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I would transition if it could go perfectly, but that's not realistic. What tips do you have for staying in the closet for life?
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>>44024337
watching animation memes
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The reasons I can't transition are:
>1. I am mostly only attracted to women so I should just stay cis and deal with it so I can find love. Trans people can't date.
>2. It's very unlikely that I could pass as well as I need to feel ok with myself. I would basically need perfect passing and be imperceptible to everyone. Not only to be confident in myself but also so I can be normal. That's very unlikely. Less than 1% of trans people can pass.
>3. Like it or not being trans turns you into a social pariah. People just hate you for being you. I could lose relationships with my family. I may be hated my people simply for being me and I would have to hide it from most people.
it's better for my life to just be a cis male. I can take it. simple as
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>>44024406
You're going to break some straight woman's heart one day when youre in your 40s and come out.

You're the type of headass to drag a whole ass wife and kids into your larp. How the fuck is that fair for anyone involved? Just being a fucking fake person your entire time with them. Having her share vows with a man that doesn't even exist. And you know the entire fucking time? Grow the fuck up.
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>>44024337
See you endocrinologist for having your testosterone reduced to a level where no longer triggers your autogynephilia
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>>44024506
It's alright I am fine as a man. There are certain aspects I like and I can continue to norish and grow. I don't believe in the idea that staying in the closet is miserable and that you have to crack at some point.
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>>44024549
Reality doesn't really care about what you believe, but you'll find that out sooner or later.
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>>44024534
I think for me the biggest thing is social, I feel like I relate more to women in terms of conversation style and interests and I feel bad when I am left out because I am not a woman.
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>>44024337
Manmode until you get enough surgeries to pass, its what i did
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>>44024620
I just don't think that will be possible I don't think I can pass well enough to be comfortable with myself. Like my voice will never fully pass nor my skeleton will never look quite female enough.
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>>44024337
Use your pain to create art that makes it super obvious to everyone you're a repressing tranny then just never come out or acknowledge the allegations
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>>44024697
there are surgeries for those too lol
kinda requires having rich parents or a good tech job though
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>>44024737
good idea. I want to get more into art
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>>44024380
tru tru
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bump
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>>44024549
32 years here, realized i was in fact a girl at 12. Was too scared to do anything about it.
A certain cartoon, of all things, broke me recently and it's not going back in the box this time. I have a terf wife.
Don't make stupid choices like i did. For your sake. But, i wouldn't have listened to me either, and i know you won't. It's going to be SO painful.
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>>44024337
Push everyone away from you so they don't learn your secret
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>>44026206
was going to make fun of you but I don't like being mean. that's fine you do you. I'll do me. I won't troon out. I've done a lot of personal growth
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>>44024337
alcohol
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>>44028797
yeh
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>>44024337
Remember the harassment you will have to deal with



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