Misgendered a tranny but I didn't realize till like 5 minutes later and I couldn't find her to apologize and let her know it was an honest mistake (it really was).Sigh. She probably went home and feels bad (or at the very least, worse) because of me. I am genuinely unintelligent so she shouldn't even be sad but she probably is. That's so disgusting man. Hope I get into a fight and die (but I still win, like I bleed out and die slowly).Now I'll be stuck with this memory and cringe at my existence for who knows how long.
>>44033140was she a hon or a semipassoid? if she was a passoid and you clocked her based on some subtle nuance, she's probably absolutely devastated. i got clocked just under a year ago and got called sir and i'm still not completely over it. i think if you misgender a hon, at least it's doesn't completely shatter their reality
>>44033154Uff :(She looked like a girl but the voice threw me off so I thought to myself "oh, trans". From the dialect and the fact that she approached me to ask a question about a place I can tell she's a tourist. When she thanked me I replied with "no problem, man". BUT I promise it was a gender neutral man. I just say man like that a lot. Even to my mother. Like she'll want to visit me and I'll say "place is yours man".It's so pathetic and sad because people don't approach me because I simpy don't look approachable and she did and look what I did.I seriously hope she somehow knows that I didn't mean it like that
>>44033181nta but i pass and you learn quickly that people use things like man or dude in that context without it being evidenced you were clocked. she either already knows this or else needs to learn it. you were just treating her like a normal person, this is nothing to worry about
>>44033140>>44033181Wtf... :(
>>44033181>From the dialect... I can tell she's a tourist.is this a language that doesn't use "man" as a vocative?
>>44033301I had to look that up and I am pretty sure it's a vocative. I think it's a textbook example of one
