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I'm a 31 year old with absolutely no dysphoria but I kind of want to trans out of self-loathing and because of some of the benefits of pic rel. Is this a good idea?
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>>44038259
No this is a terrible idea, if you really don't have dysphoria then don't even think of doing this.
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>>44038259
don't worry about dysphoria, some of us don't experience it in any appreciable amount. If you want to be a girl, be a girl
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how do you separate dysphoria from self loathing
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>>44038259
are you expecting to turn out like the tranny in picrel? if so, just know she had facial surgeries and breast implants. she looks like this irl:
with no dysphoria, it will be an expensive cosplay
https://youtu.be/TibrwuEabTI?si=0RbL40oQADH7ojr-
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>>44038275
>>44038276
the duality etc etc

>>44038288
I don't know, I've always hated myself (and also been narcissistic, too). How do you differentiate it?
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>>44038299
>are you expecting to turn out like the tranny in picrel?
That would be the dream, but I know that's not realistic. Still cute enough IRL though
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>>44038259
>that list
holy shit autistic men are so delusional lol
when are you guys gonna realize you don't need to faketroon in order to have gay sex with each other (your "transbian" dating pool)
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>>44038259
Honestly if these are the reasons people transition that's really sad
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>>44038328
Don't worry cis lesbians will totally want to sleep with them
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>>44038309
Find a psychologist or shrink who specializes in this sort of thing, but trooning out because of a meme or because retards on the internet said you should is bound to end in disaster imo.
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>>44038392
I also sometimes get AGP thoughts if that changes anything.
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>>44038309
im just wondering myself
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>>44038424
i have agp and started hrt at 30 with no dysphoria. starting hrt actually gave me dysphoria and now i'm constantly distressed that i'm not a woman
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>>44038424
did you really fall for the "AGP is actually true trans" shit on this board? no that doesn't change anything. agp is something only cis males get after a lengthy porn addiction. get off the internet, quit watching porn and work towards being a less narcissistic and misogynistic person.
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>>44038489
That's fascinating. Maybe I shouldn't then lmao

>>44038524
I don't have porn addiction
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>>44038424
Agp alone doesn't necessitate that someone should transition, my advice remains the same.
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>>44038328
It's not meant to be taken seriously
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>>44038846
Clearly a few people do anyway.
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>>44038846
you're kidding, right?
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I’m a disgusting man moder freak. HRT won’t work if you’re 20+.
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>>44038922
no, why?
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>>44038259
try it, stop if reverse dysphoria ig
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Natalie Mars trooned in her 30s.

Not saying you'll look like her, but it's the ideal to aim for.
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>>44038259
you wont get any of the benefits from picrel at 31. for some of those youd need to be pretty and passing (and it still wouldn't be guaranteed). you're old, you never fucking had it
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>>44040735
>it's the ideal to aim for
We've gotta stop with thinking that porn is something to emulate and strive for, come on, what are we doing here.
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>>44038259
Absolutely not. Are you insane? Why would you do that?
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>>44038259
first of all you have dysphoria, if you want to transition then you probably have dysphoria you repress
second of all lmao oldshit
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>>44038259
This is fucking stupid, the only people going into this for the reason of "transmaxxing" and not actual dysphoria are going to be the most bricky john 50s who have no chance to begin with. I've seen these creatures on dating apps, they don't even fucking try, I can't even tell if they're on HRT or not. They don't even shave their chest for the photos they post. I can't imagine a single person ever wanting to be with them. They'd have better chances as a man.
>>44040735
Luckshit. 1 in a 1000.
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>>44042548
>They'd have better chances as a man.

If that was the case, they wouldn't have trooned.
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>>44038259
>vintologi
is this dude still alive?
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>>44038259
if you want to transition, you have dysphoria, dumbfuck.
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>>44040825
Not even the better skin?

>>44042392
Because some of the effects seem rather appealing also it seems kind of hot

>>44042479
i don't have dysphoria
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>>44038259
>0. Sexual excitement from having a feminine body.
If you're AGP this can be a win but if not you'll feel gross.

>1. The superiority of female aesthetics.
Partly true, you're going to look like a clown unless you pass really well and that's not likely.

>2. Access to the transbian dating pool.
Transbians are the most insufferably miserable cunts alive, avoid.

>3. Full body orgasms.
10 years HRT, have never had this happen.

>4. Multiple orgasms from penile stimulation.
See above, but it's also a case of YMMV, and also I have bottom dysphoria so I'd rather not have my dick touched.

>5. Your breasts will become more sensitive.
Yes, this is true.

>6. You will feel emotions stronger and be happier on estrogen.
Yes on the first bit, probably not on the second bit. When you feel bad, you'll feel worse.

>7. Being able to attract cis lesbians (if you become attractive enough).
The disclaimer is important. Also cis lesbians are almost as bad as transbians in a lot of cases. Beware.

>8. Being able to attract high-quality males for sex.
If you're hot, otherwise have fun with chasers.

>9. Softer skin and less/no acne.
This is broadly true, yes, but everyone can get this with skincare. Don't be a fag, use retinol and sunscreen.

>10. Live longer
Eh, I guess. We'll see if I make it to 100.

>11. Being able to extract resources from males.
If you're hot. A lot of these can include that disclaimer, desu.

>You will no longer be driven to do dangerous and idiotic things due to testosterone.
Instead you get to be emotionally unstable and do different dangerous and idiotic things.

>13. Stop and reverse hair loss.
Never lost my hair but sure, that can happen I guess.

>14. People will treat you better if they think you are female.
Online, yes, sometimes. IRL not so much unless you're a stealth passoid.

>15. Less likely to get killed.
lmao

>16. Access to female spaces
Again, lmao.

17. Cheaper car insurance.
Wait seriously? Why am I still paying $170 a month? Gay.
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>>44038259
most of these are bullshit, as a tranny you are more likely to be killed, and more likely to die if you dont live longer. estrogen wont make you significantly less impulsive. people will not treat you better, you will be a target of transphobia and mysogyny. this is an all around terrible idea.
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>>44038524
My friend of African descent
I've been AGP since forever
I wanted to be a girl when I was 4 years old because of this bullshit
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>>44042663
Describe what being a man feels like to you. Try to summarize it
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>>44038259
>extract resources from males
kek incels are such cavemen
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>>44038524
i never had a "lengthy porn addiction" and i'm agp. explain that
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>>44043244
It's difficult to say without saying "default". It's pressure, it's expectations upon your actions and personality, it's a sort of competition you have to constantly play, like a social ladder game you have to constantly struggle to climb. You have to be dominant sexually or you are putting yourself at risk of humiliation.

It's also opportunity and gives you the "no one loves you unless you make something of yourself" drive which unfortunately I don't have at all but in theory is useful. But I haven't taken any of this opportunity. I've never felt very manly, and that when I was younger especially caused me a lot of anxiety I felt like I was a failure and was behind my peers.
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>>44038259
Yes, you should do it, anon.
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>>44043110
>>I wanted to be a girl when I was 4 years old because of this bullshit
I don't believe anyone who says this. No one thought that way when they were 4.
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>>44045910
I do, I've been agp since childhood long before I ever knew what porn was.
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>>44045925
And if you weren't, what does that make you? Less valid? Invalid?



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