>be trans girl dating cis boy>boyfriend posted saying he doesn't see trans women who aren't passing as women>also said that if you don't pass then you shouldn't be allowed anywhere near HRT>trans friends saw what he posted>got really angry at upset at him then at me>want me to break up with him because he's a transphobe>don't want to break up with him because i love him>told them that i don't want to break up with him>they got really angry at me and said that if i keep dating him they'll kick me out of our discord and stop talking to me>not sure what to doi told my bf to stop posting about trannies and he said okay but i think the damage is done...
>>44075161Your bf is a piece of shitLike if you're gonna be lookist about HRT it should just be about maximizing the number of trannies who get HRT early in life
>>44075161Your boyfriend is obscenely based.
>>44075161I am a cis man with a trans girlfriend and I have the same opinions as your boyfriend. Sure it's transphobic but it's better in the long term. Do you really want to share a community with linebackers in skirts?
>>44075186also manmoding and HRT reppingLike, gatekeep presentation not medicine
>>44075161leaving your boyfriend who you love for your retarded troon discord friends is dumb. he’s just saying the truth that they don’t want to hear.
>>44075161>you need to pass before you take the pass potionWhat did he mean by this?In all seriousness he sounds like a cynical asshole or at the very least unwilling to consider the thoughts and feelings of trans people. Given you are one you should frankly be more critical of him.
>>44075186I'm fine with trannies starting HRT when they're young but my position on hons not being allowed on it is still the same.
>if you don't pass then you shouldn't be allowed anywhere near HRTyour bf is kind of based OP but this is the only part I don't get. many would not pass without HRT
>>44075275Why is the problem HRT and not just honnery?
>>44075272HRT is not a pass position. Sure it can take someone who doesn't pass and make them pass but only because the groundwork to pass is already there. It doesn't create new groundwork, it just finishes what's already there.
>>44075302It kinda does depending on starting age
>>44075161your bf is based and probably all of your friends who got mad are theyfabs or something like that
>>44075302This. If you're a manly ogre with a chiseled Chad chin and 50 inch shoulders then no amount of estrogen is fixing that.
>>44075161waow (BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED BASED)
>>44075161Good for your friends.
>>44075161Ignore the rest of the posts, what are your boyfriends stats and can you realistically do better?
>>44075421I'm being so real, there is no one more hypergamous than straight trannies lmfao
>>44075568him having those views make him worse of a partner, but if he excels in other aspects he's worth keeping and the discord friends should be ignored. If he's a typical guy then she should dump him. why is this wrong?
gatekeeping other people's bodily autonomy in any way is fundamentally evil and a position that could only be held by subhumans but its a long time since i stopped deluding my self that im not living on a planet of monkeys so whatever
>>44075583reducing people to a checklist of stats and qualities is extremely counterproductive to the cultivation of any genuine love. it's fine to want the best for yourself when looking for a partner but if she has really found love she should not subject it to measurement
those friends sound like a bunch of fucking theyfabs.
