I recently learned that testosterone doesn't alter trans mens facial structure as an adult because the plates are all fused or some scientific shit like that. I genuinely thought T was like this uniquely evil hormone that would turn you into a gorilla no matter what. Makes me a little less scared of the detransition camps.Sorry for thinking you had it easier pooners, I was dismissing your struggles for years.
>>44032132bones fuse at different ages and your bones can still grow if you have something like gigantism even after the epiphysial growth plates fuse, so its kind of true, but yeah it's not like hormones are magic
>>44032132>"I am paranoid, lazy, and averse to doing even the most basic of research on this thing that I have strong opinions about, but recently I stopped being lazy and learned this cool thing."Well good for you then, Nona.
>>44032132T doesn't change your facial bones but it does change the amount of fat in your face if you aren't already fat, which can still meaningfully alter how one is interpreted.So don't be too hard on yourself, easy mistake to make.
>>44032132You thought that a chemical could literally alter the bones in a person's face? Are you retarded?
>>44032132it has jam/jelly/whatevrr on it? sorry for being american about food im just confused
>>44033448Yeah, I thought the only reason estrogen didn't change transwomens facial structure was because once it was exposed to T it couldnt "shrink" back. Turns out there's a critical window for all of this stuff and taking T as an adult won't just give you chad features. Literally used to roll my eyes at trans men who acted like their face would never pass.So yeah. I was being a retarded jackass. Im sorry.
>>44032132Honestly, that's not even bad as long as the person doesn't have the babiest face in the world
>>44032132It's suprisingly poorly known among the tranny community that T in itself has no effect on bone growth, it's rather estrogen that makes growth plates close early
>>44034483WAIT MY FACE IS STILL MASCULINISING? FUUUUUUUCK
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>>44034641>>44034646Hurts to see but I understand
>>44034641Its clear her bones didnt change
>>44034664her midface ratio is very clearly different
>>44034684Is it that or is it just the way the fat sits in that area making it appear a little longer because she's off HRT? I genuinely can't really tell. Like, she still looks pretty fem to me.
>>44033448that's...what happens, though...before the plates fuse...
>>44032132mmmmm burger...
>>44034740No proof that it isn't chromosomes.
>>44034887yes there is you troglodite, XY afabs with no SRY gene on the Y chromosome are a thing
>>44035393Yeah, you trog
>>44034646theres smth abt breeders thats just so fucking weird TBQH
>>44035425It's really not weird if you don't completely hate yourself/ lack faith in your ability to properly care for a child
>>44032132Yeah you have to get on hormones young or your bone structure won't change. >Sorry for thinking you had it easier pooners, I was dismissing your struggles for years.Can you inform other trans women of this whenever they make the same assumption.
>>44035425if we had state mandated therapy for life and made sure people weren't having kids to solve their marriages or soulless midlife crises, the world would be so much better but also nuke the birth rate lmao. maybe its for the best.
>>44034646Imagine being this scared of everything you could possibly pass on to your children EXCEPT the violent terminal autism you have.
>>44035448just adopt?? it's the obsession with """continuing the bloodline""" that's so creepy, like you just know they'd force their kids to have kids if they could
>>44035674nahhh thats not just autism, idk what cursed neuroalchemy op was cooking in, dont put that on us
>>44032132borgir.....
>>44035675Adoption is spiritual cuckoldry
im kind of an antinatalist, this is me >>44035656, but to the other antinatalists out there, is there really no justifiable reason for parents to have kids? for me i can kinda understand farmers making more workers to survive and thrive, even if its inducing suffering. if i had to conjure up one for the modern day it's making kids so that the world isnt full of just shitty people raised by shitty parents, but thats still such an ego thing to make your kids the saviors of the future. is individuality and happiness really our great filter?
>>44035675Adoption is incredibly expensive on top of the cost of actually raising the kid. The kid is also not like a baby duck that'll just imprint on you and love you unconditionally. You have to understand you're taking in a child who probably comes from a broken home and is dealing with a ton of trauma surrounding it. A parent who rushes to adopt because they can't have kids themselves might not be prepared to deal with that, and it can lead to unfair resentment and all sorts of other issues.It's just a very different experience. It doesn't mean it can't still be beautiful and work out amazingly, but it's not just an alternative to having your own bio kids. It should be a decision made because you want to, not just because it's your only option. You can love them just as much but it will be a different type of relationship
>>44035691It's OCD more than autism in this case
>>44035697> t. femboykek>>44035786Yeah, well said. Adoption is not necessarily a replacement for having biological kids.I'd love to give a little autistic kid who doesn't have one a loving and understanding home.
>>44034887DNA is just the blueprint for the body, its not a chemical messenger like hormones which actually cause the changes.Which is why if you have CAIS you're phenotypically female
>>44032266This is not what he said. You're bullshit is pretty obvious to anyone willing to read both posts
>>44034641Wow instant ugly! What's this person think of themselves, how can they live with this!
>>44035824And also why CAIS are women and not men despite having xy chromosomes
>>44035656probably is, this world is in a sense still hell in natureliterally every religion's original text (ignoring whatever muzzie etc ones say because i cant take them seriously) more or less believes that in a true idealist world, nobody would have any kids ever and humanity would subsequently die out.
>>44035923No, this is not "why" CAIS women are women, they're women for the same reason any other woman, including trans women, is a woman: because that's their gender identity.
>>44035756the premise is flawed imo. such a fucking thought terminating nerdling answer to give but especially in more commercialized philosophy like this it usually is the answer, because there is no answer. the idea of moral absolutionism or that a good number of people actually function off it even to a flawed extent is more a product of postmodern american society than anything else.continued existence is it's own so called justification. people will continue to do whatever they have been doing; everything happens for a reason and the concurrent motion has no reason to fail. those who surrender themselves to the present will be swept up by it (breeders in this case). i hope that helps
>>44035786>kid is not like a baby duck that'll just imprint on you and love you unconditionallyI kinda like that though. too many parents see kids as someone to be controlled rather than respected as their own person
>>44035756The only valid reason to have children is because you want to be a parent and you have the means to care for a child, anyone trying to argue anything else is retarded and should probably kms themselves.
>>44035990Gender identity doesn't exist, you are what you present as
>>44034641>>44034646Honestly, no disrespect intended, but wouldn't it be best if you didn't procreate? And if you were insistent on having kids, wouldn't you prefer a better biological sample? I think using your own genetics is doing any future children a massive disservice and its very unfair to them.
>>44036116Dumb and transphobic statement.
>>44035990Pure ideology. Gender is in the eye of the beholder. A woman is anyone who is perceived as a woman.
>>44038694So not you then
>>44034641imagine doing that to yourself just to "father" a child, wouldn't be me
>>44038765I pass, so I'm a woman.
>>44032132>testosterone doesn't alter trans mens facial structure as an adultthis must be bait