my parents dont talk to me about trans stuff or dont go into their true beliefs about it really cus ig they see me as the "woke" one but theyll happily tell my brother about this stuff and he tells me. it wasnt anything crazy its just like "oh i think its a mental illness and i dont want to feed into by using the pronouns"it just kinda stings cus i knew they were vaguely transphobic before. like my mom said that children should transition or my dad saying trans women shouldnt be in sports but i thought it was just whatever and if i present like a woman maybe theyd accept me. they dont know im trans and the one time they suspected it they freaked out. i ordered an auto injector and the packaging said what it was and they immediately thought trans (not a great sign ik) but i convinced them it was for an ftm friend of mine and i heard my dad on phone (he was out but my was at the door calling him) say that "please dont ever do that stuff" i really tried to forget but i know for a fact he said thatfmstl is there even a point to coming out to them?
>>44045996no, ride it out until you can leave them
>>44045996Transition and cause them agony by getting a polycule, ordering a blahaj, and sitting in VRChat during your free time
>>44046014i was thinking that too, like the most ill get from coming out atp is that i wont need to boymode at home>>44046021yeah male to female to sneed
>>44045996No point in coming out to them. What always confused me about this argument is that if trannies are mentally ill, what exactly is the treatment?
>>44046033imo transitioning but obviously to them its like repping. idk ig just ignore the feelings as much as possible and try to be really masc
is there a way i can make them not transphobic? has anyone ever had luck on that front? id like some advice on things i can do. so far i think just being normal and being passable will help a lot but idk if it will help that much
bump, sorry kinda just advicefishing rn
>>44046240No I don't think so, there's no way to force people who're willingly ignorant change their stance. I'd just work on becoming independent.
>>44045996you are not trans. trans people doesnt exist, is all just social conditioning that happens when someone doesnt anwser in a healthy way to problems in life
>>44048283yayyy!!! now i dont have to deal with this. thanks for this info anon
