is shit and finding a new job is so anxiety inducing it makes me sick

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>the bi man is a top
>the bi woman is a bottom
pfft

>>44026335
>>44026840
What about tongue piercing?

>>44027584
Nah, big turn off

>>44027584
Same slutty vibes as nipple piercings IMO, but more asthetically pleasing to me.

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I've got a few piercings in each ear, plus an eyebrow, my lip, nipples, navel, and a guiche
been thinking of getting my erl bridge done too but I work a desk job and that might be a bit much
I like the look of a pierced tongue but I wanna get mine split instead so y'know
people who get mad about piercings (or tattoos) can't be trusted

Tattoos and piercings are distracting and kinda gross.

>QotT
not really
sometimes I'll play a card game or minesweeper though in a waiting room somewhere
if I'm feeling extra spicy I'll play cataclysm dark days ahead though..

>>44019829
>I wish that I was straight and not effeminate
the main problem here is shame, and from this shame are two ways forward - either self-acceptance, or supression
it's that shrimple
I won't tell you what to do, but I recommend choosing the one that will make you happier
I know what I would choose myself

>>44024009
I just got my old ear piercings reopened recently
funnily enough I saw the girl that opened them at a pride party while I was in drag lmao

I've always liked snakebites but I am afraid of teeth/gum damage

>>44026807
tell her to ship me a bunch of makeup from there...

>>44026929
Would be a good idea if we lived together, guess I'll just ghost, that usually never fails right?
>>44027935
She doesn't have much makeup now, only skincare products

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>Been wanting to do butt stuff for a couple of months
>Think of all of the prep work that goes into it
>Lose desire to actually do butt stuff
Help

>>44027972
oh definitely don't ghost
suck it up and do what you have to do
breaking up is always unpleasant, at least give her the respect to not just disappear suddenly and tell her how you feel like and adult

>>44028004
Just eat more fibre and take a shower.

>>44027925
>distracting
elaborate
>kinda gross
you're not healing tats or piercings unless you're clean tho

>>44026840
>>44026335
I'm pro-slut but I hate nipple piercings. They're too distracting in a negative way when licking nipples

>>44026807
Do it this month.

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>>44028021
>More fiber
>Have crohns
No, but ty for the suggestion. It is a big reason I haven't dated anyone since 2016/7

>>44028034
People spend hundreds if not thousands of funtime peso dollars on having a good skin complexion only to piss it away on some gaudy tattoo they are gonna regret in 3 years. I find piercings gross, I don't know what else to say.

>>44028015
Obviously I'm not going going to ghost just like that, I was kidding. Plus she would literally stalk me down anyways.
I will be straight up but she's not going to accept that and she's going to pull every card under the sun and start blaming herself for everything and I dont know how to deal with that. I want this conversation to be over in 10 mins but I know its going to end up in hours
>>44028050
You reckon? Haven't been able to give her a good birthday previously so I do feel guilty ditching her just before it's going to happen

>>44028117
>I will be straight up but she's not going to accept that and she's going to pull every card under the sun and start blaming herself for everything and I dont know how to deal with that.
All you can do is stand firm and tell her that it's not a negotiation and that your decision is final - repeating that as many times as necessary. Clean cuts are tough but they are almost always the best choice.

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tattoos are fun, just relax

>>44028117
>start blaming herself for everything
you are not responsible for her blaming herself

>I want this conversation to be over in 10 mins but I know its going to end up in hours
it sucks but sometimes that's just the way it goes sometimes

>>44028086
>some gaudy tattoo they are gonna regret in 3 years
I mean taste is subjective but I don't know too many people who regret their tattoos, usually they're itching to get more

>>44028187
I rest my case.
>>44028217
I was going to post a pew research image of tattoo regret and it was 1 in four people, but 4chins is being rarted today.

tattoos look better on men, and piercings look better on women

>>44029085
I never thought about it like that, but you're 100% right. Actual truth nuke

>>44028058
aw that sucks anon. im sure plenty of people are okay with no butt stuff, i think u can make it work!

>>44027925
I agree if you have too many of them. But a few nicely done or understated ones can be attractive.

>>44028117
Yes it should be this month. Her looking back on a happy birthday party knowing you secretly wanted to dump her will be worse.

>I will be straight up but she's not going to accept that and she's going to pull every card under the sun and start blaming herself for everything and I dont know how to deal with that. I want this conversation to be over in 10 mins but I know its going to end up in hours
If she doesn't accept it, you can end it and block her. You don't owe her an indefinite amount of time. But give her clear communication, tell her you're done, and do it ASAP, ideally by this weekend.

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>>44028433

>>44029675
I like doing butt stuff though :\

>>44019133
Motorboat the tummy
Raspberry the tummy
Bite the tummy

Do you guys think hats look worse on women?

>>44031652
Hats look better on women, though no hat is superior to any hat

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Can't stop thinking about milfs lol
I was much more excited about fucking a chick than I was during my gay hookups im ngl
Wonder what my chances of obtaining a free hookup with a 5/10 milf as an 8/10 twink are if I dl tinder

>>44032334
Just don't mention you are bi and you should be gucci.

I think i'm really gonna do it this time

bump

>want to suck cock
>scared of getting diseased
There's no safe way of doing it with strangers right?

does pussy really feel better than butt? because I can't feel anything when penetrating butt

>>44027122
That sucks friend. I got blessed with a raise yesterday which was nice. But long overdue unfortunately so

>>44033218
Nah but the chance of catching something incurable like HIV from just a blowjob is pretty much non existent. Just check for any hsv blisters and you'll be fine. If it's still too scary, suck off a guy you went on a date with so you can feel it out if he's sane and open.

>>44033534
I'm guessing you use condoms? It makes the sensation suck, both for anal and pussy. But going bare requires a bf. No risk of pregnancy tho unlike going bare with a girl on the pill

>>44027122
>>44027288
Job market is tough for sure. My team at work got dissolved as I was doing a project that would lead to me finally becoming a senior engineer. Now I'm set back by a couple years as I learn shit on my new team.

>>44033218
Try to find a regular reliable guy to blow.