genuinely want some advice abt this...im an early 20s manmoder re-enrolling in college soon. have lived in a liberal area and my friends have mostly been women for the past while, theyve tended to read me as gay even before i mentioned anything abt the relationship i had until recently with my now-ex, so i guess it's obvious that im a faggot or whatever. i've been trying to prepare myself to start over socially and don't really know how to like. pretend to be normal around other men (am a sperg too, pic related) but ik i have to start making friends as soon as i can with them so that i can over the next several years fall in love and then probably get heartbroken and kill myself. im wondering if there's any tolerance in like bro social groups (eg. a fraternity) for anything seen as feminine now or if i'll have to totally repress everything, bc i rlly want to find some kind of support structure that isnt just autistic women. and mb date someone idk but that's probably setting my sights much too high
>>44031627why would you ever want to join a frat, nona? like an academic one? In any case, making male friends as an effeminate manmoder has been pretty smooth sailing as long as I stay within spergier STEM circles. Imo your best luck would be to get into mixed gender friend groups since the guys there should be already chill with woman behaviors.
>>44031627It's easy just talk to us
>>44032670i feel like it'd help a lot bc otherwise im still kind of on the outside looking in at a lot of men. but yes culturally it'd be hard i lowk want to go back fully in the closet anyway and smth like that would make me stay instead of giving into the agp. mixed gender is nice but it seems like those guys r the most likely ones to meet a tranny and then "realize" smth abt themselves idkkkk>>44032807ur scary and i forgot how
>>44034930>it seems like those guys r the most likely ones to meet a tranny and then "realize" smth abt themselves idkkkkyou can just say you're conjecturing bs. There's far, far too many guys in mixed friend groups versus repper trannies
>>44036231that's fair, im just rlly nervous given that these sorts of ppl seem to naturally gravitate together somehow. not even talking abt reppers specifically. i still am super nervous that i'll have trans stuff wreck my relationships (romantic and platonic) again, or that ppl will just read me very easily and hate me for it
>>44031627If you're a girl pretending to be a guy, dress like Megumin. Assets recovered. If you're an actual guy wtf are you even asking.
