I would transition if it could go perfectly, but that's not realistic. What tips do you have for staying in the closet for life?
>>44024337watching animation memes
The reasons I can't transition are:>1. I am mostly only attracted to women so I should just stay cis and deal with it so I can find love. Trans people can't date.>2. It's very unlikely that I could pass as well as I need to feel ok with myself. I would basically need perfect passing and be imperceptible to everyone. Not only to be confident in myself but also so I can be normal. That's very unlikely. Less than 1% of trans people can pass.>3. Like it or not being trans turns you into a social pariah. People just hate you for being you. I could lose relationships with my family. I may be hated my people simply for being me and I would have to hide it from most people.it's better for my life to just be a cis male. I can take it. simple as
>>44024406You're going to break some straight woman's heart one day when youre in your 40s and come out. You're the type of headass to drag a whole ass wife and kids into your larp. How the fuck is that fair for anyone involved? Just being a fucking fake person your entire time with them. Having her share vows with a man that doesn't even exist. And you know the entire fucking time? Grow the fuck up.
>>44024337See you endocrinologist for having your testosterone reduced to a level where no longer triggers your autogynephilia
>>44024506It's alright I am fine as a man. There are certain aspects I like and I can continue to norish and grow. I don't believe in the idea that staying in the closet is miserable and that you have to crack at some point.
>>44024549Reality doesn't really care about what you believe, but you'll find that out sooner or later.
>>44024534I think for me the biggest thing is social, I feel like I relate more to women in terms of conversation style and interests and I feel bad when I am left out because I am not a woman.
>>44024337Manmode until you get enough surgeries to pass, its what i did
>>44024620I just don't think that will be possible I don't think I can pass well enough to be comfortable with myself. Like my voice will never fully pass nor my skeleton will never look quite female enough.
>>44024337Use your pain to create art that makes it super obvious to everyone you're a repressing tranny then just never come out or acknowledge the allegations
>>44024697there are surgeries for those too lolkinda requires having rich parents or a good tech job though
>>44024737good idea. I want to get more into art
>>44024380tru tru
bump
>>4402454932 years here, realized i was in fact a girl at 12. Was too scared to do anything about it.A certain cartoon, of all things, broke me recently and it's not going back in the box this time. I have a terf wife.Don't make stupid choices like i did. For your sake. But, i wouldn't have listened to me either, and i know you won't. It's going to be SO painful.
>>44024337Push everyone away from you so they don't learn your secret
>>44026206was going to make fun of you but I don't like being mean. that's fine you do you. I'll do me. I won't troon out. I've done a lot of personal growth
>>44024337alcohol
>>44028797yeh
>>44024337Remember the harassment you will have to deal with