Is it possible to hook up with women without them realising I'm a trans man? I was a t-at-16-midshit, now mid-20s, pass 100% and absolutely no one I've met post-transition even suspects that I'm trans. Every girl I've fucked before I've disclosed to, but all I want is a couple hookups where I get to eat her out without having to worry about disclosing, and with her still thinking I'm cis start to finish. Is there any way to pull this off? Any remote plausible deniability to explain away the top surgery scars, or any way to stay fully-dressed without that making things equally as obvious or weird?
i'm assuming you haven't had phallo>top scarsidk, say you had some condition or tumours or some shit. >stay fully dressedi mean - you might get to eat her out while still fully dressed, but if she expects things to go further, shit out of luckmaybe make up some fetish reason why you don't wanna take your clothes off, idk. there's not really a non-weird or at least natural sounding way to have sex with someone, whilst insisting you don't want to get naked. it's not even necessarily that its going to out you as trans, it's just bizarre in a general way. why do you want to do this?
>>44045374>i'm assuming you haven't had phalloNot yet unfortunately.>there's not really a non-weird or at least natural sounding way to have sex with someone, whilst insisting you don't want to get naked. it's not even necessarily that its going to out you as trans, it's just bizarre in a general way.Yeah, that's exactly the issue.>>44045374>why do you want to do this?I like staying stealth in general. Also, some straight women will turn me down once they realise I'm trans even after clarifying I don't want my genitalia involved in any way.
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>>44045422staying stealth and like, dysphoria reasons and shit, i get it, but when you add in that its because you want to keep your options open, it gets weird. like getting turned down because they found out you are trans is preferable to them finding out when they naked on your bed.until phallo, i think its not happening at all. unless you can find someone into like, femdom or some shit? some arrangement where you please her as a sub/dom thing and she doesn't touch you? idk. maybe a strap on and in the dark? idk the whole thing is dumb. i'm mtf, so maybe its different for me, but the risk/reward of staying stealth/getting outed mid fuck is not even close to worth it. i think just cut your losses and accept it dawg, it's just part of what being trans is like. you ought know this by now
