I believe I overcame dysphoria without transitioning. Others have too, it's not an uncommon thing to read here.Why is it that when either I or others mention this, trannies ALWAYS feel the need to come in and say shit like>John 50>faketrans>Rep harder>You never had dysphoriaI'm not disrespecting your choice nor the way you dealt with dysphoria. This treatment feels belittling and disrespectful of who I am, my experience and the choice I made in dealing with my problem. Why do you have to treat this with contempt, anger and dismissiveness ?Inb4>Why are you still here thenI was confused lately about where I was after a teenagehood of confusion on my sexual and gender identity, so I made the poor choice of coming on this board and trying to talk with people to figure it out.And yeah I think I dealt with my own dysphoria pretty well, I'm good with being a man now
>>44069062See you in a few years hon
>>44069062fake.You can deal with being AGP which can't deal with being a man. No tranny is happy being a man. Being a boy maybe not being a man
>>44069062Okay but have you considered that dysphoria aside, why would anyone want to be a stinky moid?
>>44069076You should have more of an open mind>>44069083I don't think I had AGP, feel free to check me by asking questions which would confirm or deny this according to you.>>44069088I've learned to stop caring about looks, about how I see myself in the mirror. I don't want to be attractive, I just want to be healthy and to care about important stuff.Being a moid or a foid really doesn't matter to me anymore.
>>44069119My understanding of AGP is : being turned on by being a woman / having woman genitalia.I didn't really have that. I had an envy to be woman, I wanted to be cute and be seen as a woman, and to see myself as a woman. But I was not sexually aroused by it. It's just something I felt in my heart.
>>44069119>>44069191Yeah you're just trying to ignore something you clearly care about. High chance of trooning when the coping mechanism wears thin. See you in a few years hon
>>44069062how old are you? when did you first start questioning your sex or gender identity, and what actually changed? how do you really feel about aging as a man and getting more masculine over time?
>>44069205I am pretty sure I am not. Mostly because I am really at peace right now with myself. The only thing chipping away at that peace are people telling me>Are you sure ? Are you sure ? But are you sure doe ?>You're in denial so bad you don't even see it yourself, you will inevitably troon out in X yearsLike, doesn't this look like predatory behaviour to you ?>>44069225I am 23 years old.I can't say when it started, as I mentioned in other threads, I had some questionable behaviour as a young child.>Mom why ain't I a girl ? I wish I was a girl.>Mostly girl friends>Wanted long hairOn the other hand I wasn't less of a boy. I liked playing tough with my father, told him that when I'd grow up I'd get a bigger beard than him, typical boy stuff.Around the age of 15 I discovered the concept of femboys and got obsessed with them.Around the age of 17 I tried to become one, grew my hair, shaved myself wholy, bought feminine clothes, got on a diet & exercices, pondered on getting on HRT, and gave it all up after a few months.
>>44069293oh manyou really are gonna john 50 hard, sorry
>>44069301Again, like I'm speaking of all that in the past tense though.I mean really, what proof would you need to accept that I'm at peace with myself right now.Sure, I am not God, I do not know the future if where I am 50, but does it really sound impossible to you, is it really impossible for you to envision someone becoming at peace with themselves onto their deathbed without john 50ing ?Is it that unheard of ?
>>44069374you all sound the same, just like I used to lol
>>44069062I stopped feeling dysphoric when I turned 20 or 21.
>>44069374>john 50ingI would love to be this! When you are John 50 you obviously have not transitioned yet and you don't really have to transition if you make it that far.
>>44069062are you sure you weren't just not trans and were confused?
>>44069384I see, but maybe you just don't hear anymore of those who have truly turned the page and moved on with their lives.We'll see. I am making my choices and will continue trying to make my choices with the goal to remain at peace with myself.We'll see what the results will be.If by some miracle I am still here at age 50, I'll update you by saying>Hey, remember me from 27 years ago ?And you will say no. And I will cry.
>>44069446what actually makes you think you're different or that it's just magically gone away?
>>44069407Yeah same mostly, actually.>>44069417Well, I pity those who do, and I wonder what thought process they follow that leads them to throw everything away to follow this objectively worse choice for themselves.>>44069421Well you tell me.I have had people say that to me today because I am disgusted by the idea of srs, if that helps your case.
>>44069453My mind is not occupied by my gender anymore. I have chosen for myself a reason to live, and forged my identity around this reason to live. This reason becomes my identity, and my identity is now founded on something much more stable than my gender.This reason takes a lot of place in my mind, and overrides the obsession with gender I had. Especially when this reason dictates to me to stop caring about my appearance and that living humbly, poorly, is a good thing.
>>44069530wow that's gigacucked
>>44069062The reason is because it's a cult. They're trying to get you to join their cult.
>>44069453>>44069530I think that having such a reason is what a lot of people lack today, and that, by only having their own self and their pleasure as reasons for living, it renders them slaves to themselves and their desires, and obviously makes it impossible to deal with dysphoria in any other capacity than embracing it.
>>44069550you sound like you're just terrified and fleeing material reality to embrace some kind of pseudo-spiritual existence
>>44069540I was fearing such an answer. How sad. I guess I really am out of touch with my time.
>>44069561Well seing how you reacted to my previous statement, I don't think you care about a more detailed explanation.
>>44069596because I said your approach is cucking yourself out of agency or acknowledging the reality of your physical existence? lmaogood luck, see you at 50!
>>44069293You're doomed i think. Sorry I don't make the rules. Hopefully mpb doesn't progress too far before you figure it out
>>44069062Perhaps everybody is different and the same thing won't work the same way for everyone...Nah no way that couldn't be it, my universal panacea is the real one.
>>44069119> I've learned to stop caring about looks, about how I see myself in the mirror. I don't want to be attractive, I just want to be healthy and to care about important stuff.>Being a moid or a foid really doesn't matter to me anymore.I'm trying to live with same attitude for the last 5 years, but I can't beat dysphoria, I'm still suffering... I only know that transition would make me suffer more.
>>44069607Cucking myself out of agency ? Making myself blind to the reality of my physical existence ?To be perfectly honest, I struggle to see how. But that's a detailed answer, so you must have some pretty interesting thoughts on it. I'd like to hear them.
>>44069062oooooh Dofus movie !!! You french ?apart from that i'm happy for you if you managed to overcame it foreverI hope it never come back and you can live a happy life !
>>44069612If I'm still around, I'll keep you people updated.>>44069630Interesting picrel>>44069647As I've said above and in other threads, I believe the key to the alternative route to transitioning is finding a way to build your identity on something else than gender, so that gender becomes secondary or even tertiary to your reason of living.
>>44069702Oui, j'ai eu la chance de pouvoir regarder le film au cinéma. Malheureusement, ce bijoux a flop au box office. Mais je l'ai téléchargé sur clef USB, tellement il est bien.Well I hope too. Thanks for the kind words.
>>44069722Soon la nouvelle saison de Wakfu !!
>>44069745Incroyable j'étais pas au courant. Je vais aller check ça ASAP !
>>44069530Let me guess, the reason is:>Living for someone elseYou're going to troon sorry
>>44069841Monasticism, if you want details. I am moving closer to the monastery I might wanna become a postulant in, in maybe a few years if everything goes well. We'll see.
>>44069062>I believe I overcame dysphoria without transitioning>to prove it, I am posting about it on /tttt/ >but it's chill cuz I'm inb4 the sus crowd>I will now leave this board forever and live a happy, fulfilled life as a man never thinking about or telling anyone about this ever again for as long as I live>right after I finish replying to everyone on this thread
I kept telling that to myself and I just ended up old and hrt repping
>>44069062how do i deal with it? im 29 and its as bad as ever. hrt didnt even help really. i think im gonna do something bad soon
>>44069062at the end of the day it is your life and your bodily autonomy... dont wanna transition? then dont. but understand that not everyone is capable of just. not having a debilitating misery caused from GD. dont perpetuate this as something that is at all the norm for folk, and accept a lot of people will tell you you either are a repper who will regret it or were never fr experiencing it due to how the understanding of GD is currently. at the end of the day you are in the more privileged position, the treatment sucks but at the end of the day being cissexual is the luckier position regardless.... hope this does not sound rude peace and love
>>44069062Manifesting this, I will learn to accept that I'm a cis man.
>>44069708how long do you plan to stick around here for anyway? this board isn’t exactly conducive for maintaining your peace of mind.
>>44069935Is this a trollYou're so scared of being a tranny you're going lock yourself into an abbey and do meditation all day?
