i have never had satisfying sex as a tranny. ive been with guys and girls but ive only ever tried to bottom sometimes i wonder if i should try topping. is it actually satisfying to top or should i just give up on sex?also are cisf chasers real? topping guys sounds weird
You have a dick and you never topped?
>>44043902I have a dick and never ever topped if you don't count oralGetting srs soonish inshallah
>>4404390299% of trannies have never topped and have no interest in it
>>44043907You're not op. OP is expressing dissatisfaction.
>>44043902I have never tried topping because of dysphoria but when i mess around a bit i like it a little. Never properly topped tho. I just think i might not like sex so i wanna try again
I topped once and it made me cry after he left. It was hot tho it was just awkward.
>>44043815topping is fun. i've not really tried to bottom, but i use a dildo when i masturbate sometimes. its nice, but more effort than its worth for me. and even though topping is fun and i like it, sometimes its also not satisfying. usually i really just like mutual masturbation and hand stuff.cisf chasers are real, just much more uncommon than cism. they present differently as well. usually equally as objectifying and gross about it, just in different ways. wouldn't recommend pursuing them, both because of what i just said, and also because it's a bigger red flag/optics nuke as a trans woman to explicitly try to seek out cis women exclusively. its THE culture war sticking point about trans women - that they're trying to "manipulate cis lesbians" or whatever.
>>44043926I mean I'm also dissatisfied anal has always been very painful for me
>>44043959Im just wondering if theyre real bc i dont know who else i could top. I just wanna try it once before i write off sex. Sex has been mostly negative till now
>>44044002if you want to top a woman, you could try fuck another trans woman.also there are cis women who are attracted to trans women and are normal about it. i've slept with cisf chasers and normal cis women before. the chasers were much creepier and uncomfortable and gross about it. normal cis women can be a bit awkward about it, in a clumsy inexperienced and clueless way. most haven't slept with trans women before, just like most men haven't. just like if its your first time topping with a woman, it's probably her first time with a trans woman - it can just be a bit awkward is all. its everyone's first time living, yknow?