My best friends are cis guys but I'm a boymoder. I came out to them a year and a half ago, but still boymode bc I'm scared of changing the vibes in the friend group.They've gotten the idea that I've been cutting myself and I said some stuff that wasn't suicidal but they interpreted it that way and now they bug me about checking my arms for cuts whenever we hang out.They've definitely noticed my boobs when they've made me take my hoodie off to check my arms. They made a few comments about them and now it feels like they don't really listen to me anymore, every time we go to hang out they'll bother me until I take my hoodie off, check my arms, then pull me onto the couch to sit by one of them. I don't feel like I have a say in group stuff now bc they're all like "of course you'd say that shrimp".I feel like I need to assert myself. What can I say to get them to forget all the stuff that made them think I would hurt myself?
