>try to force myself to touch grass and go to a trans event in the city to make irl friends >alone>its fucking massive and every single tranny my age is already with a clique of friends>i have no friends>completely overwhelmed>go to a nearby gay bar with a book instead>only tranny who notices me the entire time is a john 50 boomerhon who creepily tries to hit on me >talk to a cute cis girl for a bit but eventually she turns to talk to another cis girl instead and they hit it off better >get up to smile and say bye to her >leave the bar and go home crying maybe i should just never go outside again actually
>>44046012picrel drawn by an afab
>>44047695WHO THE FUCK CARES
>>44046012That's why I don't want to go outside alone, who do people think they're kidding when they tell you to just hang around like a ceiling lamp on a place filled with friend groups and turbo normalfags?>the reason you're alone is that you use "normalfag" nona! if you become delusional enough you too will be able to spend your entire life alone and won't even have to foresight to complain about it! :))))))))
>>44046012>If I don't find my wife the first time I go outside then she must not exist
>>44046012We had this discourse on twitter at the start of the week, do not bother making tranny friends and just go do friends the way normal people do. Instead of going to a tranny event go to an event about literally anything else.
>>44048195>who do people think they're kidding when they tell you to just hang around like a ceiling lamp on a place filled with friend groups and turbo normalfags?yeah this is my feeling too. I feel like its just over if you dont already have friends to introduce you to other people. everyone says "oh you have no friends? just go to events lol" but thats not how real life works, people dont just spontaneously approach strangers and become friends with them. and almost everyone just goes to events to hang with their own friends. if strangers do approach it just means youre cute enough that they wanna get in your pants. feel like the only real way to make irl friends is through work or school and thats it, i dont have much hope unless i go to grad school or something>>44048185its not that, its just that it was really discouraging because the girl she turned to was also the only other girl reading in the bar and they just seemed way more charismatic and fembrained and talkative than me and got along way better. it just made me feel even more less than cis women (because i am). and everyone says the apps suck and i hate the apps so im trying to meet people irl :(
>>44046012This makes me scared of how I'll find friends, or hell, even a partner after college. I'm so scared of being alone again.
>>44048195ive seen trannies on here say theyve made friends at support groups but the people at those were always really weird and creepy and older whenever i went, i only made one friend from one who moved away. youre probably right that i should just go to hobby groups and events and stuff instead. but it would be nice to have a tranner friend group like all the girls i saw at that event had :c
>>44048986Again, if you are capable of passing you do not *need* a tranny friend group, you do not have to put up with "the queer community, you can go and live a normie life, live a tranquil life.
