how do I detrans? almost all of my friends are trans by now and I’ve been highly gender dysphoric since childhood. I thought transitioning would help but I’ve been on HRT for just one month short of five years and it hasn’t improved by a significant amount and living as an uncanny valley hon has made my life exponentially harder.I want to detrans but I’m too cowardly to take the plunge. how do I motivate myself to commit and follow through?
by detrans you mean changing your legal name, sex etc. back to male and presenting as a man socially?
>>44049040I never got around to legal document change. I spent the first 4 years boymoding living with my parents who were not in favor of the transition.When I detransition I’ll go off HRT, present socially as male, live my life as male, and try to put the whole transgender thing behind me.
>>44048981get rid of everything feminine in your life and tell yourself ur a normal male every day. The hard part is quitting e tho I haven’t figured out that part yet
>>44049089But I hate masculinity. Even in my repper days I tried to be a sensitive, artsy kinda guy. I have a cat I love. I like cute things. I’m very emotional. I’m not overly feminine either but I really do hate mannish things. I hate beer. I’m vegetarian moving towards veganism. I cried often even before HRT. I always had long hair.
>>44048981I detransitioned medically and socially. I lived a situation similar to >>44049074. It's been like 5-6 years since then and I regret throwing it all away desu. I would explore all your options before undoing your work.
>>44049074why would you quit hrt though? do you want to be a hairier, angrier, older looking, more masculine and honnish man instead of a more feminine looking man?
>>44049280I suppose. but I worry I’ll just read as a weird gross tranny freak
>>44048981it's not worth it
>>44049133Real answer is accept being gay and allow yourself to be attracted to men, then become agp about being a man.Worked for me im not even gay good luck took probably a year
>>44050712but I’m not attracted to men
>>44049280you have 3 options:>live as a woman for the rest of your life thinking youre a hon womanfailure who feels incomplete>detrans and rep as a cis man, coping that you couldve been more>reject the binary stereotyping of identity and look for an aesthetic in betweenI dont know about you, but you can really choose anything in between: butch lesbian, theyfab altgirl, androgynous, tomboy, femboy, bishounen prince
>>44049074>has been actually transitioning for <1 yeartry actually putting in any effort into passing and actually being a woman instead of being a retarded man, hon. You are actually a moron if you can't pass 5 years on e.
