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How does one successfully rep?
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>>44047922
a tomoko poster in a sea of jax posters. is the world healing?
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>>44047922
It requires a careful balance of hopelessness, denial, and coping. You can't be too miserable or else you'll have nothing to loose and troon out or rope, and you can't be too satisfied with life or else you'll start yearning for better. Keeping yourself distracted or busy enough to not think about it while being somewhat content is your best bet.
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>>44047922
you don't, believe me
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>>44047922
Failure is the goal of repressing so you can't
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Jesus cope
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>>44047922
being a great artist. the only "successful" form of repping is using the suffering to inspire and fuel your work so you can romanticize your own repression
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constant reminder that you will never be a woman, and that resistance is futile, and that this sickly feeling is your life because youre fucked up. works for me.
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>>44047922
Successfully? I don't think there is a way. For me falling in love with a transphobe kept me repping for a very long time. Even then I would still play or design female characters or sneak off and have my private girl moments to myself so he didn't just ruin it with fighting that sucked all the fun out and would send me into bouts of depression.
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How 2 rep sucessfully in 4 steps:
>Live healthy
Eat well, sleep well, go outside, talk to people, do something that gives your life meaning, practice gratitude. Etc etc. Obvious shit.
>Stop identifying as trans
"Trans" is just a label. One that will only make you feel more ill and inadequate when you take it on. Truth is, you are a human with free will who can have weird quirks but doesnt have to confine themselves to some pre-made clinical categorization.
>Leave this place
Don't talk to reppers, trannies or any lgbt people. Dont follow trans-related social media. Delete any accounts you have where you larp as the opposite sex. Don't look at gender bender erotic stuff. Quit cold turkey, dont even look back. You're only feeding your bad side by consuming that.
>Corrections
Whenever you feel your mind drift back to dysphoric thought patterns, take a moment to correct it and direct your thoughts towards better things. "I dont actually want that/need that" etc. Will feel pointless at first but conditioning effect will get stronger over time until the bad thought patterns will disappear.
>Be consistent
Do all of the aforementioned with utmost discipline for at least 3 months and for like 90% of you, you will see significant life quality improvement. If you still feel heavily dysphoric after all of that, talk to a shrink, get meds.

In any case, you need to try this first before you get HRT. Like how a customer service guy gives you all the stupid, obvious solutions first to rule out the most common problems. Once you got all of that shit locked down and your life and mental health should be objectively fine, then you can start to think about whether you actually need hormones etc.

Added words at the end here so the spam filter doesnt catch this because another anon basically made the exact same thread. Lol.
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>>44049964
Hrt is the meds you transphobic moron and are a fuck load less risky. Eat shit
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>>44047922
you are better off just killing yourself
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>>44050039
Reading comprehension.

Also, I dont even need to tell you to go kill yourself because judging from the insecurity you displayed over my post simply trying to help someone else, you will probably end up doing it all on your own.
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>>44049092
Trvke
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>>44047922
Hrtrep without doing anything else



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