It just takes too much fucking effort to be feminine. I cant do this anymore. Shaving takes me multiple hours and always ends leaving numerous cuts that take months to ever fully fade. Plus, no matter what method of shaving i use it always ends up giving me tons of ingrown hairs and rashes.Applying skincare products is always so tedious, and if i even forget to do it for even one day my skin breaks out and instantly erases weeks of progress. Not to mention, sometimes my skin just starts feeling like its burning when i apply it. Just last night i forgot to do my skincare routine after having done it consistently for longer than i ever have before, and now its all for nothing and my face is back to looking ugly and disgusting.I havent even begun doing makeup yet since skincare and shaving have already taken so much energy out of me, and i cant even manage to do those two simple things. I dont know how anybody keeps up with this.
>>44043957forgot to also mention the constant starving and binging, aswell as how tedious haircare is. I genuinely cannot fathom how everyone else is able to manage all these different things while i cant
>>44043957>I dont know how anybody keeps up with this.Unlike you and me nona, beautiful cis models and influencers have been trained for this since they were children, you know, while we were being trained not to have any feelings.
>>44044027But even most average everyday cis women seem to keep up with all these things. hell, even most other femboys aswell as mtfs seem to keep up with them too.
>>44043957That’s okay, women are supposed to look savage just like men. It took a half dozen slaves for women to say you need be made up all the time.
>>44043957Make it a ritual for yourself, only shave and do makeup when you want to have some fun (maybe take pictures), don't just do it all out of obligationYou don't have to girlmode 24/7
>>44043957>skincare and shaving have already taken so much energy out of mesame and it makes me feel like such a fake tranny loser. like if I want to have any semblance at a passing life I feel as if I should enjoy these things but it's genuinely takes so much out of me to even keep up with basic hygiene let alone trying to look pretty. in all honesty I gave up months ago on shaving and trying to look nice and just regressed back to the bare minimum so I'm not smelly or gross. it sucks but I've accepted that there's something deeper wrong and my goal is unobtainable as a result.
Hair growth slows on hrt, just FYI.
>>44045184Thats a good idea, but even now when i want to dress fem im just too depressed and tired to even make myself get out of bed and do any all the things required before i can dress up. And unfortunately this is how it feels for me all the time>>44045504I feel you, i was so happy a few days ago and proud of myself for taking care of myself for over a week, but now ive just crashed out of energy and stopped doing all of it. Ive regressed back into my cycle of doing nothing and being ugly. even if i did manage to find the motivation to start trying again, i would inevitably regress again after a few days so its all pointless.
>>44043957>troon out and try to effortmax>looneytroon pills make me so tired i can barely get out of bed or shower
>>44046437Good to know, I want long hair so I'll do my best to avoid HRT
>>44046437I dont have the privilege of being able to access hrt. And even if i did, i find many of the other effects of hrt extremely undesirable. My only real possibility is finasteride but i dont even know if that would slow bodyhair growth.
>>44043957just be reborn prettier
>>44046481Look into dutasteride, it's like fin but more effective at blocking dht.
>>44043957for the shaving issue, try using hair conditioner as shaving cream. It doesn't cause me bumps or ingrown hairs for me. The only exception is the back of my thighs, it always is rashy and bumpy after shaving. For hair care, what kind of hair do you have anon ? Straight hair is relatively easy to manage but wavy and curly hair do require effort to look good
>>44046668Ill try the hair conditioner next time then, thank you. I have long wavy hair but its pretty fucked up and uneven due to neglect>>44046603Do i need to go to a general doctor or a dermatologist to get a prescription? What do i have to say to get one?>>44046468I am not trans. I dont take estrogen pills. You couldnt even manage to make it past the first few words of the thread before you started seeing red and seething like a retarded gorilla.
>>44046699I just booked an appointment with a derm and they gave me a prescription after I asked them and said that hairloss runs in my family. They may ask for you to take a bloodtest first but besides that it's pretty easy.
>>44046699I've got wavy hair too and when I neglect it, it becomes so frizzy and tangled. I haven't found a fix but brushing it every morning and before going to bed reduces it a bit. Also just sharing anon, starting hrt make my face and body skin so much softer. It sorta like a skincare on it's own
>>44046720>They may ask for you to take a bloodtest first but besides that it's pretty easy.hairloss doesnt run in my family, will my bloodtests expose me as a liar? >>44046800Brushing everyday is the solution for me too, but its just impossible for me to keep it up daily, and if i even miss a single day my hair will get so tangled that i will be unable to brush it without ripping out tons of hair. Also i dont have the ability to ever access hrt but thanks for the suggestion.
>>44046823>will my bloodtests expose me as a liar?No I lied about it too, bloodtest is more so for their assurance and to make sure you don't have any liver problems beforehand, other than that not sure it matters health wise.
>>44045504>>44046668I was under the impression that waxing was a lot more effective and caused less skin issues than shaving? You can do it diy very easily as well
>>44046912nta but I would try it but i heard its extremely painful and can fuck up your skin badly so ive been too scared to try it
>>44046993I've had poor luck with shaving in the past (though that may have been my fault for doing a poor job) and was recommended waxing by my next door neighbor who is a nurse. I can't guarantee no issues would come of it because there are always risks with everything but its a once a month sort of process and the pain passes extremely quickly if you do it correctly. Might be worth a try if you struggle to keep up the motivation for constant shaving
>>44047050how bad would it be if i accidentally fucked it up? and does it prevent ingrown hairs?
>>44047229It can cause ingrown hairs if you do it incorrectly, but so can shaving so it's still a decent idea to give it a go.
>>44047255if ingrown hairs are the worst thing that can go wrong then i suppose i might aswell try waxing. Thank you
>>44047342Just make sure to look up some guides on the process, its mostly involves very basic preparation like exfoliating and skincare after to minimize the risk of ingrown hairs and avoid any skin irritation. Honestly its about the same amount of work as preparing to shave properly but you don't have to do it every few days.
>>44044006>>44043957you are not alone in this. i've moved to a more minimalist approach with ok results, which i think is the only sensible approach when your point of comparison is privileged beauty influencers
>>44043957>me reading this as a hairless chaser
>>44046476I am sorry to said that to you, but you can't.Sooner or later you will have to take it.
How much would it cost to laser everything on your tranny? Like just delete all hair below the neck.Lets say a 5'7 that started E before 20
>cis man>born with absolutely zero body hair whatsoever besides a tiny mustache and beard If only I were a femboy or troon and gave a shit
>>44047810Ty, also are there any especially good waxing kits i should buy in particular?>>44048034that was just someone larping as me lol.
