So, i started dating a trans girl about 2 years ago, wich is a miracle given that before that i had a self imposed rule of no romantic bullshit when getting laid, but shit happens and as it turns out she was a way better person than i anticipated. I met her at my last year in college (4 years ago), I was more of a hookup guy than a dating guy but with her i found myself going to dates and genuinely enjoying my time. We have been together officialy for a couple of years now, and now we live together, everything is great, everything is nice.But i want a family.Call it whathever you want but this last month ive had the urge to become the dad of a kid and raise it with her, to start that kind of project and settle down. im 31, she is 29. We kinda talked about this loosely some time ago, but she said she was not confident on her becoming a "mom", saying stuff that signaled her being scared of the matter. we both have an income, its not great but we live fine together and moving out somewhere better would not be that hard.I knew generally queer couples are not the kind to start families when i got with her, but im growing "old", and now i work where i wanted to work and so does she. We are very stable, but she is scared, and i think i really want to start a family.i don't wanna break up with her
she sounds faketrans and you sound gay
>>44037843just ask her if you can adopt a kid/surragate. She is prob scared of being a mom becuase she is trans and the negative association between trans women and children.
>>44037843Cannot imagine a worse fate than having a tranny parent. How embarrassing.
>>44038669One of your parents' passed on their particular flavor of hormone imbalance in utero. That's why you're homosexual (or you're a man hater political lesbian idk idc)We are cut from the same cloth