How does one decide to go full blown non passing John50 honmoding? I’m tired of hiding my curves and want to go in fem mode to the local big liberal city 4th of July celebration, it’s going to be so hot outside, but I’m a total brick and I just look so goddamn weird. It’s fine at queer raves and stuff but the stares in daytime just suck. Man this sucks I don’t know why anyone would think you would choose this for fun and games
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>>44034978For me it came down to the balance of discomforts. I just hated boymoding more than I hated honmoding, so I honmoded. The challenge is finding places where you're safe. What shops are okay, what shops aren't, where you can go without being harassed, where are the danger areas.
>>44035880Yeah that makes sense. I live in a pretty progressive enclave of little towns in a really blue part of the country so I already have safe spaces and events I can go to, shops with pride flag stickers on the window, etc. The city in question is a coastal elite cosmopolitan place so I know I wouldn’t get dragged behind a truck by any means but it’s going to be hard to weigh if the stares at a family friendly daytime event for normies in a downtown park will be worth it
